So I think some of the novelty in my relationship is gone and now she says she can't stand to kiss me

She says it's because we're stuck infront of the tv all the time and I don't know she just doesn't want to anymore. She thinks maybe if we stop watching tv and do other things she could change and want to kiss me when I want to kiss her

But we can't overly do anything else anymore, we're both poor, she doesn't want to fuck with me very often either

So how do we do something that isn't watching tv and doing homework

And so she doesn't get mad at me, she does kiss me and she does fuck me, but only in instances where we haven't been sitting doing nothing.

I don't think the relationship is worth it if she acts like this, my family is tearing me apart because of this shit, especially my mom who doesn't want some bi as a daughter, and my ex boyfriend loves me and would rape me if he had any guts and I just feel like I just had a turnaround and i was happy and then all the sudden I was ditched

I'm so much in love it's just, I don't know how much pain I can take. It hurts when the person you love doesn't want to kiss you and I've tried to change things

Does anyone know what to do? Some way to make it so she doesn’t feel like we’re some old couple who sits at home watching tv?

So... don't continue sitting on your nuts in front of the TV.

That's really not cool that she's withholding KISSES because of your lifestyle. But she does kinda have a point, doesn't she?

Dude, I'm sorry to have to suggest this, but it's the answer to your troubles. Get a job. You'll seem like a better man, and you'll have money to go out.

quote:Originally posted by StillArmedStillAngry:

So... don't continue sitting on your nuts in front of the TV.



I'm not sure the OP is a guy... What he said except nuts = vagina

Go out for a walk, or a drive with her. Stop at a park (or a pretty place, i.e. the ocean, a riverbank, a tall hill overlooking the city - just something interesting) just sit down, and talk. People tend to feel more connected to other people when they aren't both focusing on a television, and instead are looking and talking to eachother.

Cook something she likes with her. Then sit down, face to face and eat. Even if you aren't actively conversational, she'll feel more like you are paying attention to her, instead of you both just watching TV.

Or, for a simple fix, just turn the tv off for awhile. Sit and talk. Ask her what sorts of things she would like to do.