Has anyone found subtleties that clue you into a girl being easy (or otherwise, likely to put out...not a prude/innocent)? Like, there are obvious sluts of course, but there are also girls that look like prudes but definitely aren't. I go to clubs and pubs and the like and it'd be a lot more...efficient to walk in and narrow it down quickly. Also note that I'm talking about the 18-20 age group (Canada, fyi). I'm aware a lot is based on the guy's work, but...I'm also aware that a LOT of information comes out of body language. To simplify and clarify this post a bit, what are things you can get from body language whwen you walk into a club. When you are looking around, scoping out potential girls, can you learn significant info from subtle body language?



[This message has been edited by DerDrache (edited 09-17-2006).]

Strong 'i like you' signals would probably make the most sense. Can't really help you more than that, since I don't club.

There are so many idiotic,immature assumptions and preconceptions in your post that i don't know where to start flaming....and that is saying something.

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:



Go hit your kid, trailer trash.

Do i sound american??!!!

Jesus, now i am insulted.

(trailer trash in brit would be something like 'pikey' or 'diddicoy')

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

There are so many idiotic,immature assumptions and preconceptions in your post that i don't know where to start flaming....and that is saying something.



Edited for clarity/specificity...if you still have a problem then you should clarify. Sitting around thinking about slapping your kids and telling people that they are stupid isn't very productive.

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:



Edited for clarity/specificity...if you still have a problem then you should clarify. Sitting around thinking about slapping your kids and telling people that they are stupid isn't very productive.



You called me an American! Ain't no way i'm letting a mortal insult like that go unpunished. I suggest you start thinking up a new user name.

:P

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:



You called me an American! Ain't no way i'm letting a mortal insult like that go unpunished. I suggest you start thinking up a new user name.

:P

...

You're not doing the Brits much service. If I interpret all this correctly, you're a 40ish year old British guy that asks Totse if he should hit his kid for taking tobbacco, and thinks "American" is a "mortal insult".

Let's get back on topic.

Just the fact you think in terms of 'putting out','sluts' and you don't want 'to waste your time' tells any adult reading your post that there is little point in giving you any sort of hints/tips/pointers...not til you've corrected your attitude.

And if you start talking about 'reaching 2nd base' then i will be forced to delete this thread.

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

Just the fact you think in terms of 'putting out','sluts' and you don't want 'to waste your time' tells any adult reading your post that there is little point in giving you any sort of hints/tips/pointers...not til you've corrected your attitude.

And if you start talking about 'reaching 2nd base' then i will be forced to delete this thread.

Ah, I see then. In regard to the "sluts", I was pointing out that if you go into a club you're bound to see obvious sluts. I wouldn't necessarily be into them, but that's beside the point.

It doesn't matter though, I tried to clarify what I was talking about. I'm basically interested in what sexual information you can gather from body language when you walk into this type of place, if anything.

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:

Ah, I see then. In regard to the "sluts", I was pointing out that if you go into a club you're bound to see obvious sluts. I wouldn't necessarily be into them, but that's beside the point.

It doesn't matter though, I tried to clarify what I was talking about. I'm basically interested in what sexual information you can gather from body language when you walk into this type of place, if anything.



Have you ever really thought about why you're mentally labelling them as 'sluts'?

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:

Ah, I see then. In regard to the "sluts", I was pointing out that if you go into a club you're bound to see obvious sluts. I wouldn't necessarily be into them, but that's beside the point.

It doesn't matter though, I tried to clarify what I was talking about. I'm basically interested in what sexual information you can gather from body language when you walk into this type of place, if anything.

Some people see me at the club and think me a slut. Truth is, the guys I'm pressing up against and having fun with are all gay. And it's all in good fun with no intentions behind it. But I've definitely been mislabeled a slut. It's not easy walking down high school hallways with a huge basketball like tummy provoking ignorant teenage minds. I am definitely not a slut. And I think that the girls around you at least deserve a fair chance before you try to figure out your stereotypes.



[This message has been edited by Hardly There (edited 09-17-2006).]

I'll grant you that all the girls that are dressed like sluts aren't actually sluts, but if they are wearing the costume then they are asking for it. That said, more useful information from a girl in "slut attire" would probably be that she loves attention, not necessarily that she'll spread her legs easily.

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:

I'll grant you that all the girls that are dressed like sluts aren't actually sluts, but if they are wearing the costume then they are asking for it. That said, more useful information from a girl in "slut attire" would probably be that she loves attention, not necessarily that she'll spread her legs easily.

I don't wear 'slut attire.' I wear something that will make me feel good about myself. I'm not seeking attention. Anyone that I wanted to impress is already there dancing with me. I am no attention whore.

Only you can set the perimeter's of your stereotypes.

Seriously. Call what ever you want to call a slut a slut.

quote:Originally posted by DerDrache:

I'll grant you that all the girls that are dressed like sluts aren't actually sluts, but if they are wearing the costume then they are asking for it. That said, more useful information from a girl in "slut attire" would probably be that she loves attention, not necessarily that she'll spread her legs easily.



You see? What gives you the right to label a girl as a slut and yet ask for tips on getting laid (cos that IS what you're asking in the final instance).

Lose the judgemental attitude and you won't need any tips.

I thought he was married?

Can't we just fucking give this guy a straight answer? I mean, we can all sit around all day debating whether labelling girls 'sluts' for doing what every man wants to do is right or wrong, but as far as I can see it the use of the term in this topic is purely for simplicity's sake - everyone knows what you mean if you suggest a girl is a slut' regardless of how you regard the term and its usage.

As for finding girls who "put out" but aren't obviously "sluts" - just try some light flirting and see how they respond. Or watch other men lightly flirt and see how they respond. Not that quantity and quality of flirting is a certain way of measuring how likely a girl is to be up-for-it (sometimes it can be quite the opposite) but it's the only obvious mildly related factor aside from her actively telling you about her sexual exploits.

[This message has been edited by jca- (edited 09-17-2006).]

Hmm, last december I went to see a DJ in NYC with my ex and his friends and their gfs.

It was the middle of winter in the city, the wore short skirts. VERY SHORT SKIRTS, fish-nets, a peice of fabric as a shirt, and stilletos. Then at the club they proceeded to grind together for attention, and pole dance.

I've never found any two females more replusive in my life. They, in my eyes, were sluts.

One was single the other had a boyfriend, and her boyfriend even commented "why is my girlfriend dressed like a hooker and dancing like a stripper?"

And the single one, was easy, she got 3 numbers that night.

Ohyeah and http://www.becomeaplayer.com/

Has signs, and what not. I remember finding the site when joking about teaching a guy how to come onto a chick.

Being a psych major I found that a lot of it actually is accurate, and things you learn about. Mainly the body language. a good 75% of that stuff is a joke though.

[This message has been edited by ShouldTrip (edited 09-17-2006).]