This might be one of those "idiot girl" questions I've been kinda ranting about all day, but meh. I've been drinking a bit, I'm permitted to be somewhat more girly than usual.

I went to a pub with my b/f tonight to meet up with some of my friends. I happened to run into an old (male) friend of mine, and me and another friend of mine (female) spent a large portion of the night sitting with him and his friends.

Uno, I haven't seen him in months, and we used to be pretty much best friends. And two, completely platonic.

I think my b/f is a little mad about it. Which I kind of understand, but also not, because he knew he could have wandered over at any time and sat down and talked with us. And then after, when we were leaving, he ran into these 2 chicks and talked to them for a while, and I was right there, and he didn't even bother to introduce me, or even tell me who they were after.

Wow, this seems retarded now that I've written it all out... but anyway, tell me I didn't do anything wrong so I stop feeling guilty about nothing. Thankee!

<3

Just sounds like he's a bit jealous, and was retaliating.

I don't think you did anything wrong, really, although you could have invited your boyfriend over/payed more attention to him.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Just sounds like he's a bit jealous, and was retaliating.

I don't think you did anything wrong, really, although you could have invited your boyfriend over/payed more attention to him.

Right on.

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I really don't like you drunk. You ended your message with <3, I mean honestly...

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Just sounds like he's a bit jealous, and was retaliating.

I don't think you did anything wrong, really, although you could have invited your boyfriend over/payed more attention to him.

Bang on.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

This might be one of those "idiot girl" questions I've been kinda ranting about all day, but meh. I've been drinking a bit, I'm permitted to be somewhat more girly than usual.

I went to a pub with my b/f tonight to meet up with some of my friends. I happened to run into an old (male) friend of mine, and me and another friend of mine (female) spent a large portion of the night sitting with him and his friends.

Uno, I haven't seen him in months, and we used to be pretty much best friends. And two, completely platonic.

I think my b/f is a little mad about it. Which I kind of understand, but also not, because he knew he could have wandered over at any time and sat down and talked with us. And then after, when we were leaving, he ran into these 2 chicks and talked to them for a while, and I was right there, and he didn't even bother to introduce me, or even tell me who they were after.

Wow, this seems retarded now that I've written it all out... but anyway, tell me I didn't do anything wrong so I stop feeling guilty about nothing. Thankee!

<3

Don't expect your boyfriend to "know" he could have come over at any time. You should invite him over, infact first thing you should have introduced him to the guy. That way your boyfriend wouldn't feel threatened at all or upset because he would then actually know that you are more than happy to have him join you. By not introducing him, or expecting him to already know he could have come over at any time (and by you saying he could come over, i am guessing you ditched him) he may have been questioning whether you were putting it out there to guys that you have a boyfriend, or if you were choosing not to say anything so you can keep some flirty doors open.

thus his behavior later with the two girls. he was getting back you. you did it to him, he did it to you. don't be pissed at him for doing something you did to him.

I love women.

He did the same thing you did, and somehow HE is the prick?

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Just sounds like he's a bit jealous, and was retaliating.

I don't think you did anything wrong, really, although you could have invited your boyfriend over/payed more attention to him.

WINNAAHH!!!

Yea, I think this basically sums up everything.

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

I really don't like you drunk. You ended your message with <3, I mean honestly...

Hehe, sorry dude. Totse always tells me how mean I am, I was trying to be niceish for once. Guess it failed...

Aren't things on the way out with your boyfriend?

I seem to remember you posting about that.

If things are ending, then what you described sounds about dead on.

If not, it still sounds normal. Maybe a bit rude on both parts.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Hehe, sorry dude. Totse always tells me how mean I am, I was trying to be niceish for once. Guess it failed...

Your recent streak of niceishness is noticed.

It's almost like you aren't from Edmonton.

quote:Originally posted by Euda:

Aren't things on the way out with your boyfriend?

I seem to remember you posting about that.

If things are ending, then what you described sounds about dead on.

If not, it still sounds normal. Maybe a bit rude on both parts.

Things with us are really up and down. Friday night I was super pissed at him, last night we were awesome again, until the thing at the pub happened, but we're still good. The good far outweighs the bad though, I just overreact when we get in a fight or something.

And the nice thing, I really gotta stop. Totse's my rage-venting place. No more of this bottling crap. I might snap.

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

No more of this bottling crap. I might snap.



Snap elsewhere.