So, there is this girl that I met at the end of June. I met her through work, and we quickly 'bonded' real good. After we had shifts together, we would always talk outside in the parking lot by our cars for like and hour or two. I guess at the start she thought I was old or something, until one day I told her it was my birthday, and she asked how old I was turning 18-19, and I told her 16. She wouldn't believe me for a bit (haha in a playful way). At first I thought this would change how she talked to me, and treated me... but it really didn't. Anyways, I find out she has a boyfriend of like 2 or 3 years, and I had a girlfriend at the time, so it was no big deal.

Skipping ahead... she went back to university and I went back to high school. We talk a lot on the phone, and recently her and her boyfriend broke up with her. Whenever we talk she tells me (and it seems) it always puts her in a better mood. And recently she has started being more... flirtious towards me. Like randomly she sends me an email that says "Thanks for everything". And just tonight, I just got back from a high school dance, and she texted me in the middle and said "Hey baby, I'm quite drunk so just texting you to say hey and luv you and hope ur havin fun xoxo. talk to you later baby". Whaaat do I take from this?! Like normally, if it was a girl my age, I'd understand more. And it's not like she totally forgets my age, she ALWAYS brings it up. She always in a joking way "Oh thats right you wouldn't know, you're only 16."

Now, I don't see her that often, like maybe once a month if I'm lucky. Which is no big deal really... I'm not really expecting much out of it, I'm just trying to understand what she's feeling.

Oh yeah, she is turning twenty in october.

So basically, I'm just kind of wondering what the older women on totse think of younger guys. And what she is feeling... if I'm just a friend or what? (Ps, I'm totally fine with being just a friend, it's not like I have an insane passion for her in that way).

Thaaanks guys!

proceed with caution! it's entirely possible the attention from another guy makes her feel better after a breakup, it doesn't nessicarily say much about you. Also, drunk women are the devil incarnate, don't believe their filthy lies.

Hey man, you should turn the tables, calling her an 'OOOOOOOOOLLLLLD WOMAN'

Almost 20 aswell, damn. When I was 15 I met up with 2 girls who were 18, and 19. But back then I didn't really know howto handle the situation, so it didn't pan out.

So if you know how to deal with this situation then go for it, goto her house or something.

When I was a freshman I met some Junior senior chicks and they thought I was a pretty cool guy. I really liked the one but she had a boyfriend of like 2 years and he was in Iraq theres no chance and I knew it. So i was just going to be friends with her because she was a really cool person and I liked my upperclass friends better than my others. So we were 'friends' and she was pretty quick so Im sure she figured out that i really liked her. Now we didnt actually hang out much mostly saying hi in the hallways BUT when we were together like this one time in the school auditorium she fucking comes in a nd sits on my lap. I was like k... wtf? I didnt mind but it was odd. Now thinking back she just loved the attention I gave her. Kinda pisses me off but what do you do?

well that was just a personal story I dont have any advice for you

Haha thanks for all the advice. Yeah, I might try turning the tables a bit, and commenting on how old she is as a joke.

Any advice from the ladies on Totse?

quote:Originally posted by rabbitweed:

Also, drunk women are the devil incarnate, don't believe their filthy lies.

Ha ha... quoted for painful Truth.