*post posting edit* I guess i might get a couple tl/dr's (no...not in s&a), but heres the main jist:
-new gf
-shes kinda uncomfortable doin stuff beyond making out
-im not
-good places to rub/kiss while making out?
and now the long way
Well, im dating this girl, shes had sex once, but never given or recieved oral. She loves to make out though, and I enjoy it too, but I'd like to move on eventually.
I'm fine with waiting to have sex for a while, i can understand why she would be uncomfortable with that, and she said she would like to have a real connection with who she does it with, and so do I, so that time might be closer than i think, but maybe not.
I was just wondering if there are any things i could do while we are making out that would get her in the mood. So i suppose my question would be: What are some good erogenous (sp? right word even?) zones that i could rub or kiss that might get her in the mood, or at least feel nice if she wont budge on the issue.
I've already told her i wont try to force anything on her, and that i would like to get everything between us out in the open. Turns out she has never even masturbated, she said she would explain why some other day, after she does some thinking about it. I do believe that she is telling the truth about this, just because its one of those things that you can kind of tell by the conversation we've been having. (more on this when i find out why, im gonna tell her that it's gread, because it really is
)
But anywho..i suppose i've been rambling quite a bit in this post, im in a damn talkative mood today!
comments/anything welcome!
[This message has been edited by ottomann (edited 09-15-2006).]
2006-09-15, 02:10
Tips for making out and moving on ?