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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2006-09-13, 04:06
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gadzooks 
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The Female Courting Process
Am I the only one who finds it funny (in a bittersweet kind of way), that the female courting process must be broken down into such a complex structure?
It's actually kinda pathetic that it needs to be studied like some kind of science or art form.
This is why I'm so sexist. Women will always have the upper hand, and yet they act as if they have it so hard.
Hookers, fleshlights, and drunk chicks FTW.
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#2
 2006-09-13, 04:12
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Re: The Female Courting Process
Typical Male-Created Threads in S&A:
- I can't get laid.
- I can't get a girlfriend.
- How do I get this girl to like me?
- How do I impress my girlfriend?
- I just got dumped.
Typical Female-Created Threads in S&A:
- I have to choose between these 2 guys that both like me. HELP!
- Guys won't stop trying to get in my pants.
- I think I might be pregnant.
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#3
 2006-09-13, 04:22
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Re: The Female Courting Process
So true, so true.
It's been a bit of a rude shock this year. After leaving highschool and those parties dying off, I've gone out to a lot of pubs.
It sucks.
Now a guy of the same age doesn't have a chance, and as an 18 year old (minimum drinking age), that kinda sucks.
Age+ Money = Success!
[This message has been edited by CatharticWeek (edited 09-13-2006).]
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#4
 2006-09-13, 04:26
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Re: The Female Courting Process
You are exactly correct.
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#5
 2006-09-13, 05:11
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CatharticWeek:
So true, so true.
It's been a bit of a rude shock this year. After leaving highschool and those parties dying off, I've gone out to a lot of pubs.
It sucks.
Now a guy of the same age doesn't have a chance, and as an 18 year old (minimum drinking age), that kinda sucks.
So lie about your age?
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#6
 2006-09-13, 07:37
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Re: The Female Courting Process
So why not study it? The Female Courting PRoscess=hackable. It's called social engineerig.
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#7
 2006-09-13, 08:04
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by a1b2c3d4c5d6e:
You are exactly correct.
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#8
 2006-09-13, 08:05
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by hedonist:
So why not study it? The Female Courting PRoscess=hackable. It's called social engineerig.
Yeah, really, women are as easy to control as men (if not easier). It's all about how much you just want something. Do you just want sex? Do you want a relationship? Do you want a life together?
At any rate women are just animals, like you and I, that can be controlled.
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#9
 2006-09-13, 11:20
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gadzooks 
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by hedonist:
So why not study it? The Female Courting PRoscess=hackable. It's called social engineerig.
That's my whole point. Why should we be the ones who have to study it?
For females, it's exponentially easier. Look good, dress nice, flirt a little bit, and you're pretty much guaranteed your choice of the guys at whatever venue you're attending.
If you're a guy... it's a whole other ball game.
Of course, it is all a part of life, and not much can be done about it.
I just wish more females would gain a deeper understanding from the male perspective.
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#10
 2006-09-13, 11:33
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by ararise:
So lie about your age?
Because being a 25 year old that looks like an 18 year old is probably even worse.
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#11
 2006-09-13, 11:37
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
That's my whole point. Why should we be the ones who have to study it?
For females, it's exponentially easier. Look good, dress nice, flirt a little bit, and you're pretty much guaranteed your choice of the guys at whatever venue you're attending.
If you're a guy... it's a whole other ball game.
Of course, it is all a part of life, and not much can be done about it.
I just wish more females would gain a deeper understanding from the male perspective.
What you fail to realise is that most women don't want just ANY guy or just sex.
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#12
 2006-09-13, 11:47
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
What you fail to realise is that most women don't want just ANY guy or just sex.
Right... which further proves my point that women are much too difficult to please.
Tone it down a notch sista. We try hard enough as it is.
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#13
 2006-09-13, 12:05
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
What you fail to realise is that most women don't want just ANY guy or just sex.
Women want sex MUCH MORE than most any guy I know... I should know, as I make it MY DUTY to talk to women and learn their mindsets.
Women just surpress it better than a guy. And, sadly, that's why women bitch about men always being horny.
Of course, though, there are always wo/men that don't want sex, at all, or that much. You're just a freak, then, though. 
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#14
 2006-09-13, 12:07
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Re: The Female Courting Process
I agree somewhat, but there are many sluts around who want nothing but good sex with no strings.
Heres a few bio's of girls that ive fucked recently...
They dont want relationships, just a good box smashing..
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About Me-Im 21yo female bi blonde, like to keep fit. I Work as a waitress on weekends, but free during the week.
Im really just wanting to try as much as possible. I dont want to miss out. It seems that all my friends have done it all and I want my turn ... I want to try kinky things that I cant tell my future boyfriends, things like DP, anal, cum ... and any other wild things u can suggest to me.
I am not normally like that, this is just a fantasy I want to fulfill before I find a boyfriend. So dont ask to go out to the movies or catch up for coffee, this is not what Im here for. I have a small appartment in the city we can use.
I have verified myself, and have listed my phone number, so only genuine people only, Im not looking for losers who just want to hide behind their PCs, just call me when you want to meet, dont waste my time.Ideal MatchI would like a clean, but horny guy, woman or couple (or maybe even two men - or 3! (I wonder what it feels like to have every hole filled at once? Tell me your naughtiest, kinkiest, sexiest, dirtiest things you will do to me and I will send you my number UPDATE: As you can imagine, I have been getting quite a few messages, its much easier if you just call me (my number is listed), I dont have the time to answer all messages.My Interests Discreet 1-on-1 sex / Group Sex (4 or more)I Enjoy Regular vanilla sex / Parties and orgies / Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / BDSM (whips & chains etc.) / Oral Sex/Mutual masturbation / Fetishes & Role PlayMy Redhot FantasyI would love to be in a secret, underground dungeon, with whips, chains and a leather collar indulging in hours of hot, unbridled sex.
Marital Status: Single
Sexual Orientation: Bisexual
Participation Level: Play meets only
Safe Sex: If Required
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5 ft 6 in
Race: Caucasian
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Non-smoker
Another--
Instead of going through most of the bullshit of finding and meeting people to have fun with in real life, I decided to try some more online meeting. Im not interested in being taken out and wined and dined and having a meaningful relationship and getting close and falling in love and finding a soul mate and being together exclusively. No, Im more interested in having fun, in having sex (with whoever, guys, girls, couples... Ive even pulled a train twice), in getting off and getting you off. No bullshit, just sex. Drop me a line and lets see what we can fit into our schedules.
Edit: Update: Wow! Since I started this account, Ive been getting nearly fifty messages per day! While I love all the attention, its obviously impossible to fuck that many people, so if youd like to get noticed, it would be best to include a picture or two. Ive noticed that Im stopping on the racier pictures for longer, so go wild. It could also be a good idea to wait for a week before writing.
And finally, since Im getting so many questions at a busy time in my life (Im in legal work) its going to take me some time to get back to people, so please be patient with me. Ideal MatchSomeone whos comfortable with their body and wants to have fun. If I hook up with a couple for a threesome, Id prefer it if they were comfortable with each other and didnt have too much in the way of jealousy issues with each other. I want to be in the bed to have fun with both of you. Guys should like getting blowjobs and being on bottom, or being in control and just fucking the shit out of me. Girls, well, Im open to pretty much anything with girls. Just let me know what youd like to do and well do it. If youre just looking for a first experience and youre curious, I think I can make it nice and sweet and make you cum like a freight train. Guys just cant eat pussy like I can. My Interests Group Sex (4 or more)I Enjoy Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / Oral Sex/Mutual masturbation / Fetishes & Role Play
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Marital Status: Attached
Sexual Orientation: Bisexual
Participation Level: Play meets only
Safe Sex: Sometimes
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5 ft 5 in
Race: Caucasian
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Light Smoker
About MeWe are a horny young couple looking for some hot fun.
We are willing to try just about anything.
Alana is young but has done it all she has taken 12 guys on and begged for more.
Shes totally into women as wellIdeal MatchWe are after couples groups and females possibly single guys No dick pxts and please must have a photo. My Interests Erotic chat or email/photo swap / Discreet 1-on-1 sex / Group Sex (4 or more) / MFM Threesomes (guys straight) / Same partner, same room sex / Foreplay swap / Swap partners for sexI Enjoy Regular vanilla sex / Parties and orgies / Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / BDSM (whips & chains etc.) / Fetishes & Role Play / Exhibitionism/Voyeurism/PhotosMy Redhot FantasyI would love to be in a private bedroom with silk sheets on the bed, with a lustful, imaginative lover indulging in hours of hot, unbridled sex.
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#15
 2006-09-13, 12:08
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CatharticWeek 
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
What you fail to realise is that most women don't want just ANY guy or just sex.
What and men don't want someone special? Sometimes you have to take whatever you can get or otherwise you end up a grouchy old cunt.
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#16
 2006-09-13, 13:08
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Gus:
Women want sex MUCH MORE than most any guy I know... I should know, as I make it MY DUTY to talk to women and learn their mindsets.
Women just surpress it better than a guy. And, sadly, that's why women bitch about men always being horny.
Of course, though, there are always wo/men that don't want sex, at all, or that much. You're just a freak, then, though.
Of course I want to have sex a lot...Why do you think I got married!:P
My husband is still hornier than me, though, but I think he is unusually virile.:/
And my point was that most of us women aren't just looking for a casual, one time encounter. I need to know and like and respect a guy before I want to get freaky with him. That is unless the guy in question is http://tinyurl.com/o5euw Then I might be able to dispense with the talking and stuff.:P
[This message has been edited by Xiao Mei (edited 09-13-2006).]
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#17
 2006-09-13, 17:52
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
And my point was that most of us women aren't just looking for a casual, one time encounter. I need to know and like and respect a guy before I want to get freaky with him. That is unless the guy in question is http://tinyurl.com/o5euw Then I might be able to dispense with the talking and stuff.:P
Ah right, WOMEN aren't... Girls, though, as most females are until they're... Thirty... Nine, maybe? Give or take ten years... Just wanna fuck. 
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#18
 2006-09-13, 17:56
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Re: The Female Courting Process
I'm 26 and I've been married since I was 17.:/
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#19
 2006-09-13, 17:58
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
That is unless the guy in question is http://tinyurl.com/o5euw Then I might be able to dispense with the talking and stuff.:P
You and me both, girl! He's soooo sexy even us straight blokes fancy him.
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#20
 2006-09-14, 02:46
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by jackketch:
You and me both, girl! He\'s soooo sexy even us straight blokes fancy him.
Unless he dyed his hair red, right \'ketch?
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#21
 2006-09-14, 04:12
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Re: The Female Courting Process
Pfft
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#22
 2006-09-14, 05:23
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by man_whore:
I agree somewhat, but there are many sluts around who want nothing but good sex with no strings.
Heres a few bio's of girls that ive fucked recently...
They dont want relationships, just a good box smashing..
--->
About Me-Im 21yo female bi blonde, like to keep fit. I Work as a waitress on weekends, but free during the week.
Im really just wanting to try as much as possible. I dont want to miss out. It seems that all my friends have done it all and I want my turn ... I want to try kinky things that I cant tell my future boyfriends, things like DP, anal, cum ... and any other wild things u can suggest to me.
I am not normally like that, this is just a fantasy I want to fulfill before I find a boyfriend. So dont ask to go out to the movies or catch up for coffee, this is not what Im here for. I have a small appartment in the city we can use.
I have verified myself, and have listed my phone number, so only genuine people only, Im not looking for losers who just want to hide behind their PCs, just call me when you want to meet, dont waste my time.Ideal MatchI would like a clean, but horny guy, woman or couple (or maybe even two men - or 3! (I wonder what it feels like to have every hole filled at once? Tell me your naughtiest, kinkiest, sexiest, dirtiest things you will do to me and I will send you my number UPDATE: As you can imagine, I have been getting quite a few messages, its much easier if you just call me (my number is listed), I dont have the time to answer all messages.My Interests Discreet 1-on-1 sex / Group Sex (4 or more)I Enjoy Regular vanilla sex / Parties and orgies / Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / BDSM (whips & chains etc.) / Oral Sex/Mutual masturbation / Fetishes & Role PlayMy Redhot FantasyI would love to be in a secret, underground dungeon, with whips, chains and a leather collar indulging in hours of hot, unbridled sex.
Marital Status: Single
Sexual Orientation: Bisexual
Participation Level: Play meets only
Safe Sex: If Required
Body Type: Athletic
Height: 5 ft 6 in
Race: Caucasian
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Non-smoker
Another--
Instead of going through most of the bullshit of finding and meeting people to have fun with in real life, I decided to try some more online meeting. Im not interested in being taken out and wined and dined and having a meaningful relationship and getting close and falling in love and finding a soul mate and being together exclusively. No, Im more interested in having fun, in having sex (with whoever, guys, girls, couples... Ive even pulled a train twice), in getting off and getting you off. No bullshit, just sex. Drop me a line and lets see what we can fit into our schedules.
Edit: Update: Wow! Since I started this account, Ive been getting nearly fifty messages per day! While I love all the attention, its obviously impossible to fuck that many people, so if youd like to get noticed, it would be best to include a picture or two. Ive noticed that Im stopping on the racier pictures for longer, so go wild. It could also be a good idea to wait for a week before writing.
And finally, since Im getting so many questions at a busy time in my life (Im in legal work) its going to take me some time to get back to people, so please be patient with me. Ideal MatchSomeone whos comfortable with their body and wants to have fun. If I hook up with a couple for a threesome, Id prefer it if they were comfortable with each other and didnt have too much in the way of jealousy issues with each other. I want to be in the bed to have fun with both of you. Guys should like getting blowjobs and being on bottom, or being in control and just fucking the shit out of me. Girls, well, Im open to pretty much anything with girls. Just let me know what youd like to do and well do it. If youre just looking for a first experience and youre curious, I think I can make it nice and sweet and make you cum like a freight train. Guys just cant eat pussy like I can. My Interests Group Sex (4 or more)I Enjoy Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / Oral Sex/Mutual masturbation / Fetishes & Role Play
Another-->
Her
Marital Status: Attached
Sexual Orientation: Bisexual
Participation Level: Play meets only
Safe Sex: Sometimes
Body Type: Slim
Height: 5 ft 5 in
Race: Caucasian
Drinking: Social Drinker
Smoking: Light Smoker
About MeWe are a horny young couple looking for some hot fun.
We are willing to try just about anything.
Alana is young but has done it all she has taken 12 guys on and begged for more.
Shes totally into women as wellIdeal MatchWe are after couples groups and females possibly single guys No dick pxts and please must have a photo. My Interests Erotic chat or email/photo swap / Discreet 1-on-1 sex / Group Sex (4 or more) / MFM Threesomes (guys straight) / Same partner, same room sex / Foreplay swap / Swap partners for sexI Enjoy Regular vanilla sex / Parties and orgies / Small, intimate gatherings / Anal Sex/Anal Play / BDSM (whips & chains etc.) / Fetishes & Role Play / Exhibitionism/Voyeurism/PhotosMy Redhot FantasyI would love to be in a private bedroom with silk sheets on the bed, with a lustful, imaginative lover indulging in hours of hot, unbridled sex.
This is how you get herpes.
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#23
 2006-09-14, 05:42
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
Of course I want to have sex a lot...Why do you think I got married!:P
My husband is still hornier than me, though, but I think he is unusually virile.:/
And my point was that most of us women aren't just looking for a casual, one time encounter. I need to know and like and respect a guy before I want to get freaky with him. That is unless the guy in question is http://tinyurl.com/o5euw Then I might be able to dispense with the talking and stuff.:P
i heard his penis was really small
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#24
 2006-09-14, 07:40
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
Right... which further proves my point that women are much too difficult to please.
Could you imagine if we took hot, sane, smart, cute, caring, into (real)metal \m/ young women and cloned them!
Hell yes!
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#25
 2006-09-14, 11:36
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Re: The Female Courting Process
women don't always have the upper hand wait till your thirties the whole dynamic flips around.
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#26
 2006-09-14, 11:53
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by spinnersean:
women don't always have the upper hand wait till your thirties the whole dynamic flips around.
Amen.
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#27
 2006-09-14, 12:17
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Gus:
[b]And my point was that most of us women aren't just looking for a casual, one time encounter. I need to know and like and respect a guy before I want to get freaky with him.
Hate to break it to you, but not all men are just looking for a one-night fling either. Notice the OP even mentions them having the upper-hand in relationships, not onenight stands.
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#28
 2006-09-14, 12:35
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Re: The Female Courting Process
^That's because the OP doesn't know shit about women, bags on guys for making threads asking about the supposed "scientific" reason behind dating women, only to have a thread questioning his own abilities with women.
Girls are the exact same as guys when it comes to looking for a mate, you say it is hard and they are in control, but actually a lot of good looking girls who are smart get turned down a lot. It just happens, most guys in their 20's just want sex.
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#29
 2006-09-14, 22:01
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
Girls are the exact same as guys when it comes to looking for a mate, you say it is hard and they are in control, but actually a lot of good looking girls who are smart get turned down a lot. It just happens, most guys in their 20's just want sex.
not rly.
WAIT A SEC... OMG... WHY HAVE I NOT REALIZED THIS YET!>???
CARBONB IS A VIRGIN!!
I feel so stupid for not noticing this beforehand.
Go ahead, flame me... for my poor observational skills.
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#30
 2006-09-14, 23:05
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Re: The Female Courting Process
Science to courting? Are you guys retarded?
Women aren't complex, neither are men. Either we recognize what we want deep down and seek it; or we run from it and find only vicarious happiness.
Those who see their deepest desire and seek to fulfill it would confuse the fuck out of you guys - social engineering doesn't work, methods and tactics don't work, no amount of courting works...only the real deal works.
Lucky for you though, you can find plenty of vain meaningless relationships in life that provide brief moments of relief from your misery!
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#31
 2006-09-14, 23:13
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Hexadecimal:
no amount of courting works...only the real deal works.
Then how is it supposed to happen? Two people don't just cross paths at the supermarket and immediately fall in love like in the movies.
This is real life, not fiction. There is a process involved.
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#32
 2006-09-14, 23:19
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
Then how is it supposed to happen? Two people don't just cross paths at the supermarket and immediately fall in love like in the movies.
This is real life, not fiction. There is a process involved.
There is a process, but it changes constantly and is completely uncontrollable. You're asking me to explain LOVE...I can easily explain random hook-ups and getting laid, but love is an entirely different thing. I know that it's based around mutual infatuation and respect...but I don't pretend to know how love actually develops. The chemistry of a meaningless fuck is simple though.
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#33
 2006-09-14, 23:22
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Re: The Female Courting Process
The pickup process is a precursor to love.
Not everyone has the luxury of being able to go out and be bombarded with offers for a relationship.
Some people have to work hard to get noticed.
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#34
 2006-09-14, 23:26
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Re: The Female Courting Process
The 'pick up' process is a precursor to a relationship of unequality...there may be continued infatuation for some months, sometimes even a year or two, but relationships that begin from the idea that you have to 'crack the code' to get with her, implies a natural inequality in the level between the partners, which over time gains more and more discord until you have the final peace before the final storm.
Nature brings imbalances back to equilibrium; humans take equilibrium, imagine an imbalance, and turn it into complete chaos.
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#35
 2006-09-14, 23:29
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Re: The Female Courting Process
There is almost always inequality in the beginning. Even the women attracting men at times, they have to change a few things to attract a certain guy they have their heart set on.
The chances of this "true love" you speak of occuring naturally seem to be pretty slim. So slim, in fact, that it would seem that most people who claim to be in an equal, loving relationship are just lying to themselves.
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#36
 2006-09-15, 00:00
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
not rly.
WAIT A SEC... OMG... WHY HAVE I NOT REALIZED THIS YET!>???
CARBONB IS A VIRGIN!!
I feel so stupid for not noticing this beforehand.
Go ahead, flame me... for my poor observational skills.
And you tell me I make baseless statements? You are a moron, and I hope that the next bitch you are awkward with gets fed up with your inability to find the right hole and shoves your dick into a garbage disposal.
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#37
 2006-09-15, 00:01
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
And you tell me I make baseless statements?
Well at least we're now playing the same game.
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
You are a moron, and I hope that the next bitch you are awkward with gets fed up with your inability to find the right hole and shoves your dick into a garbage disposal.
lol, k.
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#38
 2006-09-15, 00:25
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
There is almost always inequality in the beginning. Even the women attracting men at times, they have to change a few things to attract a certain guy they have their heart set on.
The chances of this "true love" you speak of occuring naturally seem to be pretty slim. So slim, in fact, that it would seem that most people who claim to be in an equal, loving relationship are just lying to themselves.
Most people who claim it are lying to themselves, hence massive divorce rates; most marraiges last only because of children and the individual's inability to cope with the single life after such a long period of partnership...it doesn't discount the existence of true love though.
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#39
 2006-09-15, 00:52
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Re: The Female Courting Process
"On Preston Platform, in the soft shoe shuffle dance
Brush away the ciggarette ash that's fallen down your pants
And as you sadly wonder
Does the nurse treat your old man the way she should
She made you tea ask for your autograph
...What a laugh!"
[This message has been edited by Xiao Mei (edited 09-15-2006).]
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#40
 2006-09-15, 00:55
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
not rly.
WAIT A SEC... OMG... WHY HAVE I NOT REALIZED THIS YET!>???
CARBONB IS A VIRGIN!!
I feel so stupid for not noticing this beforehand.
Go ahead, flame me... for my poor observational skills.
I support the lashing of CarbonB. lolol
Sup Zooks?
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#41
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^Who the fuck are you again?
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#42
 2006-09-15, 08:42
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the whole thing is fucked, guys have to try so hard to get the girl, and girls can just sit back and take their pick of which one they'll go out with, the girls should come to us for once!
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#43
 2006-09-15, 08:55
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I was too lazy to read any of the replies, but here is my two cents:
Yeah, women have it easier when it comes to getting laid...But men have all the power in society! I think that's a pretty fucking fair trade off, isn't it?
So I can have sex pretty much whenever I want? So fucking what? I'm going to work my ass off to graduate university and get a good job, only to be paid and respected less than a man who does the exact same thing.
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#44
 2006-09-15, 16:10
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The whole conversation's crap. Girls where makeup, look at the clothes they wear; they are boy crazy. If you the original commenter wants sex then wear nice clothes squirt aftershave in your hair and be cheerful and outgoing. And don't be choosy ugly girls need love too and you don't be looking at the mantlepiece when you're poking the fire.
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#45
 2006-09-15, 20:53
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Re: The Female Courting Process
Humans have the most fucked up mating rituals of any living creature on the planet. All the other species just make noises at eachother and fuck violently and endlessly. But we fill up entire sections of bookstores with our sex, and we still don't understand it.
Meh, instinct -- that's what it all comes down to. Stratagems are useless in the face of middle-school biology. The guys who get laid the most tend to be the most animalistic.
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#46
 2006-09-16, 14:34
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I was too lazy to read any of the replies, but here is my two cents:
Yeah, women have it easier when it comes to getting laid...But men have all the power in society! I think that's a pretty fucking fair trade off, isn't it?
So I can have sex pretty much whenever I want? So fucking what? I'm going to work my ass off to graduate university and get a good job, only to be paid and respected less than a man who does the exact same thing.
so id swap places on that front
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#47
 2006-09-19, 02:45
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quote:Originally posted by bazthefish:
so id swap places on that front
You'd trade more money/respect/power just so you could get laid a bit easier?
Ugh, I wish I was a man. 
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#48
 2006-09-19, 03:44
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
You'd trade more money/respect/power just so you could get laid a bit easier?
Ugh, I wish I was a man.
Money/respect/power aren't exactly the best life goals. Being the CEO of a company I'm sure is great, but it's a fuckton of work to get there if you're working your way up, and what most women bitch about without ever thinking about is that the people who usually do end up at the top are the men who kiss ass forever and work hard and maybe finally get somewhere after 20-30 years. Most don't, though. It's a rarity for ANYONE. I'll never be that business-owning CEO, and I don't really care. The respect they get is because they're feared. The power means a fuckload of responsibility and that they need to know what they're doing or they'll fuck the company and a lot of people will be out of jobs. I don't really want that kind of pressure.
Getting laid, however, is fun for everyone. Girls have no trouble with it. Guys have to work for it. If I want sex I have to dress well, smell nice, be attractive, have money, blahblahblah appear to possess whatever random qualities the girl thinks she wants and then somehow get her home with me. It's a lot of work. The girls here know they have power, and even the average ones don't give it up often.
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#49
 2006-09-19, 03:50
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"If a man could fuck in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house." - Dave Chappelle
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 2006-09-19, 09:19
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I was too lazy to read any of the replies, but here is my two cents:
Yeah, women have it easier when it comes to getting laid...But men have all the power in society! I think that's a pretty fucking fair trade off, isn't it?
Men have the power because they think rationally.
quote:
So I can have sex pretty much whenever I want? So fucking what? I'm going to work my ass off to graduate university and get a good job, only to be paid and respected less than a man who does the exact same thing.
Just think: If male labor costed less, combined with our superior skills, women wouldn't land a single job.
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
"If a man could fuck in a cardboard box, he wouldn't buy a house." - Dave Chappelle
Amen
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#51
 2006-09-19, 10:15
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Maybe females have more power because they're the ones that get pregnant? The game sucks, but stop complaining and get good at it. Whinging won't get you anywhere.
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#52
 2006-09-19, 16:12
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by RogueWarheart:
Men have the power because they think rationally.
Ha! Is that why society is in such a sad, sad state today? Because of thousands of years of men thinking rationally?
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#53
 2006-09-19, 16:34
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Ha! Is that why society is in such a sad, sad state today? Because of thousands of years of men thinking rationally?
So, you're implying that women are perfect, dumbass.
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#54
 2006-09-19, 16:56
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Ha! Is that why society is in such a sad, sad state today? Because of thousands of years of men thinking rationally?
It's a fact that men are more logical and rational then women. Why? Because you beings are just too emotional.
Not saying that there isn't a rational woman, just that overall men are more rational.
Anyone here about the Dean getting a lot of shit at an Ivy League for saying that men genuinely do better in math/science then their female counterpart?
Yea, they don't want to bring up sexism, but it's true. Men = logical, Women = emotional.
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#55
 2006-09-19, 17:22
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Ha! Is that why society is in such a sad, sad state today? Because of thousands of years of men thinking rationally?
This is a paradise compared to what women would have made of it, I'm sure. Notice how there has to be a seperate "Woman's ____" for everything? The first woman to win the Nobel Prize. The Women's League. The only woman to do _____. I'll give you a little hint... That's not all because of discimination. 
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#56
 2006-09-19, 18:27
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quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
Yea, they don't want to bring up sexism, but it's true. Men = logical, Women = emotional.
Earlier you said there was little to no difference in men and women.
Suddenly there is?
How can their courting processes be the same when we think and function so differently?
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
Girls are the exact same as guys when it comes to looking for a mate
TAKE YOUR CONTRADICTIONS AND GTFO!
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#57
 2006-09-19, 19:04
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quote:Originally posted by Aseren:
So, you're implying that women are perfect, dumbass.
No, not at all. But like I said, look where society is today. I really think things would be different if women had more power. No world wars, no invasion of Iraq, etc.
And being emotional isn't necessarily a bad thing, either.
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#58
 2006-09-19, 19:20
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
No world wars, no invasion of Iraq, etc.
No computers... no healthcare... no cars... no skyscrapers... no great literature...
Thanks, but I'd like to keep the results of man-made progress. 
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#59
 2006-09-19, 19:37
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quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
No world wars, no invasion of Iraq, etc.
No computers... no healthcare... no cars... no skyscrapers... no great literature...
Thanks, but I'd like to keep the results of man-made progress.
No television... no phones... hell, we probably wouldn't have the fucking wheel yet.
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#60
 2006-09-19, 19:41
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quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
No world wars, no invasion of Iraq, etc.
No computers... no healthcare... no cars... no skyscrapers... no great literature...
Thanks, but I'd like to keep the results of man-made progress.
I never said men wouldn't exist. We would still have all those things if women were in power. The world would just be alot more peaceful, I think.
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#61
 2006-09-19, 19:42
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quote:Originally posted by jimbob11:
No television... no phones... hell, we probably wouldn't have the fucking wheel yet.
But at least we wouldn't have wars! Because women are never vicious.
Actually, she's probably right... we'd never have wars because women wouldn't be able to organize them. "Which side of the spear do I hold again?" 
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#62
 2006-09-19, 19:44
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
I never said men wouldn't exist. We would still have all those things if women were in power. The world would just be alot more peaceful, I think.
Wait, wait, wait. So... you're saying that even if men weren't in power, they'd still be able to invent things and so forth?
What, then, is your excuse for the failure of women to invent or contribute anything?  I mean, I thought it was because you were discriminated against and stuff!
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#63
 2006-09-19, 20:05
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
...if women had more power. No world wars, no invasion of Iraq...
There would be world wars, but the would start over someone telling another leader that dress makes them look fat. Countries may even go to war on a monthly basis.
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#64
 2006-09-19, 20:17
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You think there would be more peace with women in power, but that doesn't change the fact that the men always want and always do get into disagreements. There would be a lot more organizations of a terrorist nature I think (e.g. government won't do it, so why don't we!).
If women wanted men to be kept under control it would mean oppression and terror. It would be worse than countries that cut off your hand for stealing because they'd well, you know. Snip snip.
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#65
 2006-09-19, 20:25
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
That's my whole point. Why should we be the ones who have to study it?
For females, it's exponentially easier. Look good, dress nice, flirt a little bit, and you're pretty much guaranteed your choice of the guys at whatever venue you're attending.
If you're a guy... it's a whole other ball game.
If you're a guy, dress nicer, flirt a little bit, look good, and you're more likely to get attention, especially if you're laughing and having a good time, with whoever you're with.
Girls are less likely to approach the hot guy who's too cool to smile. Just makes them seem boring.
If I bangin' chick was standing in a corner with her arms crossed, not smiling, just being "cool"
And there was an almost as hot chick, joking around, dancing, smiling, having fun, whom would you rather be around?
Too many guys pull the "bad ass" now-a-days ^_^
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#66
 2006-09-19, 20:28
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
It's a fact that men are more logical and rational then women. Why? Because you beings are just too emotional.
Not saying that there isn't a rational woman, just that overall men are more rational.
Anyone here about the Dean getting a lot of shit at an Ivy League for saying that men genuinely do better in math/science then their female counterpart?
Yea, they don't want to bring up sexism, but it's true. Men = logical, Women = emotional.
Actually, guys mood swing more than woman, if you want to get right down to the biology of it.
How many girls do you see beating the shit out of each other vs guys?
Female serial killers? Female rapists/murderers/con artists.
But wait, you're the rational ones.
It's so disgustingly ignorant to say "Men are all more rational than women"
I think you belong in the 1800s.
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#67
 2006-09-19, 20:29
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
TAKE YOUR CONTRADICTIONS AND GTFO!
Where the fuck is the contradiction dipshit? I said that women and men are the same when looking for a PARTNER!
Do you not get it? Can you not fucking read? Women being emotional and men being logical does not relate to how they act when trying to get into a relationship.
I swear, you are the stupidest person I have seen on here in a long time. Except for Emc3.
Please, shut the fuck up, and then after that look up what the fuck contradiction means, then lookup what context means, and then put the two together and learn not to take things out of context and try to build an arguement off of it.
It might save you from looking like a complete jackass.
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#68
 2006-09-19, 21:07
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quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
Where the fuck is the contradiction dipshit? I said that women and men are the same when looking for a PARTNER!
You really think that such a huge difference in psychological function between both sexes wouldn't have any influence, whatsoever, on the mating process?
Wow.
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#69
 2006-09-19, 21:16
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Re: The Female Courting Process
The emotions behind men going about finding girls and how girls go about finding girls is the exact same.
If you didn't know this guys and girls both have the same type of emotions. I know it is hard for you to believe, but it's true.
A guy using his emotions in a logical manner as compared to a girl using hers in an illogical manner, does not disprove the fact that they both use the emotions in the same manner to get a partner.
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#70
 2006-09-19, 21:24
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
The emotions behind men going about finding girls and how girls go about finding girls is the exact same.
If you didn't know this guys and girls both have the same type of emotions. I know it is hard for you to believe, but it's true.
A guy using his emotions in a logical manner as compared to a girl using hers in an illogical manner, does not disprove the fact that they both use the emotions in the same manner to get a partner.
Getting a partner isn't just about emotions. It's also about what influences these emotions.
Oh no, wait, you probably believe in love at first sight or some crap like that.
No, there is a process. Initial attraction is not based on the emotions that you speak of.
GTFO. (http://tinyurl.com/hw34v)
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#71
 2006-09-19, 23:29
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quote:Originally posted by Twisted_Ferret:
Wait, wait, wait. So... you're saying that even if men weren't in power, they'd still be able to invent things and so forth?
What, then, is your excuse for the failure of women to invent or contribute anything?  I mean, I thought it was because you were discriminated against and stuff!
Yes, men would still be able to invent shit if women were in power.
The reason that women have contributed less is because until very recently it was unacceptable for them to do anything but stay home and take care of the kiddies. If child care responsibilities were split evenly between men and women, I'm sure brilliant inventions would be split fairly evenly among the sexes.
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#72
 2006-09-19, 23:45
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quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Yes, men would still be able to invent shit if women were in power.
The reason that women have contributed less is because until very recently it was unacceptable for them to do anything but stay home and take care of the kiddies. If child care responsibilities were split evenly between men and women, I'm sure brilliant inventions would be split fairly evenly among the sexes.
Take your feminist crap and gtfo.
1. You canot blame men for women staying home. There's no law that forces them.
2. Child care is something decided by the parents. If women want change, less bitching, more action?
3. No.
4. Women couldn't handle power. Rational thinking is a must for any type of responsibility. Women fail in that area.
5. GTFO
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#73
 2006-09-20, 00:04
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
Yes, men would still be able to invent shit if women were in power.
The reason that women have contributed less is because until very recently it was unacceptable for them to do anything but stay home and take care of the kiddies. If child care responsibilities were split evenly between men and women, I'm sure brilliant inventions would be split fairly evenly among the sexes.
Jeez sick, you're doing a horrible job of being the woman they want you to be.
You're making sense, you're speaking your mind.
Quickly! Before these ignorant bastards are forced to think! delete your post!
RogueWarheart Can we beat the shit out of you for speaking your mind, and shun you in social gatherings just for being so straight foreward? Let us, let us control your spirit and see how hard you push back.
Our pushing back is the reason we get an education today, because we can do everything we can today.
We didn't get here because you oh so rational males granted it to us oh so long ago.
The fight is nowhere near over.
Here, the rational of men: Over 10 million or so female fetuses have been aborted in india in the past 20 years, because females are so poorly look apon by males.
The effects are hitting, they went from 900/1000 f/m ratio, to about 200/1000
They're having to import and share wives now. Women are growing more and more scarce, it's not safe for them to go out alone depending where they live.
You men and your logic.
http://tinyurl.com/j6ru5
[This message has been edited by ShouldTrip (edited 09-20-2006).]
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#74
 2006-09-20, 00:05
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I think she meant that women were forced to stay home in the past and that's why they weren't inventing things.
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#75
 2006-09-20, 00:26
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by gadzooks:
Getting a partner isn't just about emotions. It's also about what influences these emotions.
Oh no, wait, you probably believe in love at first sight or some crap like that.
No, there is a process. Initial attraction is not based on the emotions that you speak of.
GTFO. (http://tinyurl.com/hw34v)
Well I know that you don't believe in love at first sight because you have to hound the shit out of any woman to give you attention.
I'm not talking about getting a partner, I am talking about the use of emotions in finding a partner. Emotions determine to me anyways how you are going to interact with someone. If a girl is extremely emotional she isn't going to pair up well with a guy who is cold hearted.
Do you see what I mean? No, I can't expect you to, because you are an idiot.
Now to Rogue, god are you ignorant. Women weren't forced to stay home? Are you kidding me? Yes they were, women's rights haven't been around long, shorter than the rights of blacks. So if you could please get your history straight, and stop being a jackass it would be much appreciated.
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#76
 2006-09-20, 00:29
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:
BLAH BLAH BLAH
You are on my ignore list until you change your attitude.
Don't waste your time flaming me in the future.
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#77
 2006-09-20, 00:34
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On your ignore list? AHAHAHAH! What a fag.
I am sorry, but I know 13 year olds on here that act like less of a bitch than you do. Can the admins put a tag on this guy for being the biggest baby back bitch ever?
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#78
 2006-09-20, 04:41
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Xiao Mei:
I think she meant that women were forced to stay home in the past and that's why they weren't inventing things.
QFT.
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#79
 2006-09-20, 05:27
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Re: The Female Courting Process
OP is right. It's very, very simple and had to be said.
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#80
 2006-09-20, 05:27
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Re: The Female Courting Process
quote:Originally posted by Sick_Boy:
The reason that women have contributed less is because until very recently it was unacceptable for them to do anything but stay home and take care of the kiddies. If child care responsibilities were split evenly between men and women, I'm sure brilliant inventions would be split fairly evenly among the sexes.
There's only one problem with that. There are plenty of "liberated" women now; indeed, there's even "affirmative action" in their favour. So... brilliant inventions? Where? The top dawgs in every field are still male.  I think you're just kidding yourself. Discrimination hasn't ever stopped people from doing well intellectually; look at the Jews. I could understand if you women were forced to live in mud huts and beaten and so forth, like slaves in early America; however, I don't see anyone stopping you from making something of yourself. Oh no, it's "unacceptable" to try to educate yourself. I don't see something being "unacceptable" stopping many other people or groups. Maybe it's because you're sheep, just intelligent enough to realize that all the heavy thinking should be left to men. Hell, females were educated and treated well in many more societies than people think, and yet... still no brilliance!
A much simpler explanation, and one that fits better with the pattern of history and conditions today, is that women are just stupid and inferior.
[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 09-20-2006).]
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 2006-09-20, 05:40
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quote:Our pushing back is the reason we get an education today, because we can do everything we can today.
We didn't get here because you oh so rational males granted it to us oh so long ago.
The fight is nowhere near over.
Oh please. Let's take a look at what you're saying here. Either you just starting "pushing back", or you've been pushing and just now partially succeeded. In case A, this means that it took you thousands of years to even realize you wanted an education! That's stupidity such a level as to be bordering on retardation! In case B, that means that your "pushing" was so ineffectual and easily countered by the supposed equal or even inferior men that... well, let's just say that if it takes you thousand of years to accomplish so modest a goal (a goal that men had no trouble with, I note) you're not exactly the bright bulbs in the box. Either way, though, you only got the easy life and good education you have now through the efforts of men: the men who built the institutions, got the knowledge, and finally granted you the ability to do silly things like "think" and vote.
Edit: Lest you all start to hate me, I'm not serious.  I started this as a joke, but I never can shy away from a debate... it doesn't matter what side I'm on, I just love to grapple. And if I can offend people in the process, well, it's a pleasant bonus.
[This message has been edited by Twisted_Ferret (edited 09-20-2006).]
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