I know I said that other thread would be my last for a bit, but I lied.

I'm really stressed... I'm trying to find a way to approach my boyfriend about why I've been so moody (see other thread) without seeming clingy or needy. Past experience has made me more cautious, and yeah, a little less trusting that I was.

A friend said he didn't talk to me about why he was annoyed because he thought I'd get mad... I'm upset because even after talking to him he wouldn't tell me what was up, but in the five minutes he was talking to my friend he told him. It kind of hurts to hear something from somebody else.

I don't even want to talk to him about it, but I don't think there's any way around being stressed about it without talking about it... Asking for reassurance isn't clingy, right?

Btw, I'm not asking the same thing as I did in my other thread. I was going to talk to him about that other thing the other night, but when I tried to bring it up I don't think he got that I was being serious, so I didn't even try to go there. Then he said I was being annoying that night, which I probably was, but I was sort of stressed about the original issue, then the lack of affection that night...

Um, that doesn't make sense, does it? Clear version here: http://tinyurl.com/el6n7

I know that's all very one sided, and I wrote it late at night after talking to a very cynical friend who really just made me feel worse, but comments/suggestions would be nice.

Reading over it again, the only thing I'm really upset about now is that even after I said "yeah just talk to me about it next time, if it happens again" he didn't really say anything. Just something along the lines of "you were in a bad mood." I was only in a bad mood because he wouldn't tell me. >_<

[This message has been edited by firekitty751 (edited 09-12-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

I'm trying to find a way to approach my boyfriend about why I've been so moody (see other thread) without seeming clingy or needy.

Won't a simple sorry do? It doesn't seem needy or clingy to me.

quote:Originally posted by naive_wisdom:

Won't a simple sorry do? It doesn't seem needy or clingy to me.

I've already apologized about being annoying.

I just feel like I should tell him why, otherwise I'll continue to be moody.

If you have apologised, and he has accepted it, then there is no need to dwell on the situation, as far as I can see anyways =]

quote:Originally posted by naive_wisdom:

If you have apologised, and he has accepted it, then there is no need to dwell on the situation, as far as I can see anyways =]

But I still haven't even told him what's bothering me, and it's still bothering me. I really really really just want to ignore it but that hasn't worked so far, it's what makes me moody.

Now I'm just using this thread to vent.

I had it all worked out, I was going to talk to him tonight but nooo he doesn't have gas money. I offered some but he won't take it.

I won't be able to see him until friday or saturday. This is just fantastic.

I still don't know, and you called me at 4 in the fucking morning

Oh, and he will be getting his money. You can tell him that.

You could always call him every 15 minutes to tell him what's been going on with you, and proclaim your love for him whilst crying about how sorry you are.

I think you will find that using the phrase 'Beg, borrow or steal some gas money and get your sorry arse over here NOW...Or you can forget about having sex til xmas...2008!' will get him at your door within the time it takes to put on something sooo sexy that his brain will turn to swiss cheese.

quote:Originally posted by HandOfZek:

You could always call him every 15 minutes to tell him what's been going on with you, and proclaim your love for him whilst crying about how sorry you are.

Haha, somehow that doesn't seem like something I particularly want to do. But thanks anyway.

Anyway. I think it's all worked out, at least.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Haha, somehow that doesn't seem like something I particularly want to do. But thanks anyway.

Anyway. I think it's all worked out, at least.

^^

Awesome it worked out.

quote:Originally posted by bushy:

Oh, and he will be getting his money. You can tell him that.

Yeah... sorry I was so bitchy about that. I was really irritated. Call me about what started that conversation. ^_^

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

I think you will find that using the phrase 'Beg, borrow or steal some gas money and get your sorry arse over here NOW...Or you can forget about having sex til xmas...2008!' will get him at your door within the time it takes to put on something sooo sexy that his brain will turn to swiss cheese.

See that doesn't work on my husband, because he'll just have sex with me anyway.:/