As is evidenced by my recent thread in spurious im taking a girl out. Now this will be my first sexual encounter for well on into 7 months of celibacy, and want to make sure it goes right. Previously with ex girlfriends ive never been able to get 100% hard, but i have been able to last for ages. Ideally id like a solid rock hard member for the duration of the episode.

I normally masturbate frequently like once a day, but have put a halt on that for the past several days, like since last saturday. So if i do this girl tomorrow am i going to have a rock hard cock for five minutes until i finish too quickly or what? Any suggestions as to what i can do will be great.

initially i thought the hardness issue may be that i was slightly nervous, and normally when fapping i have a cover over me and am visualising stuff in my head, whereas irl theres no covers and no stimulant from within my own mind. So im going to try imagining what im doing in my head as im doing it and seeing if that helps at all.

any others? sorry 2 long post and plz dnt flame kthx

Jerk off the day before, not on the same day.