For some reason, if a girl is average, or below average in looks, conventionally, and isn't fat, I find her 5x more attractive than I'd find a supermodel hot girl like Britney Spears. I've never heard of anyone else being like this. Am I abnormal?

I feel the exact same way. I'd rather have the girl next door than a super model. My reason probably is that I'd like to know them better before I pork'em.

me too...cause well I figure I dont have a chance at the super hot ones...I mean I still think there banging but I think average is im some way alot hotter

Yes, it is a little strange as you are genetically programmed to find feminine women sexy and less attractive women 'homely' so maybe, I don't know, it could be a result of just looking at their attainabilty?

Extremely hot women aren't really women in our minds. They're things, that we can enjoy from afar, but never up close.

They aren't made to be our wives, our girlfriends, our lovers. They're made to be in our porn, on your TV shows, and in our dreams.

Good thing, too, as the "homely" girls are usually much nicer, have much more of an interesting personality, and much more fun in bed. Enjoy!

Generally, there are very few celebrities I find attractive. And its not just the skank factor either.

Not sure why, but whatever. The same taste does extend to other parts of life as well. My taste of cars is quite different than others. Sexy curves? Bump that.

80's creases >>> curves.

I think Gus is correct. When I'm waiting in line at the supermarket and see the cover of the celebrity magazines they don't even look like people. They look like plastic dolls, it's actually kind of creepy.

Byss *citation for previous post can be found here (http://i3.tinypic.com/44lqrfk.jpg)*

Plastic sex toys that we never want to play with as we don't want to break them, and because we much rather the slightly unshaven girl in fron of us with the cute tits but sexy ass.

And when you see her buy some condoms, you know you're set!!

Most of those "hot" women all have basically the same personality, and dont care about anybody except other "hot" people. To me, less "hot" women have more personality.

I'm just repeating what everyone else said.

Hot girls are just objects 99% of the time.

The one's you're speaking of have more class really.

average = down to earth

But does it work both ways? Celebrity men don't usually look unreal or plastic to me and some of them are quite hot.

I was watching "A Streetcar Named Desire" yesterday and...And Marlon Brando was like the hottest man EVER (except for Mr. Mei, of course!). It was crazy, because I'd only ever seen him in movies after he was old. A man that sexy could certainly get away with a lot...

i too enjoy teh average girls cause there more down to earth

quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:



80's creases >>> curves.

WTF?! You would rather have a box with a few dimples, than have a beautifully curved woman-bodied new ferrari-type car?

Edit: I find normal girls much more attractive than "hot" women, just because they're real. "Hot" women seem so... Fake, out of reality, and typically, most of them aren't very smart either, not to generalize.

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no. you're not abnormal. at least, not by my twisted standards.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

Yes, it is a little strange as you are genetically programmed to find feminine women sexy and less attractive women 'homely' so maybe, I don't know, it could be a result of just looking at their attainabilty?

No, nothing like that. I find hot women easier to get than average women actually, since if you just drag their stuck up attitude down by not being amazingly nice to them like most guys half the work is done.

If it was a choice between an average girl and a hot girl, both with the same personality, i'd pick the average girl, because I would actually find her "hotter." Does that make sense?

quote:Originally posted by Alls Well That Ends Well:

I find hot women easier to get than average women actually[...]

Ah, so it's about the challange for you, then.

Want what you cannot have, and when you get it over and over you don't want it anymore.

This doesn't pretain to oral/anal/vaginal/any type of sex, mind you, because, as men, we're wired to take more than you can throw at us.

I like girls. If I find an "average" girl attractive, then she's "hot". It's as simple as that.

quote:Originally posted by SkaterRaider:

WTF?! You would rather have a box with a few dimples, than have a beautifully curved woman-bodied new ferrari-type car?

http://tinyurl.com/k8ho2

There are alot of lines on a Ferrari. Compare to a Solstice.

Lines can be sexy. http://www.totse.com/bbs/wink.gif (http://tinyurl.com/gbyvc)

If you ask me, it's because normal average woman are actually what is hot in our minds, and the celebrity types are merely what we're told is hot. My girlfriend is like that cute girl next door. Very nice ass, beautiful hips and figure, nice C- cup perky tits, cute pouty lips, and exotic eyes. I've never actually met another girl who looks like her. She is so hot to me I pop wood holding her hand, lol. She even lets me take pics and film her nude. I have a few porns starring me and her on my computer. She's a total nympho too. She's the best in my eyes.

quote:Originally posted by easeoflife22:

If you ask me, it's because normal average woman are actually what is hot in our minds, and the celebrity types are merely what we're told is hot. My girlfriend is like that cute girl next door. Very nice ass, beautiful hips and figure, nice C- cup perky tits, cute pouty lips, and exotic eyes. I've never actually met another girl who looks like her. She is so hot to me I pop wood holding her hand, lol. She even lets me take pics and film her nude. I have a few porns starring me and her on my computer. She's a total nympho too. She's the best in my eyes.

now that you've mentioned their existence, you know you've got to post them.

i find pretty, cute girls hotter then the blond bombshell type

^^^Or at least give a few clues so someone can haxor them out & 'up'?...'Gee, honey, I didn't upload them!? 'Someone' must have haxored my machine!?'

I reckon the average looking woman is just the 'safe' option for you guys. Perceived as less likely to cheat, have other guys constantly hit on her, etc. You're probably all dismissing the beautiful women as 'out of league' which is judgemental in itself.

I'm the exact same way.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

I reckon the average looking woman is just the 'safe' option for you guys. Perceived as less likely to cheat, have other guys constantly hit on her, etc. You're probably all dismissing the beautiful women as 'out of league' which is judgemental in itself.

What is your gender? That sounds like something a naive female would say...

I'm not naive. I have friends who are very good looking who stay single for absolutely ages cos guys dismiss them as pretentious or 'plastic'. And I think guys hop the bandwagon when it comes to who's flavour of the month. Which is nothing to do with who's 'hot' and who isn't. And I don't think you should judge people like that because we're all human.

Fact is, hot girls are unapproachable for 90% of you. You have developed a way to cope by finding the average girls more attractive because they are much more attainable for you.

You know when you see a good-looking girl and your like "nice". Then you make eye contact and notice eachother, and she becomes 3x hotter all the sudden? It's like the fact that now there's the good possibilty this bitch is attainable for me, so she becomes much more attractive.





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quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

I reckon the average looking woman is just the 'safe' option for you guys. Perceived as less likely to cheat, have other guys constantly hit on her, etc. You're probably all dismissing the beautiful women as 'out of league' which is judgemental in itself.

I dont care if a woman has multiple sexual relations with people other than me unless ive exclusively decided to date only her, and shes agreed, which has never happened. I dont let it. I hate girlfriends. So im not worried about cheating.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

I'm not naive. I have friends who are very good looking who stay single for absolutely ages cos guys dismiss them as pretentious or 'plastic'. And I think guys hop the bandwagon when it comes to who's flavour of the month. Which is nothing to do with who's 'hot' and who isn't. And I don't think you should judge people like that because we're all human.

If they are dismissed because they are judged prematurely, doesnt that tell you then that those men arent worth fooling with?

Consequently, your girlfriends probably act the part if everyone thinks of them as such.

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quote:Originally posted by ArgonPlasma2000:

Originally posted by SkaterRaider:

WTF?! You would rather have a box with a few dimples, than have a beautifully curved woman-bodied new ferrari-type car?

http://tinyurl.com/k8ho2

There are alot of lines on a Ferrari. Compare to a Solstice.

Lines can be sexy. http://www.totse.com/bbs/wink.gif (http://tinyurl.com/gbyvc)



Hmmm. I fully agree, actually.

Well, if sex is the only thing you're offering, then you won't have much success with the 'hot' girls or the average ones, either. She can most likely do better, women being the discriminating sex, as even an average looking young woman can take her pick and choose a more attractive partner. The difference is boundless and she never has a shortage of sexually willing males.

Okay, ArgonPlasma2000, even I have been dismissed as 'plastic' by some idiots,(who don't even know me) especially when I went platinum blonde. You get more attention, but it's not always positive. I've since gone darker and people do treat you differently based on mere hair colour. If people are this shallow then, yeah, you're right, they are fools - I wouldn't bother with them anyway.

Platinum blonde is pretty hot, but I dont care too much for dyed hair.

(*winks at ketch *)

quote:Originally posted by Gus:

"homely" girls are much nicer, have much more of an interesting personality, and much more fun in bed.

and generally much smarter.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

Okay, ArgonPlasma2000, even I have been dismissed as 'plastic' by some idiots,(who don't even know me) especially when I went platinum blonde. You get more attention, but it's not always positive. I've since gone darker and people do treat you differently based on mere hair colour. If people are this shallow then, yeah, you're right, they are fools - I wouldn't bother with them anyway.

I see too many platinum blonde girls at my university. I think many girls believe that that's what's attractive so they bleach their hair for that reason. That's silly. If they like it, then more power to them. But for me, give me darker hair any day

It does make you more attractive. It catches the light and it makes you stand out more, so, people look at you for longer. I just got bored of having to keep doing my roots all the time (I'm naturally dark) so, t'was a bummer.

Is everyone talking about the typical Paris Hilton type idiot platinum blonde with way too much makeup on, wearing overpriced bullshit topped off with a fake Louis Vuitton bag and hot pink shoes? They're not hot. They're high maintenance. And annoying as hell. And if I hear one of them say "omg I hate girls they're so annoying and stupid LOLZ" or something to that extent one more time, it's ladle enema time. Noone likes a knowitall barbie.

There are lots of "average" girls that are actually really beautiful, but everyone looks over them because they're too distracted by the giant walking pink sparkly thing with the little yappy dog.

Hmm, I'm ranting again. No more double americano's for me...

quote:Originally posted by Demoiselle:

Is everyone talking about the typical Paris Hilton type idiot platinum blonde with way too much makeup on, wearing overpriced bullshit topped off with a fake Louis Vuitton bag and hot pink shoes? They're not hot. They're high maintenance. And annoying as hell. And if I hear one of them say "omg I hate girls they're so annoying and stupid LOLZ" or something to that extent one more time, it's ladle enema time. Noone likes a knowitall barbie.

There are lots of "average" girls that are actually really beautiful, but everyone looks over them because they're too distracted by the giant walking pink sparkly thing with the little yappy dog.

Hmm, I'm ranting again. No more double americano's for me...

Thats what I am talking about. I cant speak for the rest of you.

However, society deems them attractive, and thats what we are discussing. Average to you an I, vs society's idols.

LOL! Giant walking pink sparkly thing with the little yappy dog! Paris is also a figure of fun.

quote:Originally posted by Marchesa:

LOL! Giant walking pink sparkly thing with the little yappy dog! Paris is also a figure of fun.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Night_In_Paris

hehehehehehe

quote:Originally posted by Alls Well That Ends Well:

For some reason, if a girl is average, or below average in looks, conventionally, and isn't fat, I find her 5x more attractive than I'd find a supermodel hot girl like Britney Spears. I've never heard of anyone else being like this. Am I abnormal?

Hmmm. From what I observe and see, it seems like the girls that guys describe as "hot" are mostly just really well-cared for. They put a lot of time and effort into their looks. They tan and get their teeth bleached and their hair highlighted and their clothes fitted perfectly to their bodies. They're "hot". But it's an image.

The girls-next-door are the normal, fully developed, well rounded girls. They're not putting all their energies into their looks and so they have time for other endeavors. They look more normal, more average because they don't spend every second worrying about how to look perfect at every moment and in every situation. They don't have time to.

For me, it's all about the breasts. If a girl/woman/female has 'em, then she's hot. Simple as that. As long as we aren't talking about breasts that sag down to the belly button, then bigger = hotter. And I don't care if the woman has a few extra pounds; in fact, I prefer it.

But yeah, it's all about the breasts. Big is good, bigger is better.

quote:Originally posted by Alls Well That Ends Well:

For some reason, if a girl is average, or below average in looks, conventionally, and isn't fat, I find her 5x more attractive than I'd find a supermodel hot girl like Britney Spears. I've never heard of anyone else being like this. Am I abnormal?

Same here, my personal explanation is that there's so many chicks getted dolled up with makeup and plastic surgery, and celebrities everywhere that are photoshopped on magazines that i've just become desensitized to the image of conventional beauty, so in return i find imperfections very refreshing and sexy.

I HATE fake chicks.

I judge chicks by their smile (or any other expression)... you can tell straight away if they are fake or not.