Background:

So there's this girl in my history class that's pretty hot, to me atleast. Nice body and face, awesome personality and a amazing rack. We've been in school for 3 weeks and I havent had a chance to talk to at all until today, cause we were doing this group project and I said hi and she was really nice we talked about our grade schools and some other small talk. Basically, for some reason unknown to me, she is extremely attractive in my opinion. Now, she talks with some of the popular girls, but she's actually overlooked by all the guys and shes actually not that well known. I looked her up in the yearbook from freshman year and she was hideous, so I think this is a jackpot, where you find a hot girl who used to be ugly but got hot but doesnt feel confident inside. I'm frieds with some girls in the class and I asked one of them if I have a shot with her, and she said sure you do and to go sit by them tomorrow.

Problem:

I think I'm a pretty good looking guy, not Brad Pit, but also not ugly at all, but I'm really shy around new people, and I cant approach girls, which is why I was so surprised that I was able to go up to her and actually talk with her. So, what should I do when I sit by her tomorrow? I want to get her # and/or aim, but since we dont know eachother, I dont wanna come off as a creep. I want to get to know her a little and ask her to homecoming asap. I only have 17 days till the dance,so I seriously gotta hurry up.

Help

Looks are the most important thing after all!

/sarcasm

I like how bunny.meatball is now a term for a generic situation.

quote:Originally posted by SurahAhriman:

I like how bunny.meatball is now a term for a generic situation.

I'm sure bunny.meatball think so too.

Byss *citation for previous post can be found here (http://i3.tinypic.com/44lqrfk.jpg)*

I thought a bunny.meatball situation was when you're crippled with self-doubt and have no hope of success since you won't do a damned thing.

quote:Originally posted by mr.surprise:

Looks are the most important thing after all!

/sarcasm

Man, don't I with they weren't. The worst thing is, they're the most important thing even to most ugly people.

Dichotomy of importance. (Generalized of course, varies greatly by individual)

Ages 11-18: Looks

Ages 19-25: Money

Ages 26-35: Success

Ages 36+: Heart...because by this point, you've hopefully realized that good looks don't mean shit about personality; people that hoard money are typically assholes/cunts; and people can have great physical success even when motivated by the want to hurt others. And people with heart tend to be pretty well secured as a person, capable of both giving and recieving love.

Ask yourself, why are you with who you are? Is it because they look good? It's gonna fail. Because they have money? It's gonna hurt. Because they hold their shit together? There ain't gonna be much of anything.

Or is it because they're loveable and loving? It might just work with a bit of open communication and honesty.

Ask her to a party, get her drunk, have sex with her, then have sex with her friends.

Yeah, ask her to go to a party or something if you don't make it by homecoming. Dont get her drunk and rape her.

Confidence, man.

Girls read into your level of confidence. You're more likely to get what you want from them if you attempt it with confidence.. unless you've got one of those girls looking for a shy nerd.

quote:Originally posted by Low Rider:

Yeah, ask her to go to a party or something if you don't make it by homecoming. Dont get her drunk and rape her.

It isnt rape if she doesnt say no, or, has vomit from too much alcohol clogging her throat to SAY no.

All the cool kids are doing it.

[This message has been edited by among_the_living (edited 09-12-2006).]

Why are your posts all shitty and about raping girls now? I saw it in another thread too, probably more.

quote:Originally posted by Low Rider:

Why are your posts all shitty and about raping girls now? I saw it in another thread too, probably more.

Hey, im just telling him what he wants to hear.

He wants to get her wasted and then have sex with her................and her friends..

I see.

It wasn't a good thread anyhow now was it!

Good luck yo.

[This message has been edited by Low Rider (edited 09-12-2006).]

I'll let you boys (and girls) know how it goes tomorrow.

Update: I was too shy to go up to her today and talk with her. Her friends that I know told me that they're gonna tell her, but I dont care anymore, my self esteem is too low. I'll probally rent some movies and get drunk on homecoming night cause I dont wanna go alone.

Booooo.

Go take pictures of her through holes in a fence now, just to complete the bunny.meatballness of this.

[This message has been edited by Low Rider (edited 09-12-2006).]

Just fucking talk to her.

Dont think of her as a girl your trying to get.

Dont think of her as hot.

Forget the fact that you like her,

and just talk.

quote:Originally posted by WifiGuy:

Update: I was too shy to go up to her today and talk with her. Her friends that I know told me that they're gonna tell her, but I dont care anymore, my self esteem is too low. I'll probally rent some movies and get drunk on homecoming night cause I dont wanna go alone.

That a kid...*calls upon bunny.meatball*

"Bunny, we've got a problem, a big problem."

You're going to loose all your chances. lOsR.