Okay, you may have read from the topic i started a while ago that that girl I was planning to get back with was going to come over: She didn't come over, and I forgot one big detail: She has a boyfriend, she had him the whole time and I STILL want to get back with her, How should I break it to her that I still want her, and that she shouldn't be with this guy because I KNOW I can still feel a connection between us. How should I ask her without sending her into a humongo depression?

See i had this same exact problem a little while ago...The best thing to do is just tell her seriously dont be scared, i now it can be hesatating but you have to let her know..So what if she has a boyfriend, if she really liked you then they will work it out dont force her to do anything just go with the flow and just tell her

Just be her friend. And do your best to treat her better then her boyfriend does. Guys are jackasses, and he'll screw up eventually. Thats when she starts to think 'maybe this other guy would treat me better'...and thats that.

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Just be her friend. And do your best to treat her better then her boyfriend does. Guys are jackasses, and he'll screw up eventually. Thats when she starts to think 'maybe this other guy would treat me better'...and thats that.

He already did screw up recently, he pretended to dump her over the phone and made her cry and he had to explain that he was kidding. And I'm not waiting any longer, I've put up with it for too long, I was seriously considering Carbon monoxide poisoning recently, this is how bad it is.

Why don't you just phone her up, seriously. Instead of chatting about carbon monoxide poisoning. If it's that bad just talk to the girl.

My advice is to not get your hopes up. I tried getting my girlfriend of almost 4 years back after I found out she had a boyfriend. After 4 years, you better believe we still had a connection.

Heartache is the worst form of depression you'll ever go through, and it may last for a long time. Sorry to sound so pessimistic but this is how life is.