here is the story, i love her...and i told her id never break up with her, and..now ive seen her conversations on msn when im with her...and shes all sad and she gets a message saying, "well im out, good luck making the decision sis"

and when ever i enter the room when shes on the computer...she ALWAYS closes every conversation and tries to cover it up by picking a different song...i dont know...WHAT THE FUCK TO DO OR THINK..

She also talks about ex boyfriends and calling other guys cute and shit... she doesnt like to express love or affection.

please help



Cory

Edit :typo



[This message has been edited by Deadly Vaccine (edited 09-10-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

she ALWAYS closes every conversation and tries to cover it up by picking a different song...



Holy shit I do the same thing when my parents or my brother almost catch me looking at pr0n.

I would just say go with the flow. Maybe she's making a decision on something totally unrelated?



[This message has been edited by woopsueypigs77 (edited 09-10-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:

Holy shit I do the same thing when my parents almost catch me looking at pr0n, or my brother.

you close windows to avoid getting caught looking at your brother?

anyone?...seriously...i need help here..please...



Cory

quote:Originally posted by woopsueypigs77:



I would just say go with the flow. Maybe she's making a decision on something totally unrelated?

quote:Originally posted by Deadly Vaccine:

anyone?...seriously...i need help here..please...



Cory



Two choices.

1) Trust

2) Keylogger

Or ask?

How old are you? How old is she?

EDIT: Oh and just fucking talk to her about it.

[This message has been edited by Cloaked Dagger (edited 09-10-2006).]

You're most likely being an over-possesive little twat who has enough jealousy inside to kill a small elephant. Your actions might be pushing her away and so the best thing to do is to reduce this "i love her" and "id never break up with her" bullshit and take things slow. You need to communicate with her, and jesus don't worry if she talks to other cute people or whatever. I'm pretty damn sure you do the same, and if you don't then there is no reason why you shouldn't. Plus, grow some balls. Women like men, not pussy's. They have that covered themselves.

if she has to hide her conversations and won't express her feelings to you, it looks bad i hate to say...

she doesn't want you to see what she is talking about to other people, your her boyfriend... why hide it unless it involves a serious illness, cheating or breakup issues that she doesn't want you to find out, and if she can't express her feelings either she doesn't have any for you or simply doesn't feel comfortable with you and expressing them

but to me, the fact she hides her conversations and can't/won't express her feelings, sounds bad

asking doesn't work very well sometimes... i asked my ex whether or not she still wanted to be with me/enjoyed our relationship/never cheated etc... while she was sending sexy pics of herself to other guys, all the time calling herself and telling me she was loyal and trustworthy

[This message has been edited by mek777 (edited 09-10-2006).]

Just talk to her about it. If you don't resolve it you're fucked anyway.

You've nothing to lose.

Oh come on people! Who here leaves everything up on the screen when people walk in? Shit, I'll shrink down a paper I'm writing for uni when my eleven year old sister walks in, and I'm pretty sure she doesn't care about sociology.

The point I'm trying to get across, if you haven't already picked it up, is that people tend to keep what hey do on their computer relatively private.

As for the expressing of feelings, isn't that why this section of totse exists? People suck at expressing feelings, either they express too much, not enough, or they express completely the wrong feelings.

To the OP, you have three options:

Trust her and get over it... or

Use a keylogger... or

Hire a hitman. I don't know what for, maybe you could have the guys she's talking to shot. That'll send a pretty clear message.

quote:

Hire a hitman. I don't know what for, maybe you could have the guys she's talking to shot. That'll send a pretty clear message.[/B]

that's another option

Yeah, she's gonna dump your ass.

In my opinion.



Stop being so clingy!

Get this book called "Obsessive Love: Why it Hurts to Let Go" or something.

ahahahahaha. Hilarious.

Seriously, though.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:



Two choices.

1) Trust

2) Keylogger

rofl

Dump her before she dumps you!

Or... get with her one last time... then dump her!



[This message has been edited by jackketch (edited 09-11-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Chinese Food52:

Dump her before she dumps you!

Or... get with her one last time... then dump ON her!





Fixed! Cleveland Steamer FTW!

PS. i pressed 'edit' instead of quote which is why the original post says 'edited'.Yeah i suck at totse.

quote:Cory

Answer this question and I'll help you: who are you, Feldman or Haim?