so my question to you totsieans is how do you find out if your girl friend has or is cheating on you with out actually asking?

on her msn it used to say --i dig you-

and when she came on today she was in a bad mood and she took off that and put up some bull shit thing saying -maybe we should always be alone- or somebullshit... she also said she was confused

and im thinking she cheated on me last night and is feeling shitty about it so... any advice/help and an answer to my obve question

What makes you think she cheated?

Yeah, a few MSN status' isnt really grounds to suspect infidelity.

But if you're paranoid, you could always use a keylogger, or stalk her.

i dont know .... i should just dump her.

i dont think she treats me like i'd be her boyfriend. well at school i guess she doesnt

any where else she will.... its fucked up and it kinda makes me feel like shit

i've really contemplated dumpping her lots but then we hang out after school and i know why im dating her... but then the school day coems around and she starts making me feel liek shit.... like i could be dating way hotter ladys but i like her so idont know.... the fuck do you guys think?

[This message has been edited by blaze45 (edited 09-10-2006).]

How old are you?

quote:Originally posted by blaze45:

oh its me not giving a Fuck!!! thats what...

now shut the fuck up

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quote:Originally posted by Euda:

[B]How old are you?

B]

ummm i dont see why this questino is erlavent to anything....

but im going to tell you any ways

17

quote:Originally posted by blaze45:

erlavent

17



17 and you can't spell irrelevant.

quote:Originally posted by Cans27:



17 and you can't spell irrelevant.

I giggled.

You fail at relationships then, it appears that you dont have the trust the is necessary to continue on. I mean suspecting your girlfriend of cheating is a pretty big deal.

I wouldn't even think of my girl doing that to me and if something bothered either one of us we wouldn't hesitate to talk to each other about it. It seems you require a little more maturity in your relationships.

I think your best bets are to either talk to her about it and/or break up with her. But dumping her because of an MSN name change is a bit of a dramatic decision.

quote:Originally posted by blaze45:

ummm i dont see why this questino is erlavent to anything....

but im going to tell you any ways

17

Because knowing that allows us to stop looking any further for a reason you would jump to the conclusion that she likely cheated on you, based on such extremely weak and tenuous evidence.

quote:Originally posted by Cans27:



17 and you can't spell irrelevant.

i found out by checking her email one night.. caught her sending pics to an 'old friend' as she told me

then i found out she had beens eeing a guy for one month, about a week after she moved towns, and probably the day after she was crying on the phone when she said she missed me... figure

when a kid sent me a naked pic of her.

she said it wasn't cheating she just sent naked pics to a couple guys

meh, people allways put stupid shit as their MSN sn's. It's fucking gay. Delete MSN, stat.

find out for sure if she cheated on you and beat the living shit out of the guy. that works always.

From my experience, she won't admit anything but call YOU a cheater. I found out today my ex cheated on me, not once, not twice, but thrice! She always closed her internet convos too but I don't think you should worry too much about it.

Heres a few tips from what I learned...

-If they call you a cheater constantly no matter the circumstance, they probably did something and are trying to justify it.

-If the girl cheated on her boyfriend for you and a relationship ensues, she'll probably cheat again.

-A girlfriend who has a slut for a best friend most likely will cause you trouble.

-Always make generalizations when possible.

He was trying to say 'relevant' you fucking moron making it a simple typo.

However old you are, and you don't have basic comprehension skills.

[This message has been edited by MexWanker (edited 09-11-2006).]

Does she have a myspace?(possibly one you don't know about if you think she doesn't?) Read her comments and see if there's any that seem a bit too friendly

quote:Originally posted by MexWanker:

He was trying to say 'relevant' you fucking moron making it a simple typo.

However old you are, and you don't have basic comprehension skills.





I was about to point that out, couldn't of said it better myself.