I was talking to my freind/fuck buddy We'll call her lucy) and we got on a topic about one of my old friends. She's alittle paranoid that I would date her, so she pretty much hates this person (We'll call her sue).



So, the conversation goes like this:

(I got a beep while i was on the phone)...

Lucy: Who was that on the phone

Me: Sue...

Lucy: *Sigh* That bitch.

Me: ...I see you still hate her.

Lucy: It's ok, I saw a few pictures of her, and she's not that pretty, so I'm not worried.

Me: What are you talking about, she's hot.

Lucy: What ever. You know what, I think I'm gonna go. Bye.

Me: (waits a few minutes) ...When you say bye you're supposed to hang up.

Lucy: I was waiting for you to say bye.

Me: Bye.

---Conversation ended.---

To add to this... Both of the girls are my ex-girlfreinds... Women, I tell yah.

So yeah, my question, think I should call her? I've been trying to get her to not be so moody and act like she owns my balls, but if I call her you think she'll let it go to her head?

...So... Advice OKGO

Bump...

Yes, I know, it's a really fucking early bump, but I need advice now.

Sorry if I piss anyone off.

quote:Originally posted by fatkitty420:



Me: What are you talking about, she's hot.



Particularly suave move on your part.

quote:Originally posted by SilentMind:

Particularly suave move on your part.



Yeah, it was a little blunt. But she's been pissing me off about this same subject for so long. Ah, did I mention that both of these girls are fucking 650 miles away from me.

I'm tired of getting into drama that I shouldn't even know about...

quote:Originally posted by fatkitty420:



Yeah, it was a little blunt. But she's been pissing me off about this same subject for so long. Ah, did I mention that both of these girls are fucking 650 miles away from me.

I'm tired of getting into drama that I shouldn't even know about...

If she's 650 miles away, you dont have a problem. Unless she was planning on flying out the next weekend. Theres nothing in it for you, win or lose. Long distance relationships do -not- work.

For general reference though, if you're talking to a girl, and its a girl you're trying to get into good graces with...agree with her. In some subjects its okay/desireable for you to have your own opinion. Not when it comes to other girls.

If you know she's got a grudge against a specific girl, you can damn well better expect to be in the doghouse for at -least- a couple of days if you come right out and say 'she's hot'

Never, ever, ever use that phrase when talking to a girl about another girl. They dont like that.

But if in a case like this, where you're not getting anything out of it, and she's been bothering you anyways...dont be afraid to speak your mind and do the damage.