Well we've dated for around 4 months and things were going great, we always understood each other and enjoyed the same things.

Then just one day she randomly phones me and said things arent working out.. I was confused and sad a the same time I had NO idea what I did wrong. And I kept asking her she said its her not me.. :/

The VERY next day my buddy phones me and tells me that shes already dating a new guy. Guess who it is? the most popular guy at school who has a rich daddy and loads his credit card with moeny.. I just decided to forget about this, one week later she comes up to my house and starts crying to me and I felt really bad even though we broke up I still cared for her alot, and asked her whats wrong she said that she walked in on her boyfriend having sex with another girl...... I knew this guy was an asshole he does this all the time, his even on my football team and I dislike him.

Now i'm confused here, not sure what to think. Should I forget about it? I'm all for giving others a second chance but I just don't know.

Advice?

edit: typo

[This message has been edited by robyextreme (edited 09-09-2006).]

Explain to her how it's her fault for dumping you, and say no because she will only do it again.

(But it's your call.)

some peole don't deserve second chances.

If my x who broke up with me for another guy siad "he cheated on me I want you back" I would say hell no, but I'm petty, so thats just me.

Fuck that bitch, sounds like she got what was coming to her.

Thanks for advice,

Ok i'll tell you how it goes, she just wants to hang out with me tonight as friends.

[This message has been edited by robyextreme (edited 09-09-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by robyextreme:

Thanks for advice,

Ok i'll tell you how it goes, she just wants to hang out with me tonight as friends.



Sounds like a good idea.

Tenner says he'll shag the crap outta her.

Don't do it, don't give her the "benefits" of being with you, while you're not gettig any from her.

Not to forget that she fucked you over.

Ugh, tell her to stay away from you. Seriously, she's just going to use the feelings you still have against you, and you're gonna get hurt much worse this time around...

She sounds like a using whore that just jumps from men. Not worth your time. Find a real woman.

stay the fuck away from her, if you dont then you will regret it..

Dude, don't be her fucking back-up. That's pathetic that it took that much pain for her to realise you were something special. Let her learn that she has to pay for her mistakes...

btw, 10 bucks says they get back together after they "just hang out as friends".

Ya know, you don't treat people like pieces of trash when they make mistakes if you have a heart...would you want someone to throw you to the wayside because of a mistake you made?

Don't take her back unless she really has learned her lesson...and it goes a lot deeper than whether or not it's moral to cheat on someone.

this is a great opportunity to get back with her, fuck the shit out of her, manipulate her into doing kinky shit you wanna do, and then when you cant get her to do any more dump her.

now you have the power over here. you can use it or not. just dont let it get flipped so she has the power and she uses you.

quote:Originally posted by 4skins:

Fuck that bitch, sounds like she got what was coming to her.

How's your bank account, dudezor?

Big/constant enough to attract her? Will it cost you to see her?

Best I'd give her is friends with benefits. Taking her back completely is asking for more trouble.

Take her back. Make sure she catches you in bed with another girl though.

With her ma!

quote:Originally posted by Atticus_Ellis:

Explain to her how it's her fault for dumping you, and say no because she will only do it again.

(But it's your call.)

QFT.

There's this girl whom recently struck my interest. I had her in a few classes... she had a boyfriend back then, but I'm not sure if they're still together since that was a few months back and the boyfriend is a little girl about things.

I was never really interested before because I had a girlfriend, so I didn't bother. But the other day I went to my college's Volleyball game and saw her and it just fucking hit me hard. I've been trying to decide what to do and it basicly comes down to me getting her number next volleyball game. Hopefully the guy is gone, but if he isn't I really don't know what to do. If there's a possibility to take her from him it really isn't worth it because that just means that she's always looking for the sweeter deal.

Never date girls looking for the sweeter deal, because there's ALWAYS something better out there.