Every once in a while I get to hang out with my pal. We chat it up, chill with other people, and then eventually through out the evening, we end up playin Get Friendly with Genetalia. We talk often, and with normal pleasantries given the circumstances. However, theres no title, no hold. No strings attached. And yet I feel guilty when presented with the opportunity of other people.

Ive had several situations where I had a steady outlet for frustrations with no title. And I never felt any guilt before when accepting a different offer.

What I dont understand is why its different this time? Does anybody even know what Im talking about? Should I feel guilty at all?

Maybe you have feelings for said pal?

Thats what I dont get. Ive felt more for other people in both aspects of it. Emotionally and physically.

Find out if your pal is doing the hookup thing with other people too. If so, why guilt? Obvously the exact same thing on both ends, with no expectation of exclusivity. Just the occasional game of Hide the Salami.

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Find out if your pal is doing the hookup thing with other people too. If so, why guilt? Obvously the exact same thing on both ends, with no expectation of exclusivity. Just the occasional game of Hide the Salami.

Last time I checked his car was only parking in my garage. Which I asked from time to time as a safety precaution. And it was inbetween one of those times when I had the guilt trip.

Im not insanely active and I have less of a drive then people my age. After that last guilt trip I didnt take any other opportunities, because I dont like guilt. Its been quite some time, since I dont see said friend often. Id like to know what causes the guilt, or if I should even feel guilty, before I lose my head.

Looks like someone is starting to get their heart strings yanked! Find out if it's mutual? If it is thats a relationship thats taking on new dimensions and if it's something neither of you want then stop the grabass cause then you two might end up hating each other and then your worse off than when it all began.

Goddamn that whole post was so cryptic I'm not sure what you were even saying.