Alright so, I like this guy. Big suprise, right? Anyways I've liked him for a while now and we hang out sometimes etc etc etc. I'm not really a girly kind of girl but I know he doesn't consider me one of the dudes because

A) He liked me before

B) I'm fairly pretty

So anyways now I like him. And not just I kind of like him and my heart flutter nad shit like that. It's like sometimes I can't sleep. He's a really good friend of mine and I know almost everything about him and he knows some shit about me too. He knew more back when he liked me. I kind of figure he still does like me now, especially lately because he talks to me right away and asks when were going to chill somemore and even agreed to do some shit that could get him in alot of trouble for me.

I guess my question is what do you think the best way to approach this would be without putting our friendship in jepordy? Becaus eif the feeling is not mutual it could get strange and I don't really want that. But it just kills me to not know, you know? So any suggestions?

You could try talking to him. This is always a difficult situations, jumping the latter and going from friends to and "item", or whatever you'd like to call it.

If you believe he likes you and you two obviously relate, then I think you should confess your feelings towards him. Ask him how he thinks you should go about this.

I think you know the risks you're taking but chances are since this seems to be such a strong relationship already you two will last for a while. Once you split up, if you do, there will always be something there and it's going to be hard to face eachother most likely until you learn to except it.

You'll never really know unless you take that risk. Life's all about risk taking, if he truely is your friend then you'll remain friends no matter the out come and chances are he's attracted to you and if he doesn't want a relationship he won't reject you necessarly but rather, come to a logical agreement, I suppose you could call it.

Edit: I apologize if this doesn't make much sense. I'm very deprived of sleep and I'm rambling on, trying to help people but I don't really think it's working.

There's enough intelligent people on here for you to get one good response, so I'm not terribly worried.

[This message has been edited by sylph (edited 09-09-2006).]