Sorry this is so long, but I just got home and I'm still pinging. This all happened about 2 hours ago.

Okay so I was at the Casino over here in perth, Id had a few beers and snorted a pill, and was smoking a cigar in the outside bit with my buddy. I make eye contact with this hot random, who smiles, and comes over about 10 minutes later, all happy and hugging me and stuff, completely out of the blue, introduces herself and we getsa talking

I'm not usually that confident with women, but we hit it off really well, she was giving me all the signs, wrapping her legs around mine and grabbing my thigh at oppurtune moments. Turns out shes on a pill as well, and she actually went to my kindergarten . We start making out, and we hang out for most of the night. She is a REALLY good kisser, we dance and enjoy our rolls together, kissing and grinding for a few hours.

This is all going really well, we are fully getting into it everywhere, making out for hours.

I had arranged earlier to get a lift home with my friends (I live really far away so this was a sweet deal) but I have to go whenever they want, and also one of my mates was staying at my place and I had to work the next day. At like 1am my friends, who also had work tomorrow, were ready to bail, but I was having a sweet time with this chick. I get her number but by now she is REALLY into me, rubbing her hands up my chest and down my pants, even jerking off my bare dick on the dancefloor.

I actually found this a bit much. I was on a pill so sex didnt seem like such a holy grail, I wasnt really that turned on. I just really wanted to talk and get to know this chick better. She says shes not really looking for a boyfriend just a bit of 'fun'. So yeah, shes a bit of a slut.

Anyway my friends say its time to go and this chick tells me I can stay at her place, subtley at first but growing more and more persistent when I said no thanks. She was eventually begging me to stay, and go home with her. But I seriously couldnt be fucked cause it would cost me in excess of $100 to get to hers, and home again. Also I was really worried my pill wouldnt let me get it up, I wasnt really in the mood for sex. Thats the main reason really- if I was horny as I would have paid twice that to sleep with this bird.

So anyway when I say i'll just see her tomorrow, she starts getting REALLY insistant. My friends are all calling and messaging me but every time they called she would look at me, grab my cock, close the phone and rub her tits in my face. She literally had me by the balls. Every excuse I could find to bail she had an answer for, even paying for my taxi and offering sex (yes, she actually told me she would definately fuck me that night)

Sounds perfect, doesnt it? But the more persistant she got, the more I shyed away. I just really got turned off by her being so forward. In the end I just wanted to get the fuck out of there and forget about her, but she was SO hot and the way she looked up at me and said she would get with someone else if I didnt stay- she said "i cant control myself when im on a pill"

Okay so shes a slut but she was really nice, and really hot, and this shit never happened to me.

I have really high standards when it comes to looks and personality, and this hot, loose chick just falls in my lap and I get scared off! What the hell is wrong with me!?

I'm supposed to be seeing her tomorrow night, but I really dont know if I can stomach it, I can feel the anxiety coming on already with all that comes from expectations. She blatently wants my dick, and I can't relax about how good it will be because she was SO amped for it that I dunno if I can deliver.

Help!

Ok here is what you do, this time don't take your pill or w/e. and instead replace it with a viagra.

Yeah I was considering this, except I dunno about the Viagra. Maybe a dickload of caffeine or something.

But it was just way too easy. My mind totally lost interest when she was begging me to go fuck her. I just didnt see the point.

Not to be an asshole, but if she's a slut, than she doesn't deserve your respect:

Hit it and quit it.

She was a slut though, so she might have just been rolling and in the moment. Chances are that she found someone else to take your place as soon as you left, so don't expect the same shit to happen again. So...If she blows you off:

Fuck it. Who cares? She was just a slut anyway. Go get drunk with your friends.

yo, why didn't you just go somewhere semi-private around the party area and pound her bearded clam real quick?

quote:Originally posted by Knobchops:

She blatently wants my dick

Your dick, or a dick?

And: Does that matter to you?

The forbidden topic?

The one about Oral STDs? How do you feel about it & them?

quote:Originally posted by Napalm2004:

Ok here is what you do, this time don't take your pill or w/e. and instead replace it with a viagra.

Yeah...Viagra is some cool shit...Whether you need it or not!

Makes you kinda twitchy and can hurt if you already have a boner when it kicks in though!

Give it to her mate...Do her ten ways from Sunday!

You could lose the pill for sure! If you go back out with her and she gets to rubbing the last episode in your face, sneak in the viagra, swallow the pride(hell even agree w/her about what a dummy you were the first time) then when the panties come off that when you HORSEFUCK THE SHIT OUT OF HER. make sure all those holes of hers are in working order, shoot your fun juice all over her face then put your clothes on and leave. then again if your the high standard type you can just not go back out w/her? I'm really a nice guy but when a woman brings my manhood into play, then it's GAME ON BABE. OOOOH RAH!!!!

Meh.. as soon as she left she probably found some other guy to do the same to.

You're not special. Nor are you *not* special but she was acting the way she was because of the drugs, not you.



Enjoy it if you do actually meet her, but be carefull to wear protection and just be wary that you dont know just how many men she fucked since you saw her last.

Hmm so she's forward about sex. This makes you uncomfortable. You seem to want to get to know her better. It sounds like you both want each other for different things.

HOWEVER

Drugs were involved.

THEREFORE

A sober meeting is called for. If she insists on sex again, either take control of the situation and tell her that you're not interested in sex and want to get to know her first (this could create a very good outcome), or bail.

Good luck mate, don't let fear get in your way. She's hot, and she's horny, you just have to let her know what you want.

government conspiracy IMO

man, burswood's kind of crap.

Maybe she had an STD or something and could only get sex off drunk/stoned guys who didnt care.

Except you did...kind of.

I dont understand it when people get all horny on Ex. When I roll, sex is the last thing on my mind.

If I'm at home on my own I do stupid shit, like do situps because they feel funny, or try and paint, just so I can laugh at myself when I sober up.

quote:Originally posted by Foamy:

government conspiracy IMO



hmm, she's hot and horny... maybe a little TOO hot and horny!

quote:Originally posted by Knobchops:

...I just didnt see the point.

Dude, just go for it... bet you'll see the point a few secs after you stick 'm in her

yeah i'd would have shy'd off to, maybe she's gonna rob you :O

try to get her in a formal situation, don't go over, take her out for coffee or something and see what she's really like

I was expecting Bel-Air to the max.

Yeah?

Do you see everything you just told us? Tell her.

quote:Originally posted by Nameless:

Not to be an asshole, but if she's a slut, than she doesn't deserve your respect:

Hit it and quit it.

She was a slut though, so she might have just been rolling and in the moment. Chances are that she found someone else to take your place as soon as you left, so don't expect the same shit to happen again. So...If she blows you off:

Fuck it. Who cares? She was just a slut anyway. Go get drunk with your friends.

What's so wrong with a girl who wants sex and not a relationship? What is it that makes her undeserving of your respect?

Then you're ok, GP, with horny guys coming up to you talking for a few min & saying let's scwoo? Then as you stand there, they start running there hands over your assets? Cool.

Wanna thexxth, girlykins?

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

What's so wrong with a girl who wants sex and not a relationship? What is it that makes her undeserving of your respect?

Maybe because girls that sleep around with no intentions of making it serious are considered whores? Well actually they are considered sluts, since whores actually get cash at the end of the guy's happy ending.

And as you know, whores and sluts are the last on the chain of respect, right next to child rapists. So...you figure it out why guys like sluts while their fucking them, but would never bring one home to mommy

Which one are you going to be? The slut, or the girl that he brings home?

Your problems piss me off - seriously.

You should of just tried to fuck her then, or fucked work off andgone to hers and fucked her in the morning after the E and stayed there fucking all day.

Sluts know how to fuck, you need to live life you nervous nelly, gave away a free lunch.

quote:Originally posted by CarbonB:

Maybe because girls that sleep around with no intentions of making it serious are considered whores? Well actually they are considered sluts, since whores actually get cash at the end of the guy's happy ending.

And as you know, whores and sluts are the last on the chain of respect, right next to child rapists. So...you figure it out why guys like sluts while their fucking them, but would never bring one home to mommy

Which one are you going to be? The slut, or the girl that he brings home?

Well, I know that "sluts" are looked down upon, but I don't understand why exactly. It's just a personal choice. It's pretty much the choice to do what most guys do. I know this argument is brought up all the time, but there's such a ridiculous double standard. So I was asking why this specific person holds this irrational (albeit common) position.

GP: As far as I know, genetically guys are supposed to spread their seed as much as they can, and women are supposed to bear the children and care for them. That's why a guy who gets lots of pussy is looked up to, and a woman who gets lots of dick in her is looked down upon.

A guy who fucks a lot is desirable because usually women are considered the prize, and if he gets them a lot, he must be pretty cool.

Girls who fuck a lot are just like rag dolls that get tossed around, because they lose their value if they give up their body so easily.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

What's so wrong with a girl who wants sex and not a relationship? What is it that makes her undeserving of your respect?

Nothing. It's awesome. But yeah, it's slutty for a chick and a guy, but slut is generally used for females.

Not all guys have double standards. Don't get me wrong, if some chick is all over me at a club, I'll deffinatly be referring to her as "that slut" to my mates. But I'd also consider my self a slut. A man slut . ... .

What was I getting at? Oh right, fuck Melbourne, I'm schedualing a mother fucking road trip to Perth! If that's the way the girls are over there, score.

Well...if a girl gives it up too easy? A guy is liable to think she's not much of a prize.

What kind of girl doesn't even cost a nickel?

Then again? A girl who gives it up regular? Brings you back to her place? You're liable to run into other guys coming around? Do you want to run into those other guys? If he wants what you're getting? Should you fight him if he don't want to wait or should you wait until he's finished?

Or should you hurry up & make room?

You're all looking into this way too much, the only reason he didn't fuck her was because he was under pressure and he choose not to, but to leave with his friends, which is fine, but it's just that.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister:

Well...if a girl gives it up too easy? A guy is liable to think she's not much of a prize.

What kind of girl doesn't even cost a nickel?

But isn't there a significant number of women who don't want to be thought of as a "prize"? I know I don't.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

But isn't there a significant number of women who don't want to be thought of as a "prize"? I know I don't.

Yeah there are. And providing they excersise proper judgement in who they choose to fuck (ie. They're some what picky and don't just fuck the first cock that comes along) they're the girls who are keepers.

But GP, you have some value don't you?

Would you expect a guy to value you as much if he met you on the street & 1/2 hr later you were in an alley giving head? Calling him the wrong name because you'd misheard/forgotten?

A lot of girls don't use rubbers for head? So, you blow a strange guy 1/2hr after you met, sans rubber? Should he give you major props?

Say you both end up working at the same place or in U together? Should he mention his head & the dozen other guys he knows you been down on?

Should a guy you don't fancy hear about you? Would it be proper for him to offer cash?

Wow.

I've never had an experience like that at Burswood.

Ask yourself: what would Jackie Chan do?

Wow, now i'm DEFINITELY going to burswood for my 19th.

Burswood.. I doubt it xD

Northbridge maybe.. but thats where all the pyscotic girls hang =o

[This message has been edited by Zeekz (edited 09-11-2006).]

quote:Originally posted by Foamy:

government conspiracy IMO

quote:Originally posted by Zeekz:

Burswood.. I doubt it xD

Northbridge maybe.. but thats where all the pyscotic girls hang =o



shut up, i went to northbridge on the weekend. then again, i hate northbridge and went because i was begged. what you said is actually pretty accurate now that i think about it.

"i cant control myself when im on a pill"

whatr kind of pill? birthcontrol?

Men are turned off by sluts, because no matter how strong the sex drive is, the heart is stronger. It's the same reason women are turned off by womanizers. Of course, we want to fuck sluts; and women want to fuck womanizers...but there's part of us that doesn't feel right. I say props to the poster for following his conscience rather than his dick. It's sad to see anyone completely ignoring desire in favor of TEMPORARY ease (especially for those of us who were there). Sluts, man or woman, are not respected because they don't respect themselves. They're looked at like pieces of meat because they offer no, or severely limited, humanity to others despite the intense misery that arises when desire is ignored.

Ah desire...trust and love; sluts don't share themselves, they share their organs so others don't get to know the self. Do you respect people that hide from themselves through vices? You might rationalize that it's human to do that-but I tell you, good needs no explanation or rationalization; the joy, trust, and love that sharing self rather than possessions brings speaks for itself. Sex, as a post-factor to sharing one's self and recieving another's self is just a physical solidification of trust.

Sluts are instinct run wild; as are drug addicts; as are those with eating-disorders; as are those with mental disorders. They come up with vices to hide from themselves...it's not WORTHY of respect.

Oh snaps, thanks for the response.

Yeah it was at the Burswood, and yeah thats never happened to me before either . And yeah I fucking hate northbridge too. Freo is where its at

Anyway, okay update. I doubt any of you will believe this, it is so ridiculous. But I have no reason to lie, so you'll have to trust me. I said how I got her number, right? So I was debating whether to msg her or not all day, finally deciding to do it to keep my options open. I was in bed half naked at like 4pm, trying to get some sleep, and I just msg her with a bit of bullshit, you know like "hey how did your night turn out, what you doing tonight?" kind of thing. Theres no response for 20 minutes, then suddenly my phone rings. It's her.

Shes really friendly and stuff, just like on Friday night. She asks me how my night is, I say good, ask her how hers was. That was the last word I got in for 10 minutes. She launches into this monologue, I'll try to write it how she said it, it happened so fast though, I really wasnt prepared:

"Yeah I ended up having an angry night ey, I saw my exs best friend there, he was being an asshole saying all this shit about me, cause I cheated on my ex when we were going out, but like, I told him right after it happened, so its okay, you know? Then he went out with my friend and I thought he cheated on me but he said he didnt then I found out he really did but he didnt tell me I mean how fucked up is that! I mean I was going out with this guy for like 2 years, he got me pregnant twice! I had to have two abortions! And he doesnt even tell me when he cheats on me! So I ended up fucking his best friend, so yeah, pretty fun night. Do you have a home phone I can call you on?"

o.O

It was something really similar to that, anyway. The details I'm sure of are "cheated on him but its okay cause I told him" and "fucked his best friend" and "two abortions". Everything else I'm not too sure of.

BUT SERIOUSLY WHAT THE FUCK! I dodged a fucking bullet! What kind of fucked up bitch just spews up that kind of emotional baggage over the phone to someone they just met! Jesus fucking christ!

We ended the conversation with her telling me to call her when I want to catch up. I told her I would do that.

And I thought there was something wrong with ME!

Keep her number only for when you are incredibly desperate. NO OTHER CONTACT, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!!!!!

Northbridge = Pyscotic girls

Burswood = Slutty girls

Fremantle = winner

Ah, I got a reet good laugh out of that update, thank you very much.

quote:Originally posted by Knobchops:

And I thought there was something wrong with ME!

Fucking high quality post! Topped it off nicely.

Great thread by the way

A right slapper, eh?

So, say that you'd met her face to face & she'd done that monologue? Seeing her/smelling her?

Wouldn't more of her essential goofiness be engraved on your memory...forever? Would the pros outweigh the cons?

If only she's shut up & suck



Only be quiet & fuck...

You have issues.

You made the right choice, OP. Discounting the update, which proves it, your first post shows that she was just out for any old fuck (which she got) so you were better off getting money from working and not pissing off your friends. Staaaaaay the fuck away from her. I'm sure you've already come to that conclusion, or at least I hope you have. That girl is crazy....

What city do you live in? I want to meet this girl and use her for porn.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

But isn't there a significant number of women who don't want to be thought of as a "prize"? I know I don't.

Fuck, I'd like to be someone's prize for once.

I swear to god, people wll complain about anything.

quote:Originally posted by Zeekz:

Northbridge = Pyscotic girls

Burswood = Slutty girls

Fremantle = winner

Ohh I'm right with you on that one, I'm at metros freo every saturday, nothing else in Perth even comes close. Never been to habourside but heard it goes off too.

quote:Originally posted by Streetvision:

You have issues.

Yeah youre probably right, I mean this experience has just scared me completley off casual sex. But seriously that shit is the WORST thing you want to hear hungover, half naked in bed on saturday afternoon. Especially from someone youve met once.

quote:Originally posted by moonmeister

A right slapper, eh?

So, say that you'd met her face to face & she'd done that monologue? Seeing her/smelling her?

Wouldn't more of her essential goofiness be engraved on your memory...forever? Would the pros outweigh the cons?

If only she's shut up & suck

Only be quiet & fuck...

A typically confusing post from you, moonmeister but you do have a point... I think, anyway. Despite all the horrifying info I learnt the next day, I kinda wish I just fucked her that night. Just to get my counter up, and I'd wager shed be pretty fucking good at it too

Fuck my standards!