Back story? I treated her like shit, because I didn't know what I was doing. Fuck. Better luck next time. She's a sweet girl though.

Prelude? We've been in contact again for a few months. She's grown up a bit, and so have I.

Problem? She's a moron. She got raped by a 'friend'. Her new boyfriend is completely useless. He knows what happened, and knows the guy, and goes to school with the guy, but has done nothing, at all, about it.

More problems? You bet. She won't come to see me on 'principal' (oh where did that come in, before or after she fucked her bf's best friend?) even though I'm offering a pad to crash at near the city. Yes, it's a possibility we could have sex, but that's a mutal thing. If she wants it, I'm happy to oblige.

Even more? No! Tonight she's going to a party and not taking her boyfriend, because the host (who is a compulsively lying wimpy little fuck) wants her to appear single to his mates. She's pissed off, but still contemplating it. If she doesn't take my advice to tell him to fuck himself, hard, in the urethra, i will shoot her myself.

How this affects me? It doesn't. Fuck her. But god DAMN, she's the stupidest person on this entire god-foresaken planet.

But you still want her...

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

But you still want her...

I feel horrible about the way I treated her, and I want to make it right.

Have grease & go all night?

The easiest solution for you in four steps:

1) Shrug it off.

2) Accept that you can't help her and don't try any more to reach out to someone you're finished with and aren't friends with (right?).

3) ????????????

4) Profit!

No, we're friends. I fucked her over, so I'm not going to shrug away her friendship. If she wants to be friends, that is good, and I am grateful. I can help her still. She does listen to me.

quote:Originally posted by stab:

No, we're friends. I fucked her over, so I'm not going to shrug away her friendship. If she wants to be friends, that is good, and I am grateful. I can help her still. She does listen to me.

Forget it, man. It's probably too late. Just cut your losses here.

quote:Originally posted by ajardoor:

Forget it, man. It's probably too late. Just cut your losses here.



Why? Why exactly should I cut my losses? I'm cool with it. I just think she's an idiot.

I'm not looking for advice here. I think that's pretty obvious. I just wanted to vent, and I thought moronic ex-girlfriends, as a topic, would produce some good stories.

Girls, ex-boyfriends count too.

Entertain me my lovelies!

[This message has been edited by stab (edited 09-08-2006).]

i find it funny. whyle your going out with her she is not stupid or anything but when you break up she turns into the most stupid thing that has ever graced the earth.

wierd isnt it?

The ones you start to love quickly are always the stupidest..

Is there a single girl/woman on this planet who hasn't been 'raped'?

quote:Originally posted by Bazzle:

Is there a single girl/woman on this planet who hasn't been 'raped'?

*checks list*

Yeah, but I'm working on it.

quote:Originally posted by kev1n:

i find it funny. whyle your going out with her she is not stupid or anything but when you break up she turns into the most stupid thing that has ever graced the earth.

wierd isnt it?

She has intelligence that she hides even from herself. Oh, and when did I ever say I thought she was 'not stupid or anything' while I was going out with her?

PS the two posts above this, are funny as hell

In answer to the obvious sarcasm of the first, however, this is a girl that could easily be taken advantage of. You know, that easily trusting type.

So you fucked up with the girl you like and now you're mad at her new boyfriend. Get over it.

Is it so difficult to understand that I was never looking for your shitty advice?

quote:Originally posted by stab:

She has intelligence that she hides even from herself. Oh, and when did I ever say I thought she was 'not stupid or anything' while I was going out with her?

PS the two posts above this, are funny as hell

In answer to the obvious sarcasm of the first, however, this is a girl that could easily be taken advantage of. You know, that easily trusting type.

Haha, that just reminded me of 40 year old virgin.

"Yes you're good looking, problem is you can't see it and people can't see it... but deep down, you're good looking."

Something like that.