Ok really weird I was hanging out with my really good friend yesterday just listening to music and talking about school. We passed out beside each other and when I woke up she said she loved me? I didn't know what to say I kind of fucked up I wanted her for so long but when I get a chance to make my move I dont do anything? WTF! Well today it seems like shes been trying to avoid me Do you guys think its to late?

What makes this kind of weird is we havn't even made out or anything I've just known her for 2 years.

lol its def not too late shes just bein a bitch

If she said she loves you, I'm sure she'll still feel the same way after a minor ego wound. If it does turn out that you've missed your chance, she obviously doesn't understand her own emotions and you're better off without her

Go tell her you were just surprised, and that you didn't know how to respond but you have feelings for her too. If she really does love you, that won't have changed.

quote:Originally posted by firekitty751:

Go tell her you were just surprised, and that you didn't know how to respond but you have feelings for her too. If she really does love you, that won't have changed.

Ding ding ding!

Congratulations.

Yay!

You can set your watch to your frequent S&A threads.

Update: she finnaly stopped ignoring me were doing something on Wed, I want to ask her out on a date but I'm on a tight budget here I need money to fix my car Hmm I'm willing to spend $50 were can I take her she really does mean something to me I don't want to take her some place shitty like the movies.

Its gona feel so akward asking her out on a date, my last GF asked me out any advice on what/when to say it?

Do you ppl think its too soon for a kiss? IDK she might turn it down that would just feel fucked.

quote:Originally posted by AquaX:

Do you ppl think its too soon for a kiss? IDK she might turn it down that would just feel fucked.

Depends on your age. If you're like...13ish, then maybe.

But if you're around 18 then there's no such thing as 'too soon for a kiss'.

*edit* This kind of reminded me on someting. Which makes me think you're DEFFINATLY not too late. I posted on totse about how I was in bed with the girl I liked (for two years [same as you]), she made a move, gave me a peck, I didn't do anything. Next morning she played it off like it didn't happen. Her ego was just temporarily damaged. I think the next week me and her hooked up.

So umm, yeah, make the move! You've known her for two years, how can that POSSIBLY be too early for a kiss? DO EEEEET!

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Ask yourself: what would Jackie Chan do?

quote:Originally posted by ajardoor:

Ask yourself: what would Jackie Chan do?

Kill some people?

As for what to do (no, don't kill people), try something real tacky, considering how long you've known her. It wouldn't fell right if you two went and did dinner, considering how well you know each other.

Do something fun, go ice skating or bowling (this can even work in your favour if you suck, as you can then use self-depreciative humour). I disagree with the notion that a first date should be serious, it should be fun and enjoyable, tacky even.

Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth.

[This message has been edited by another pint (edited 09-11-2006).]