It goes like this. I met this one girl at this school thing earlier, and I really couldn't tell if she was flirting with me or being friendly. She was asking me a lot of questions and smiling a lot. At one point I was across the yard and when I looked at her she smiled at me.

Is this a good sign? I'm considering asking her to homecoming, but I want to know if she's actually interested in me.

well if shes hot enough for you then ask her out

She is cute, but that's not the point. I just want to know if these are signs that she's interested in me.

Talk to her more, sounds promising though.

quote:Originally posted by DrowningUpsideDown:

She is cute, but that's not the point. I just want to know if these are signs that she's interested in me.

She's probably just nice. I know tons of girls who are just like that, but I guess it's still a possibility that she IS flirting.

I may ask her tomorrow, depends if I see her.

I should also mentioned that I have seen her while riding my bike around, and nearly every time she has smiled at me and waved.

well maybe she is flirting and maybe she's not but still ask her out if you like her

The only thing I am worried about is the fact I've only really known her for a day.

well ok if you've only known her for a day try and get to know her better you know talk to her and if she seems like your type of girl well then ask her out

I would do that, but homecoming is coming up soon and I really have to ask her soon if I want to.

when exactly is your homecoming?

quote:Originally posted by kmartcop88:

Talk to her more, sounds promising though.

Even if she isn't, it is good practice for when you find someone who really is. Gives confidence. Later in life doing such things will be a breeze.

The Friday after next, I think.

It's pretty much homecoming etiquette that you ask them at least a week in advance, so yeah. I suppose I have a week to get to know her better, although I don't know where I would find the chance.

well if you see her like in the hallway talk to her and maybe walk with her home or something like that. get to know her then

Yeah, I'll try and see if she's in the same lunch as me, that would definitely help me out.

Tell some semi-bad jokes and see if she laughs. If you meet a girl for the first time and she likes you, she'll usually laugh at most anything you say, no matter how dumb it is.

quote:Originally posted by emogan:

Tell some semi-bad jokes and see if she laughs. If you meet a girl for the first time and she likes you, she'll usually laugh at most anything you say, no matter how dumb it is.

Or she'll think you're a prat.

Could be worth the gamble though.

Jx

help out a european brother.



wtf is homecoming?!

if she held a decent conversation with you and LOOKED interested, and smiled at you like that, then it sounds like it is possible she's interested, if the smile looked genuine or not

quote:Originally posted by Argus:

help out a european brother.



wtf is homecoming?!

I'm In Australia, I have no idea... except for all the American movies I've seen. Hollywood pretty much declares that couples go to a ball style event, get drunk, there's some sex between 'prom king' and 'prom queen' (whatever the fuck they are) and there's at least one fight. Also, everyone will show up in cars that their parents probably couldn't afford if they saved for ten years.

Just watch any of the 5000 American teen movies.

Next time your conversing ask her to give you her hands. If she goes palms up, this indicates dis-interest.

If palms down that's a good sign.

It is best to have a canned line when you take her hands like is kit kat a biscuit or chocolate bar.

Then while you're talking play with her fingers or if you feel un comfortable doing it, do it anyway.

Hope this helps.