Ok so i don't post often, but i do read a lot, but I had to ask this question since me and my g/f have decided to have sex this weekend. We are both virgins. I've been watching a lot of porn lately to get tips. I just saw a virgin girl for the first time having sex, and she Looked In PAIN. THere was blood on the dick and everything. Will this happen to us this weekend since its our first time?

[This message has been edited by Easy (edited 09-08-2006).]

depends completely on her.

one word that will help: wet.

Its deflowering genious.

First of all, you sound apprehensive and a bit doubtful. Just because you've made a date doesn't mean you have to go through with it if you're not ready. Secondly, if what you saw was porn (the virgin cherry-pop), I'm guessing "virgin porn" as a genre is very much about the supposed pain involved in the first time. If, however, your girl has done adequate experimentation, either with you or alone, it won't be as bad. It will also help if she is turned on, since the vagina widens during arousal and tightens in times of anxiety.

Yea i was thinking that too. THey were also showing what the pussy looked like as a virgin, and then the guy started to stretch the pussy and it started to open. DO i have to do that?

Jesus, what are you, 12? I'm all for teaching kids, but it really doesn't take a lot to pick up a book or go on the internet and get some facts about sex. Face it, you'll (hopefully) be doing it a lot later on in a life.

Call that Sue Johanson lady, she'll help you out.

quote:Originally posted by Easy:

Yea i was thinking that too. THey were also showing what the pussy looked like as a virgin, and then the guy started to stretch the pussy and it started to open. DO i have to do that?



Haha, no. Porn is an extreme. Take it with a grain of salt. Jackketch posted a first-timer's manual a bit earlier. I recommend lube, and if you choose to finger her (which is 99% likely) that you cut your fingernails beforehand.

In an ideal world, you will both be turned on, and the animal instincts will help guide you.

[This message has been edited by lauren7249 (edited 09-08-2006).]

OK thx lauren! I had no clue it opened when aroused. I'm guessing Teasing a lot makes her aroused as well as rubbing.

quote:Originally posted by Easy:

OK thx lauren! I had no clue it opened when aroused. I'm guessing Teasing a lot makes her aroused as well as rubbing.



Teasing, yes. It's interesting. Women are really more aroused (I find) in a psychological way before the physical kicks in. It's actual a better bet to tease her much earlier before in playful way, such as tickling, laughter, etc. If you get her laughing (in a real way), then she'll be relaxed and turned on in a deeper way than just rubbing can achieve.

I was sitting in a car and stuck my hand down this girls pants and her pussy lips literally just opened. Like I mean I could feel it just go bloop. It was cool.

Girls have a membrane inside thier vaginas called a hymen, and when a girl has sex for the first time, the membrane can be pierced, and cause bleeding. Girls can also pierce thier hymens in other ways, like if they fall on something at just the right angle, so not all girls bleed, but most do.



But I'm not so sure that you two are ready to have sex, you seem a little too anxious. You should only go through with it if you feel completley cofortable with it. If you don't feel comfortable, don't be afraid to back out, she's just as nervous as you are.

But if, in the end, you decide to have sex,

USE A CONDOM. Have fun.

quote:Originally posted by Gold n Green:

Like I mean I could feel it just go bloop.

That is by far the most hilarious description of a woman growing aroused that I've ever read.

I'd won't offer any advice, but instead I strongly suggest listening to Lauren; take note that foreplay does not start in a simply physical way, this is something that I would think everyone realizes.

quote:Originally posted by whitefox:

Girls have a membrane inside thier vaginas called a hymen, and when a girl has sex for the first time, the membrane can be pierced, and cause bleeding. Girls can also pierce thier hymens in other ways, like if they fall on something at just the right angle, so not all girls bleed, but most do.



But I'm not so sure that you two are ready to have sex, you seem a little too anxious. You should only go through with it if you feel completley cofortable with it. If you don't feel comfortable, don't be afraid to back out, she's just as nervous as you are.

But if, in the end, you decide to have sex,

USE A CONDOM. Have fun.

nicely said

Yea i've been thinking of that too. My first goal will be to pleasure the fuck out of her, her giving me some head also. After, if we still want more we will go to sex. She said its ok to back away. BUt i don't wanna be a puss. Any amazing tips on giving her an orgasm with just my tongue and fingers?

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quote:Originally posted by Easy:

Yea i've been thinking of that too. My first goal will be to pleasure the fuck out of her, her giving my some head. After if we still want more we will go to sex. She said its ok to back away. BUt i don't wanna be a puss. Any amazing tips on giving her an orgasm with just my tongue and fingers?



I'm going to generalize here and say that even if she's turned on, it's rare for a girl to orgasm her first time. It's excellent to be as considerate as you seem to be planning on. But it's not your fault if she doesn't orgasm. It would be much worse if she felt so pressured that she faked it, right? So don't push the orgasm issue too hard. Focus on being attentive and gentle, unless she seems keen to screw like a rabbit. How old are you both, by the way?

16 turning on 17 soon

quote:Originally posted by Easy:

16 turning on 17 soon

And how long have you been dating, or how long have you know one another?

since ending of may

quote:Originally posted by Rykoshet:

Call that Sue Johanson lady, she'll help you out.

I remember that lady.

A woman who reminds you of your grandmother talking about every sexual topic you can possibly conceive.

Sex can jeopardize the relationship so make sure of one thing :

just dont let loose in 15 seconds then kneel over and cry.

ROFL, If that would happen, i would threaten her not to tell anyone

Whatever happens, happens. Don't plan, you're being a Boy Scout at the moment. It's good to be prepared, but don't take it too far.

Where did you find that virgin porn? I've always looked but never found one, and never seen pron with cherries popped.

quote:Originally posted by Easy:

I've been watching a lot of porn lately to get tips. I just saw a virgin girl for the first time having sex, and she Looked In PAIN. THere was blood on the dick and everything. Will this happen to us this weekend since its our first time?



Cause we all know that what they do in porn is exactly like real life. How about you wait until you sprout a pair. I really don't think someone with you're limited knowledge should be put in the situation where they are able to procreate. However, seeing as how I cannot stop what is going to happen... http://tinyurl.com/nln8g