When a girl says a guy is 'cute' she really means:

When a girl says a guy is 'sexy' she really means:

For all girls ,please tell me Im right that there is a differance, and if you get the 'your cute' phrase , she more than likely does not want to fuck.Just her way of saying your nice, and wants to fuck the guy next to you instead.

None of the girls who said I was cute actually wanted to fuck me.

Some girls said I was hot and I could definately see they would like to fuck me.

Some girls said nothing and either didn't notice me or wanted to fuck me like there was no tomorrow.

My two cents.

EDIT: I usually comment on a girl being very cute, despite not being very much interested.

I often find some not too cute girls with outrageusly high amounts of sex-appeal. I'd hit it.

Hope it helps.

[This message has been edited by Local Hero (edited 12-16-2004).]

A girl would say a dog is cute.

A girl would not say a dog is sexy.

A girl would not want to have sex with a cute dog.

Nuff said...

To me, cute means good looking but not sexually fit.

Sexy, on the other hand, well, means sexworthy.

appreciate the responses.Would love to get some female replys as well

its sort of a response survey im doing,

not for college , but for my sex life, or lack there of.

quote:Originally posted by $tinger:

To me, cute means good looking but not sexually fit.

Sexy, on the other hand, well, means sexworthy.

From a chicks point of view... that’s basicly it.

I disagree. I think of guys as being cute rather than hot or sexy because they may not be the best-looking, but they're cute to me and I like them as people. If they're cute and I like them enough, sure, they'd be sexworthy. If I was actually having it.

why did totse just vomit and make me quote myself.

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quote:Originally posted by speakeasy:

Cute = He's adorable. Let's date and eventually make teh sex.

Sexy = I don't care to know his name I just want him to stick it in right now, then hang around long enough to have a cigarette afterward.

Cute : baby faced

Sexy : masculine

"Cute" is intentionally ambiguous. If you try to get a precise consistent meaning from just the term, you are making a mistake.

quote:Originally posted by Extant:

A girl would not want to have sex with a cute dog.



ya never know buddy...

Yeah I know... I was stereotyping...

"Cute" is safer than "sexy" or "hot" to use around your girlfriend in reference to some other girl.

for me:

cute w/ no contact: you're good looking but something's lacking...usually said to distance desperate guys - along the lines of "aw you're cute, BUT..."

cute w/ body contact: you're quite attractive, and i'm drunk, so forgive me while i fondle your face without any intention of fucking you, but if you wanna hang out later, we should

sexy: i would probably like you to fuck my brains out if i weren't so fucking drunk/high. follow me around and buy me drinks. also, come here and dance with me NOW.

*silence/stare*: whoa..you are really beautiful and i think you're my type...what do i do? bah...i'll just stare

-Jenn

quote:Originally posted by herrrmine:

cute w/ no contact: you're good looking but something's lacking...usually said to distance desperate guys - along the lines of "aw you're cute, BUT..."

Damn. I get told I am cute suprisingly often (like 3 times a week?). I have a feeling the above fits me perfectly, as i have a rather messed up personality.

quote:Originally posted by svend:

Damn. I get told I am cute suprisingly often (like 3 times a week?). I have a feeling the above fits me perfectly, as i have a rather messed up personality.

hmmm...i dunno...usually 'messed up' would sort in the hot/unattainable/sexy category. cute for me is more like...lame or boring or seems too 'nice' or chump or tool you get the idea...

also i think alot of girls say it when they wanna show affection/flirt without giving out a full go-ahead for anything mroe.

basically looks-wise, cute can go either way is what i'm trying to say.

Most of the time, when a woman tells me I'm "cute" it is in reference to my personality rather than my physical appearance. I take it to mean the same thing, though.

my mom says im cute, and my ex said i was sexy?

Cute can be very sexy, and sexy can be very cute.

I dunno. It depends who's telling you you're cute, and the context of it.

My boyfriend tells me I'm cute all the time, and now I'm a little worried..

when i tell a girl shes cute, i mean it in a good way!

Honesty is a nice thing, but when it comes to getting laid, you have to abandon it. If you're looking for a relationship, hold on to it.

Cute is essentially bullshit. Very few people say it an mean it; it's either a signal to ugly people to go away, or a signal to let a decent looking person know you're interested. Sometimes telling someone they're sexy can make them think you're a sexually deprived person with no real experience and a good chance of becoming obsessive were they to engage in sex with ya.

Now, sexy is one of the few honest things people say. That's what we say when we are motivated purely by our sex drive in the comment. Sexy means just that, it's a comment on your appearance bringing thoughts of fucking to their mind...essentially, you're a potential piece of meat for the night.

Understand this, cute factors in personality WITH looks. If you're a jackass AND ugly, no way in hell you'll be called cute, even condescendingly. Now, if you have some looks but are a complete cunt, you might be called cute in the condescending way (this is for people older than 16, when women have atleast a small ability to ward off men who are pieces of shit. Now, if you're not too bad looking and you got a decent personality, you'll get 'cutes' quite often, meaning you're possessing the ideal dating personality, but not necessarily the looks. But, if you're both good looking and have a good personality, women who are afraid to approach you seriously may just call you cute, but the braver ones would move in on you, skipping the talk.

I dont speak the word 'sexy' often,allthough I have been known to write it with UV pen a few times.

Cute is a word I use alot, I use it in conjunction with a big grin and a glowy happy feeling.

The girl I started a tread about thinks I'm Cute...

Yoyobek, you seem to be in the dumps about your own looks, think that might be why you don't say 'sexy' often? As if you didn't have the right to say it or something?

Pointless questioning really, but I'm just wondering.

quote:Originally posted by boobsy mcfirehazard:

I dunno. It depends who's telling you you're cute, and the context of it.

My boyfriend tells me I'm cute all the time, and now I'm a little worried..

LOL.

quote:Originally posted by u_fucked_my_sister:

From a chicks point of view... that’s basicly it.

Are you calling me a chick? HOW DARE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nah, jk.

quote:Originally posted by herrrmine:

for me:

...*silence/stare*: whoa..you are really beautiful and i think you're my type...what do i do? bah...i'll just stare

-Jenn

I get that often, especially from black chicks. I guess they REALLY like tall white guys with blue eyes.

Meh, they have yet to catch me and brag to their friends about how they have a white boyfriend.

Hmm, I couldn't answer that from a chick point of veiw, really and truely, when i say someone's cute, yeah, they're cute, and if they're sexy, I say they're sexy. Whether or not I have have sex with either is another thing all together.

I'm one of those 'cute' girls, and that's all I get. "You're a cute chick, let's hang out & play video games" It blows.

quote:Originally posted by sybil:

The girl I started a tread about thinks I'm Cute...

bullshit

quote:Originally posted by bloodenangel:

Hmm, I couldn't answer that from a chick point of veiw, really and truely, when i say someone's cute, yeah, they're cute, and if they're sexy, I say they're sexy. Whether or not I have have sex with either is another thing all together.

I'm one of those 'cute' girls, and that's all I get. "You're a cute chick, let's hang out & play video games" It blows.

Shit, you play videogames? That's enough to seduce me if you're cute, sexy, barely lookable, or whatever. I'll give ya some action if we can play some MP in Halo 2 afterwards.

If someone told you that you were "hot" would it fall under cute, sexy or something else???

^^^I hate the use of the word 'hot'. Not sure why, but I do.

quote:Originally posted by Shiznit Skitzafrantic:

If someone told you that you were "hot" would it fall under cute, sexy or something else???

usually i interpret it as 'fuckable'/'accessible'

usually it's tools and chachis in clubtype settings that like to use this term though eh?

the really cool ones don't even say anything. it's all about body language and coy smiles or something..it drives me crazy

-Jenn

bump

quote:Originally posted by $tinger:

I get that often, especially from black chicks. I guess they REALLY like tall white guys with blue eyes.

Meh, they have yet to catch me and brag to their friends about how they have a white boyfriend.

mm yea...from what you just said there...you don't know what the fuck that look is. and you never will.

its not about bragging. its not about physical appearance.

poor tall blue-eyed white guy

-Jenn

quote:Originally posted by Optimus Prime:

Shit, you play videogames?

Yeah, I do.

It's the reason I have alot of guy friends, just not boyfriends.

- Cute video game playing chick. Woo yay.

When I call a girl sexy it means that the number one thing I'd wanna do with her is fuck.....if later on we were compatible so be it.....but when I call a girl cute, it means that I'm looking for more than just a lay....although doing her comes in a close second......

^^^Yea...kinda like that...

My girl uses both, she says "cute" when were like, at school or around people, but once were alone it turns to "sexy" after a while. From her they're both good I guess, I hope.

quote:Originally posted by TheDivineShaft:

bullshit

Don't be mad at me because nobody thinks you're cute. Can I help it that your parents put you in the dumpster when you were 2, so like about 6 years ago.

quote:Originally posted by: bloodenangel

I'm one of those 'cute' girls, and that's all I get. "You're a cute chick, let's hang out & play video games" It blows.

A GIRL thats CUTE, AND PLAYS VIDEO GAMES!?!?!

::drools:: Hmmmmm, Fantasy girl.

*Damn typos



[This message has been edited by Fatman (edited 12-19-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by Shonkman:

When I call a girl sexy it means that the number one thing I'd wanna do with her is fuck.....if later on we were compatible so be it.....but when I call a girl cute, it means that I'm looking for more than just a lay....although doing her comes in a close second......

Exactly