Okay say you're a virgin and your boyfriend has slept with 3 other girls... what are your thoughts on this?

It really doesn't matter if he loves you.

Depends on the girl. Some won't care, and some will go off into fits of jealous rage and cut off your penis.

It all depends on the girl.

Just dont talk about it to her. If you do she may think that you are always going to be comparing her to the other people that you've slept with. Its in the past, leave it there

I'm a guy, but I'm pretty sure I could answer this... most virgin girls you would start dating might feel a bit uncomfortible at first. Why's this? Because they feel pressured. they know you've had previous sexual relations, and they havent. They are probably just confused as to what will happen with the relationship. Some might not feel ready yet for sex, and might feel that since you've had sex before, you'll want it in this relationship, and that can get a girl nervous. She might feel ready for sex, but since she is a virgin, her first time is going to mean something to her, so she want's everything to be perfect, and that could influence decisions she makes in the relationship.

Hope I answered your question...

I don't know about most girls, but as a virgin the main thing that makes me not want to have sexual relations with non-virgins is fear that I'm going to perform badly. Other than that, I don't much care. But that could be because I don't know any other virgins who I could date even if I wanted to

It's fine to have your feelings, as the guy could: Most likely be thinking about a better performing girl while performing, blurt out another girl's name while doing so, and your happy friend herpes.

yeah i agree with not telling her at first, and if she puts it to you, either avoid the question or say it was utter shite and you didnt care for the others as much as you do for her.

go slow.

would i care? yes. if a guy was a virgin, being on the pill would be enough, and i wouldn't need a condom mmmmmm.....

my thoughts are that you should break down and cry.

[This message has been edited by TheDivineShaft (edited 12-17-2004).]

If you guys are talking about having sex, always use "if" instead of "when". "When" makes it seems like it's inevitable, "if" gives her the power because it's "if" she's ready, or "if" she's gonna give it up to you.

fib the truth a bit as well. tell her not only did you sleep with three girls before her, you also had gay casual sex with elder men on a weekly basis! that'll really fuck with her mind!

but on a real note: most girls really dont care if they are into you.

like my friend, she likes me so much she doesnt care how many sexual partners i've had. too bad she is underage

I met my first boyfriend when I was 18. I was a virgin. He was 23, and god knows how many people he had been with. I couldn't care less because he was an awesome guy, and he cared about me. The fact that he'd been with other girls before me had no bearing on anything. We proceeded to hump like rabbits for months thereafter.

So stop being a pussy and worrying about a totally irrelevant issue.

quote:Originally posted by speakeasy:

So stop being a pussy and worrying about a totally irrelevant issue.

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