Ok. On all the dating sites they say " just go up and talk to her, the one who actually talks to women is the one who leaves with the most numbers". I'm sure you have all heard of this. Unfortunately, the people who own these websites assume that the women of your dreams is the first beautiful woman you meet at a bar. They also assume that you will probably never see this woman again so why be embarassed, after all, she doesn't know you. One problem, Highschool. I'm in highschool, and what about the girl you see every day. The girl that make a complete ass out of yourself in front of, and you're fucked. How do you start a conversation in this case?

Second problem, the girl i'm talking about. She's fucking amazing looking, the most georgous girl I have ever seen. She makes Paris Hilton look like hag. I know she has a thing for me, we make eye contact every 10 seconds, and I still can't work up the courage to talk to her. It's the girl you only meet once every other lifetime, and I so badly don't want to fuck up. If she comes and stands right by me, I know she wants me to say something, but I don't, I have that familiar feeling in my throat, the feeling that I'm going to be choking when I talk. I trust my instincts, because I know my body. I know if i'm going to choke. Can someone help me out that isn't going to be a sarcastic little bitch trying to impress the senior totseans. After all i'm a noobie, make a good impression.

EDIT: I just read some of the thread started by The_Infamous_Mobb, but i'm pretty sure that this love. I don't even know her but i'm getting one less hour of sleep each night thinking about her. I need to ask her out before Winter Break or i'm going to be going nuts wishing I was back in school... what amazing things women can to to men.

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I've been in that situation plenty of times, but I usually black out mentally when I go into that shit and come out fine. If I knew what I had done, I'd tell ya.

I don't want to get over her, I want to get with her.

say something like 'you know, i invented tetris' or post it notes or whiteout. something stupid like that. thats a good ice breaker. if she digs you anyway then it doesnt really matter as long as you get past that first line to open things up.

If you know she has a thing for you, then next time she stands next to you, just say, "I can't talk when I'm around you." She can probably relate if she won't start the conversation with you. Or since you're in high school like me, ask her to be your partner in your next class project, that's how I got my girlfriend that I've been with for 2 years and 10 months now. ANother thing is ask her for help on an assignment, that's a really easy ice breaker. Or if she's close to you stand up and start showing the class something cool you have, or tell a joke. Just some ideas.

*edit* yeah, kinda what he said! ^^

well.. you could start off by, Talking to her.. not trying to score a date without talking to her first.. just talk to her, if she talks back, keep talking(der?) then .. take it from there.. if you dont know what to talk about! ask her "Hey sweet thang, can I buy you a fish sandwich?" hahahah <3 the ladies man.

no but actually.. start conversation.. it cant be that hard.. if shes in your classes just start with small talk til you get the balls to talk to her.. or find the funny part of you, humor works too make her laugh

(u shood alrady have em)

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the numbers game only works if you got some game to back it up with. start off at a meat market like a dive bar. work your way up from there.

Have one of your friends right by you. When she comes over, bring her into the conversation.

Then leave you friend and talk to her by your self. It should go from there. Will it matter in 10 years? Probably not, so why care?

puppy love.... you cant be in love with someone you have never spoken to.

you 'love' the thought of her, not who she really is... im not paying you out about it, its a natural teenage thing.

dont get caught up (or do... whatever) just talk to her like a normal person.

believe me, she may seem like the 'once in a lifetime' girl, but she most likely isnt. there are plenty of people out there that you can have relationships with....

you do sound a bit obsessed tho..

just go and say hi, how did you go in this test, or have you heard this song.. anything to get her to tell you about herself... you see, people LOVE to talk about themselves... what they like,do etc....

oh and BTW

paris hilton is nothing special... except a contrived spoilt princess who has no real world experience except for that stupid farm show, and even that wasnt realistic.

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oh and BTW

paris hilton is nothing special... except a contrived spoilt princess who has no real world experience except for that stupid farm show, and even that wasnt realistic.

You are so right she has a real fucked up nose. The only reson people like her is because she is stinking ritch.

This is like having a cold.... so common yet probably will never be cured. But do this bro... its obvious you like her, not sure about how she feels about you... you look at yourself as a choker, you lock up when you know she wants you to say something... its a mind game, control your mind, control your actions... tell yourself " you know what, fuck this, im gonna talk to her, fuck everyone else's opinion, im doing this for me" control your mind... think of it as funny that u have this problem... pull her aside at some point and laugh a little before saying anything... tell her " ya know, up until now, i've been wanting to talk to you but felt like i was gonna choke... but fact is, i kinda like you and would like to get to know u better" and be cool man, relax yet be confident.