Well, there is the girl, she is completely over all the guys that only want sex and she wants somebody to move in slower. There's me, I move in slower and what happens, she gets over me because I'm not in her pants and goes for the next fast guy.

Pointless rant, I think not.

Point is enclosed below...

If you're a teenage male and have the opportunity, get in the girls pants because teenage relationships just aren't meant to be. I know it goes against what so many of us want and try to do, but until you're at least 18 it's the only workable way to go.

Am I right, wrong or on the wrong bloody planet?

I'm sorry to break it to you, but even when your 18 it doesn't change. Even at 23. I don't know when it does, but my best guess is somewhere around 30.

Well I guess I'll have to deal with it the only way I know... Depressed teenage goth kid, here we come.

quote:Originally posted by Syko:

Well I guess I'll have to deal with it the only way I know... Depressed teenage goth kid, here we come.

Uhm, that's not going to help.

do what I did, start going to church. make yourself a better person. Maybe, just Maybe you'll find someone who appreciates a nice guy. And if that doesn't work. Blow your head off in two years. At least then they can say; "He really was a nice guy"

There is no age at which things become easier. It is well known among the world's male population that women are the weirdest creatures on the planet!

Most women are like the bible...Contradictory!

They say they want a nice guy who makes them laugh and makes them feel special. When they get said man, they are okay but lo and behold when a big, loud-mouthed prick with all the physical trimmings and the properties of a woman beating coke-head breezes in, they are in his vicinity quicker than a fat guy can eat a cupcake!

Face it lads...We're screwed!

They're not going after the coke-head prick because he's a prick, they go for him because he's dominant; he's a lesser stage of the ubermensch...he attempts to live above the rules. See, the problem with a lot of people who think they are 'nice guys' is that they're mistaking 'nice guys' and 'pussies'. Me, I get along great with women; I consider myself a nice guy, but I also realize that I don't take shit from people like almost every other self-proclaimed nice guy does.

You have to be dominant to stand above the rest...a woman won't find you in a crowd, but if you're heads above the rest EVERY woman will atleast notice you. Be the fucking alpha male...that means stand up for your fucking self, don't take shit from ANYONE (especially women), but don't deal out shit if it isn't necessary.

The ideal man is a balance between a pussy and a prick; a man who maintains a sense of honor about his actions and a caring for women and fellow men, whilst still being able to satisfy carnal needs and provide excitement in life.

Real fucking easy to just say it though. Try being the alpha male, in control, without people thinking you are a dick. You have to be a dick to get things done, and to get what you want. Not that I like it, or agree with it, but its true. I find it hard to be a dick to people, unless they truly piss me off.

There are tons of situations in my life where I know I should stand up, and be a dick, but I just can't bring myself to do it. Sometimes though, I am a dick for no reason.

I guess I get frustrated about the other shit, and let it out at the wrong time.

quote:Originally posted by Syko:

she is completely over all the guys that only want sex and she wants somebody to move in slower.

Why do you assume this? Because she told you?

Meh, he's right, but only to a point.

Do you think most girls would like it if you made a scene in the supermarket just 'cuz someone cut in line, or would they find that sort of petty outrage embarassing?

quote:Originally posted by Syko:



If you're a teenage male and have the opportunity, get in the girls pants because teenage relationships just aren't meant to be. I know it goes against what so many of us want and try to do, but until you're at least 18 it's the only workable way to go.



You're absolutely correct. For 99% of girls that is. As with everything, there are exceptions to rules. Very difficult to find them though.

I have so many friends who have passed up good pussy in order to go slowly into the relationship and have ended up regretting it because they end up getting dicked without ever dicking. If you get my drift.

quote:Originally posted by Easy Going:

Why do you assume this? Because she told you?

She told me... hence the reason I was pissed off.

If she didn't tell me and I fucked up off my own back, which I did in a sense anyway then it would all be good.

Girls don't really know what they want. Well they do but they never really say what they want. Girls usually want the "Asshole" like said before, because they are the more confident dominate person. Girls may want a nice guy but they don't want a little pussy. Also like said before you got to find a center. Like with me, now for the most part im sweet and nice to my woman(yes I do refer to her as my woman when talking to her) but sometimes im a little bit assholish. You can't be 100% sweet and caring all of the time otherwise you will probably come off as clingy and a pussy.

Be sweet and nice sometimes and other times you got to be nonchalant. That is the best word to describe how you should be with girl. Sometimes you just have to play it cool and either not care or if you do care just pretend not to. From my experince if you're to nice from begging to end you will either just get stuck in "Just friends" catagory which sucks or the girl will think your a good guy but not datable.

Also your right about the part about getting in girls pants and such.

I just stopped caring about trying to get a girlfriend. I've started to get a lot of girls flirting with me, but I don't flirt back. I put myself into the "just friends" category because there's always a better opportunity down the road. I live a pretty decent life caring for others rather than actually trying to hook up, and because of it I got my nickname St. [my last name]. Which is pretty cool to me to have everybody respect you for living a good life.

it's not true, you can go slow with an 16 year old girl, i've been dating my girl for 3 years now, and she was 16 when we started off, we took it slow, reall slow, waited for two whole weeks before i got laid...

I waited for almost a year with one at fifteen... then I dumped her bitchy ass because she got really bitchy and started ignoring me... for a few FUCKING MONTHS.