heres the story, my girlfriend does not shave and i really dont like going down there, i was wondering if anyone knew a subtle way i could tell her to shave it, as everyone knows shaven is better. i love sex but this is holding me back.

it doesn't have to be shaven. just trimmed short. tell her you could do more things if she could trim up a bit. hell, even offer to trim yourself up too.

sounds like a good idea, but i still think shaven is better

Yeah yeah.. I used to love the shaved pussy only.. wouldn't go for anything else at all.

But a true lady will have something down there.. otherwise it feels like I'm fucking a twelve year old girl.

To answer your question, tell her -you've- been thinking of trimming.. and then try to turn that into -her- trimming (or shaving it all off I guess).

offer to shave her in the shower, run warm water on it (nake sure you have shaving cream, gel, etc.) tell her not to watch then begin "trimming her up. but instead of trimming you're going to be careful and take it to skin. it works man.

I shaved once and I admit it was incredible. But my skin is just too sensitive...so it became too uncomfortable after a while. [I can't even use a razor on my legs and have to use an electric one or I'll break out in a rash.] But I do keep it trimmed...when I think about it that is. I've never had anyone complain though.

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Tell her it will be better for both of you if she shaves. Although, personally, I found that shaving left stubble.

A wax would be much better, or (if she has a high pain threshold like me) use an epilator to remove the hairs and maintain it with tweezers.

Ask her if she has ever shaved/trimmed or ever thought about it. Then whatever she says either ask her if she would give it a try or to start back up. Tell her it turns you on or something, girls like having that control over guys.

quote:Originally posted by SilkySmooth:

A wax would be much better, or (if she has a high pain threshold like me) use an epilator to remove the hairs and maintain it with tweezers.



I cringe....I'd rather give birth....

quote:Originally posted by outcast:



I cringe....I'd rather give birth....

It's not that bad actually. It doesn't hurt me at all and gives great, smooth, long-lasting results!

Maybe it's like tweezing your eyebrows...after a while you barely notice it.

But...I'm a coward...

my gf is considering that laser hair removal thing where you do it once, and you hardly grow any hair anymore. the only problem is its really expensive...like $100+

Hey...let us know how it goes if she does...definately an option worth looking into.

quote:otherwise it feels like I'm fucking a twelve year old girl.

and this is a problem,already?

Fuck I love shaved pussy.

Or a little soft landing strip above her pussy.

Are there any guys out there other than me who actually like the pubic hair around her pussy? I mean it has to be well kept, clean and everything. It really doesn't bother me at all.

quote:Originally posted by weedman1234:

Fuck I love shaved pussy.

Or a little soft landing strip above her pussy.

Exactly.

quote:Originally posted by IUsedToBeShodansOwn:

my gf is considering that laser hair removal thing where you do it once, and you hardly grow any hair anymore. the only problem is its really expensive...like $100+

It's very rare that only one electrolysis session removes ALL the hair. She's most likely going to have to go back for a total of 3, even 4 visits before her hair finally quits and stops growing in.

Initially hair bothered me but I sort of have gotten over it. This is partially because my gf did trim it up some. This was after I commented that it got in the way a bit when going down on her. Also I think the problem was emphasized a couple of times when I got a loose hair on my lip which got into her mouth when I stopped to make out with her. I think it helped her understand how annoying the hair can be.

quote:Originally posted by IUsedToBeShodansOwn:

my gf is considering that laser hair removal thing where you do it once, and you hardly grow any hair anymore. the only problem is its really expensive...like $100+

$100+ isn't that bad if it's permanent. I'd say "I won't go down on you until you shave."

I would rather the girl trim than shave. Shaving leaves stubble and ingrown hairs, so it's just not worth it. If she can find/afford a different method, great, but if not, just ask her to trim it short. It really makes a big difference.

Just stop being such a little kid, get in there and get messy.

Why does everyone keep saying shaving leaves stubble and ingrown hairs? I shave and I dont have any stubble, provided that I use a new good quality razor like mach3 or whatever. And yes, I get an occassional ingrown hair but not that often. So anyways, if your girlfriend is down with getting rid of her hair then dont scare her away from shaving, cause unlike waxing it doesnt hurt like a bitch and in my opinion its prettier then trimming.

Next time you are going down on her...come up and pull out one of her pubes from between your teeth and say, "I prefer my floss waxed...and while we are on the subject of wax..."

Try asking her: "would you shave your pussy, please".

quote:Originally posted by Crazy 88:

Are there any guys out there other than me who actually like the pubic hair around her pussy? I mean it has to be well kept, clean and everything. It really doesn't bother me at all.

Great! I was beginning to wonder about guys today.

If I didn't know that being hair-free does feel quite good, I'd say that ladies have spoiled the men out there.

Give me a manly man who enjoys a little game of 'ring around the mulberry bush'.

Just tell her it looks better, and makes her look sexier.

Simple.

That's it.

Just say it looks sexy and much nicer when trimmed.

As long as, like anyone M or F, she showers regularly, then you'll have good clean fun forever!