Ok, her I am once agian and today i was suppose to go to her to see a movie, and by the way i am 16 and yes i am having alot of problems with this. Her mom is like why do you always to to him on the phone and shit and her dad doesnt like her around guys so he isnt alout to hang out with me.

It has been bugging me for a few hours now and then i started drinking and came to the conclusion that I think I should break up with her, but not cause of her parents because she doesnt try to find ways around it to spend time with me, and it hurts me shesays she can say she is with friends but doesnt, I care about her so much and i want to be with her. What should i do or say to her to not be such a pussy to her parents and should i break up with her?

you have to talk to her. big time and serious. lay it on the line. she has to choose you or her parents.

if she hesitates,gets angry or seems confused just get up and leave. for good.

Explain everythink you have been thinking and what you have done, including this post, in detail, but smoothly, in a way you are supporting her, but she is on your side.

quote:Originally posted by searcysyndicate:

Explain everythink you have been thinking and what you have done, including this post, in detail, but smoothly, in a way you are supporting her, but she is on your side.

are you a dude or a chick?

cut the foreplay, and just dump her. shes made her choice.

Naw man she hasnt made her choise, her parents have for her but who cares it is her decision, and i know she wants to be with me but her parents are the ones, so i guess im gonna have to let her decide.

spend time with her around her parents, try to converse with her parents, etc. currently her father is feeling like you are some upstart only interested in getting into his daughters panties- you have to try and make her parents see you as a person, ie talk to her father, have a chat about football, music, Anything, just be friendly.

after a few weeks of making her parents familiar with you, they should lighten up a bit and mind less if she spends less time under their eyes.

also, have you directly seen her parents stopping her from going places with you? I know this seems pessimistic but even at your age girls CAN (I cannot stress this enough, they CAN, i am not saying they all are) be big liars, this could be her attempt at trying to break you up, you know? she feels she doesnt want to be with you but doesnt want the responsibility of breaking you up, so she blames her parents who she has no intention of letting you meet, etc.

No, she isnt like that she cares about me, she thinks that when we dont go out that i dont care about her and that i am mad, she is always like "you think i dont care about you", and sometimes i do but that is just me, she would have said that she is gonna go see a movie with me tommorow if she is trying to break up.

Just meet the parents and talk to them, but if you want to try and score extra points with them, meet them sometime when your girl is not home. That way they can see that you really are caring about her and aren't just meeting them because you happened to be there with their daughter. Course if you do this it could lead them to the thought process that you are in a very serious relationship with their daughter. Be careful and good luck. Mahalo.