Well, I met this girl at work called Denise, and its taken me up until now to realise that I really like her.

We always get along really well at work. We talk for ages, and we both have simmilar interests. Plus she is really hot.

Me and her decided to go out last nigh. We went for a few drinks around town, and then I suddenly reallised that she was really great, and I really like her. We ended up meeting her boyfriend and his mates in a club, and I became really jealous.

What made it even worse was he was a really great guy. He and I talked for ages, and he bought me a lot of drinks. He was really greatful that I had kept his girlfriend company while he went out with his mates.

Today, I am really confused as to what to do. I really like her, and I think that she likes me. She said last night that she thought I was a really great person, and has been texting me all day.

I really dont know what to do. Her and here boyfriend are pretty close by the looks of it, and I think he is too nice a bloke to do that too.

Please has anyone got any advice on what to do?

These things rarely turn out well. You're dealing with people who are either oblivious, confused, or devious.

Limit your interaction with her to the work place, and only on work-related issues while there.

if you think you can keep your emotions apart from her, fuck her if you get a chance. stay on the periphrel, she might be looking to make a hop off her BF. that is, if you want that...

for the moment, look at it as pussy, plain and simple. nothing more.

who cares about her BFs feelings? are you him? then dont worry.

but remember, she nails you on the side and youll get it back later on. might really wanna try to get her, and if she succumbs, then have nothing to do with her after that orgasm.

its a good way to figure out what type of person she is, sport fucking her while shes with someone else.

Hang out with the boyfriend some more. If you pass up free drinks then you're just a fucking idiot.

Kick it with the guy more - he sounds pretty cool, and there's no sense cutting out a potential homeboy just because his woman isn't into you. Hang with them. Let him buy the drinks. Scope Denise's hot friends. Repeat as necessary.

Don't get involved with Denise if she is serious with her boyfriend. If she is in love then don't mess it up for her or put pressure on her.

You might think she likes you in 'that way', but she could just be flirting. A lot of girls flirt with guys when it doesn't mean anything, which can be confusing sometimes and get people into trouble!

Be the person you are, around her, enjoy her company for what it is, but don't expect anything from it. Don't even pursue anything.

Just remember that there are a lot of great girls out there, she may seem like the greatest, but you just need to keep looking. If the two break up, proceed, but do not pine after her.

quote:Originally posted by janus:

Well, I met this girl at work called Denise, and its taken me up until now to realise that I really like her.

We always get along really well at work. We talk for ages, and we both have simmilar interests. Plus she is really hot.

Me and her decided to go out last nigh. We went for a few drinks around town, and then I suddenly reallised that she was really great, and I really like her. We ended up meeting her boyfriend and his mates in a club, and I became really jealous.

What made it even worse was he was a really great guy. He and I talked for ages, and he bought me a lot of drinks. He was really greatful that I had kept his girlfriend company while he went out with his mates.

Today, I am really confused as to what to do. I really like her, and I think that she likes me. She said last night that she thought I was a really great person, and has been texting me all day.

I really dont know what to do. Her and here boyfriend are pretty close by the looks of it, and I think he is too nice a bloke to do that too.

Please has anyone got any advice on what to do?

DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD lol text messeging..

"Don't even pursue anything."

Truly the best quip of advice here. You can't chase down a good relationship. Seek and you shall find...such bullshit. Good relationships arrive when you're not looking for one.