About
Community
Bad Ideas
Drugs
Ego
Erotica
Fringe
Society
Technology
register | bbs | search | rss | faq | about
meet up | add to del.icio.us | digg it
Go Back   Community > Vices > Sex and Affection
FAQ Members List Calendar Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
 #1 
Old 2004-12-11, 02:36
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Cybering!

Who wants to, what are your opinions on it and other related subjects.
 #2 
Old 2004-12-11, 02:40
Regular
 
California
Default Re: Cybering!

you must be new....



are you asking these questions seriously?
 #3 
Old 2004-12-11, 02:41
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Just wondering how people respond to this.
 #4 
Old 2004-12-11, 02:45
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Anybody with any replies?
 #5 
Old 2004-12-11, 02:46
CBaoth CBaoth is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

die ?! i dunno erotic novels and stuff i dont enjoy and cybering falls under same catorgie
 #6 
Old 2004-12-11, 03:10
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Anybody else with replies?
 #7 
Old 2004-12-11, 03:24
Moderator
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Cyber sex can be nice if it's really late at night and there's nothing else to do.

It's thrilling to talk dirty with someone who lives on the other side of the country.

What's worrying is when you add alcohol to the equation and give random people your mobile number and home address..
 #8 
Old 2004-12-11, 03:59
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Anybody else with replies?
 #9 
Old 2004-12-11, 04:46
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

I am trying to keep this and many other topics open.
 #10 
Old 2004-12-11, 05:08
outcast outcast is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

I've done it with one person only. It can be very nice. A good way to explore your own sexuality with someone else. It's helped me become more comfortable with talking about sex. It has made me more imaginative. It has given me fantasies where I had none before. It's better then reading or watching porn because it's somewhat 'interactive'.

Hmm...that's all I can think of at the moment. [Are you sleepy yet?]
 #11 
Old 2004-12-11, 05:10
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Some what interactive, it is interactive, and no, I never be sleepy, I will just fall.... to sleep!lol

[This message has been edited by searcysyndicate (edited 12-11-2004).]
 #12 
Old 2004-12-11, 05:17
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Were you talking about you having sex being somewhat ineractive or watching porn being somewhat intetactive?
 #13 
Old 2004-12-11, 05:31
Regular
 
Your Happy Place
Default Re: Cybering!

I got your reply right here..

,,|,,
 #14 
Old 2004-12-11, 06:03
Regular
 
California
Default Re: Cybering!

i've done it once or twice before, and i agree with both outcast and yoyobek.

yoyobek says that its hot thinking about someoen across the country. yah!

outcast says it gives u fantasies where you might have had none. i have plently, and those sessions allow me to imagine, interactively with someone. its kinda like watching porn where the girl calls out your name, a lightly interactive masterbation session.

btw, i apologize for my rude comment. by the looks of it, u were a spammer askin dumb questions.
 #15 
Old 2004-12-11, 06:07
Loc Dogg Loc Dogg is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

I cyber with this chick in the UK since there's no hope of us meeting up, unless I was rich. I save the logs too and read them when I'm bored. Great fun when there's nothing else to do.
 #16 
Old 2004-12-11, 07:34
searcysyndicate searcysyndicate is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Madfast, I didn't think you were rude, but what is spamming the boards. I just post whatever topic in my mind I am curious about.
 #17 
Old 2004-12-11, 10:49
k0phri k0phri is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

searcysyndicate stfu
 #18 
Old 2004-12-11, 14:59
Vizzini Vizzini is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

The only time I found cybering enjoyable (not sexually) was a few years ago when I was talking to a girl I knew 'of' and pretended to be someone she vaguely knew in real life. I talked to her for a couple of hours trying to seduce her, and finally she asked me to cyber.

This was an innocent Catholic school girl who had hundreds of guys from 3 nearby schools chasing after her, yet wouldn't let any of them give her the time of day. It was funny at the time, but I felt a bit bad later.
 #19 
Old 2004-12-11, 15:11
Special. K Special. K is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

I fail to concieve the concept of cyber, is it similar to phonesex?

i can only just begin to understand phonesex, but even then you get to hear your partners voice, what happens with cyber? "ohh yeh i love your text speed ohh yeh! you must have fast fingers!!"

At the end of the day Nothing beats the real thing guys, and if you cant get any where your living, be it shortage of chicks [ which i hope it is] just come to Newzealand where the phraze "Fuckbuddy" isnt an urban legend
 #20 
Old 2004-12-11, 16:01
outcast outcast is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

^^^I like reading fiction...
 #21 
Old 2004-12-11, 16:08
Moderator
 
dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Cybering!

^^^fiction, sweetheart?



/me dons wizard's gown and hat...
 #22 
Old 2004-12-11, 16:16
Special. K Special. K is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by outcast:

^^^I like reading fiction...

hehehe, i laughed.

but i was being quite serious actually
 #23 
Old 2004-12-11, 17:23
outcast outcast is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

^^^fiction, sweetheart?



/me dons wizard's gown and hat...



Hmm...maybe I'd like to write fiction...
 #24 
Old 2004-12-11, 17:25
outcast outcast is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by Special. K:

hehehe, i laughed.

but i was being quite serious actually



Yes...so was I. I just couldn't resist. I like fiction...and comedy.
 #25 
Old 2004-12-11, 20:44
Regular
 
Your Happy Place
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

/me dons wizard's gown and hat...

HARRRRRR!
 #26 
Old 2004-12-11, 20:53
Moderator
 
dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Cybering!

^^actually i've been waiting for someone to quote it again for weeks...that was just soooo funny.
 #27 
Old 2004-12-12, 00:57
Jackass Mafia Jackass Mafia is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

62/male/West Virginia
 #28 
Old 2004-12-12, 03:55
bloodenangel bloodenangel is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Eh, I've done it twice. Once it was awful, and another time it was good reading. The thing with it is, I find phrasing rather important. Anything that starts out with 'what are you wearing?', I find, rather bad.

Forget me, I write too much
 #29 
Old 2004-12-12, 06:00
Dangerousmind Dangerousmind is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

if any hot chicks ever wanna cyber im me at Peter7Paul
 #30 
Old 2004-12-12, 11:03
edf825 edf825 is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

There's this random chick on my MSN contact list that'll cyber when I want... I feel SO special
 #31 
Old 2004-12-12, 13:07
Moderator
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Sometimes when I'm doing the whole Cyber thing, it gets so laughable and bizarre,

I just say

'To hell with this! Just come to Bristol.'
 #32 
Old 2004-12-12, 14:45
-Airave- -Airave- is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

"Laughable and bizarre" are just the words I was looking for Yoyo.

I've done it a couple/few times with a certain young lady friend of mine- but only as "pitcher" (although she did do her part quite well typographically) because, well I can't type that great or fast so when I do I need both hands and a certain amount of concentration. I mean timing and rythym are important to good sex- also I did this at work soooo, well you can imagine, hehe. ("Hey Airave, what the hell you doing back there? AAAAARG! NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!") Also the image of me sitting there wanking with one hand while writing creative eroticism with the other cracks me up totally! Naw, I just can't.

For me it's skin on skin where I can use my creativity and rythym spontainiously without timing-out trying to find the "m" key. It feels much better in person too- I wanna hear you moan and feel your fingernails when you grab me!

And I hate sticky mice and keyboards.
 #33 
Old 2004-12-12, 21:35
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

I enjoy it, I like to RP the stuff out. It's good to jack off too and I get to practice routines.

I do it on MUSHes and stuff, with RP leading up to it, so I sort of see it as a woman simulator - how to talk them into bed.. I'm pretty sure people I RP with are actual females and if they aren't *shrugs*
 #34 
Old 2004-12-12, 21:49
Regular
 
Your Happy Place
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

^^actually i've been waiting for someone to quote it again for weeks...that was just soooo funny.



Google is your friend...or mine at least

http://www.albinoblacksheep.com/text/bloodninja.php http://www.adamchance.com/funny.htm



[This message has been edited by Easy Going (edited 12-12-2004).]
 #35 
Old 2004-12-12, 22:04
Special. K Special. K is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

ah yip i saw the second link about a year or so ago, still find it bloody hillerious

cheers for that one bro.
 #36 
Old 2004-12-12, 23:46
DarKReaper DarKReaper is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

Back when I was fat, ugly and depressingly single I tried cybering by picking up random girls from RP chatrooms. I was a sadassed kid, I know... It was impossible to find someone who roleplayed properly, although you do wind up getting some very nice pictures...
 #37 
Old 2004-12-14, 21:14
Moderator
 
dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Cybering!

i thought i'd ressurect this thread for a moment rather than start another.

just finished 'cybering' with XXXXXXX.

and it was *insert superlative of choice*

call me sad but it was so real.

not joking, it was some of the best sex i've ever had, real or otherwise, and i've had a lot over the years

she is god knows how many timezones and air miles from me. but for a few moments i was there with her. i could see her, taste her , feel her warm moisture embrace me.

its been awhile since we've done it cos i've been snowed under with college work.

sex IS 90% mental.

and if like me you have a lover who can get inside your mind and make it real then it becomes realer than real.

no i'm not drunk (i'm stone cold sober for once) and haven't taken anything stronger than tylenol today.

yeah i know its an hallucination but sweet jesus...
 #38 
Old 2004-12-14, 22:12
Prancer Prancer is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

do yall use cameras or is it text only?
 #39 
Old 2004-12-14, 22:14
Moderator
 
dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Cybering!

just the power of the written word, her love for me and the odd photo
 #40 
Old 2004-12-15, 01:19
AcidLacedPenguiN AcidLacedPenguiN is offline
Regular
 
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

^^^fiction, sweetheart?



/me dons wizard's gown and hat...

lmao, funniest documentation in history. . .

umm cybering is alright sometimes, when just looking at a bunch of pictures isn't helping. . . It also helps to have an imagination, which some would say is the sexiest thing one can have.
 #41 
Old 2004-12-15, 01:24
Regular
 
Your Happy Place
Default Re: Cybering!

quote:Originally posted by jackketch:

sex IS 90% mental.

About a year ago I posted that cyber sex allows you to focus on the mental aspects of sex and work on your skills, and a bunch of people posted that they did not know what I was talking about. I'm glad someone knows what they are doing.
 
To the best of our knowledge, the text on this page may be freely reproduced and distributed.
 

totse.com certificate signatures
 
 
About | Community | Bad Ideas | Drugs | Ego | Erotica | Fringe | Society | Technology
Hot Topics