Guys, i have a fucking problem that is really embarrasing, and frustrating. I have a girlfriend, and she's really nice, and pretty. For some reason, it's hard for me to do simple things like putting my arm around her, or kissing her. I don't know why either. I see other guys around me doing these things, and it makes me feel like shit. I can't talk about having a girlfriend in front of my parents either. As stupid as this problem sounds, it's very serious to me. Any help is greatly appreciated. It was fucking hard just to type this shit out to let you guys read. Thanks.

where's the problem? as long as she knows what you feel for her.

thats all that matters. how you show that affection is secondary.

You're a little too focused on pleasing her and you're intimidated by attractive women. Happens all the time. A lot of young men are intimidated by girls who are attractive, but have no trouble being affectionate with unattractive women who are friends. You're afraid that she'll think you're a brutal rapist who fucks geriatics in the dead of the night with potato salad as lube, the chunks flying stained brown and red....if you persue anything sexual with her. She probably won't be frightened or put-off by a sign of attraction. But you need to re-examine your fear there.

It's not that i'm intimidated. I'm not. I had a girlfriend last year, who everyone thought was not that attractive. I was one of those people also. Why i went out with her, i don't know. Probably because she was nice. Anyways I had the same problem. This has been with me for a few years. I believe that she does know that i love her though. Thanks guys.

Well, tell her about your problem and ask her to help you out with it. Tell her that a great way for her to help you overcome your fears is to give you a blowjob. That outta work...

get drunk

not shitfaced

just a little

okay, let's get this out of the way......you're a fag

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Do your parents allow you to have a girlfriend? If not, then it's probably something subconscious. You can't really control it. Just try to get over it.

The best way to get over fear is to face it.