I have this cousin. I just found out he was gay a few months ago.

When we were younger, we used to hang out alot becuase my mom used to babysit him. I was about 9 and he was about 7. I would always fuck with him about being a little on the queer side. I would lock him up in my closet, and not let him out for about 15 minutes, beat the shit out of him with my plastic baseball bat, make him stay up for 24 hours by not letting him lay down. When we went to the public pool I would always say, "I bet you like that male lifeguard huh?, you little faggot." All kinds of other mean shit.

When we were alittle younger than that, we would piss in the toilet at the same time because we thought it was fun, we called it "playing swords." He seemed to want to do this alot. As a kid, not thinking anything of it, I thought it was fun, and nothing gay.

At about 11, I went over his house one day, (this was when I was interested in sex and being the horney little fucker that I was, I would masturbate alot.) and that night, I was going to sleep on the floor with my sleeping bag. He looked asleep in the bed across the room, so I started thinking about sex, then I put my head in the sleeping bag and started going at it. After I was finished, I was pretty hot and sweaty, and lifted my head out of the sleeping bag and seen him sitting and staring at me with amusement...I freaked out and just turned over, wondering what the fuck was going through his head.

I had only seen him two times since the incident, and I am wondering if it was possible that I turned him gay through all the teasing and other shit that has happened?

I don't really think you can 'turn' people gay...

Yeah, he was probably always going to be gay. You probably just cemented the idea the was already in his head by showing him thigss and him realising he liked them. You're blameless, my friend!

No, you didn't turn him gay, but you probably fucked him up in a multitude of other ways.

Fuck him in his ass.

quote:Originally posted by I See Hell In My Eyes:

I put my head in the sleeping bag and started going at it.

After I was finished, I lifted my head out of the sleeping bag and seen him sitting and staring at me with amusement...

are you sure you arent a little fucked up yourself?

Actually, I guess I am kind of fucked up. Everone has their problems though.

okay, i got my mean streak out in spurious.

to admit i'm not perfect: i have mild OCD, with panic attacks.



to answer your question: no way in hell man- your cousin was obviously a fruity-tootie way before you were pulling your pud in a sleeping bag and he's gettin off watching you.

You probably didn't turn him gay.

But you might have played a part - if he is indeed gay.

Roughly about 75-80% of gays report being abused (sexually, mentally, emotionally) at a young age (between 3 and 12). It is suspected that this abuse and subsequent self-esteem trauma contributes to someone being gay or not (Although it cannot be proven, the same way that the "gay gene" cannot be proven").

You can't blame yourself for someone's sexuality, but in cases like this it doesn't give you permission to hate them/treat them differently/tease them even MORE.

In fact, I think you were so darn-toodely nasty that you should plunge a good ole' wooden stake through your heart and place your eyeballs (still in your head, of course) on hot fiery ashes.

Why don't you go and check out how he's maturing. You know you want it.

http://img19.exs.cx/img19/2021/90-hg.jpg

NO, its the other way around, YOU turned out to be gay, not him, he fine, but it sounds like your the gay one here.

Faggot

Dude you should get your ass kicked. Although you probably didn't turn him gay like everyone else said, you probably did fuck him up. I mean beating him and shit locking him in closests thats just fucked up.

quote:Originally posted by I See Hell In My Eyes:



When we were alittle younger than that, we would piss in the toilet at the same time because we thought it was fun, we called it "playing swords." He seemed to want to do this alot. As a kid, not thinking anything of it, I thought it was fun, and nothing gay.



Hahahaha, my brother and I did the same thing. We also called it playing swords. Hahahaha Good times man. But I don't think you caused him to be gay.

Well, I don't know, it's not impossible.

A lot of scientists say it's a mix of both nature and nature and I had a friend who treated me badly when I was a kid all the time, I figure that's why I have such a low self esteem cos he always bullied me and the only time I fought back I got told off for it.

I'm sexually confused for the record, and yeah call me whatever the hell you want, I've a far harder time dealing with myself.

quote:Originally posted by I See Hell In My Eyes:

I was about 9 and he was about 7. I would always fuck with him

I read this and thought "WTF? You fucked with him and you are worried about turning him gay?", then I went back and re-read it and realized what it really said.

People always bring up the "homosexuality gene", and that "gays are born gay". I personally belive it's a mixture of both your genes, and your environment. Do people forget that your brain physically changes at a young age due to your surroundings? I don't belive your antics turned your cousin gay (altho you sound like a sick fuck and probably screwed him up emotionally).

This seems like the typicaly hetero response to homosexuality; "I made him gay/gay guys hit on me because I'm so damn irresistable."

Get over yourself. If anything, he acted that way around you because there was something about you that made him feel comfortable expressing himself honestly.

I know my cousin turned me gay.

quote:Originally posted by I See Hell In My Eyes:



When we were alittle younger than that, we would piss in the toilet at the same time because we thought it was fun, we called it "playing swords."

Omg, i wasn't the only one...i played that!

^ Son of a bitch. My little brother and I played that as well. And yes, we called it playing swords, sometimes lightsabers.

i think my cousins gay

he acts so fucking weird and he has so much evidence that he is.

God damn. Me and my friend played swords too, but at the time we called it "X's" or something like that.

Anyways, at the time I was 11 I sounded pretty much the same as you. Really, really horny. Like, pop spontaneous wood staring at the wall horny.

I don't think anyone is really as fucked up at they are made out to be, people just have different lives and judge differently.

As for your cousin being turned gay by you, its possible, my cousin was turned "feminine" by his brothers always teasing him. They started it as a joke, but now he only hangs out with girls. He plays with their hair and shit like that.

If you want to "blame" it on someone, blame God...Gay or not, he made you to be whatever you are. Get real, there's no choice in the deal, who would "choose" to be ridiculed by all the ignorant people out there, to live like second class (if that) without equal rights or benefits, regardless of the fact the avg. gay person has a 15% higher education level that the typical american hetero male, has an income about 20% above the average guy. And a special note for the post saying "80-85% of gays repost being "abused, molested,... well, actually 78% of all child molestations are HETEROSEXUAL, usually a family member! And having been a counselor several years, the very few men who experienced this almost always end up hetero and usually very homophobic, due to that happening. And myself, well I knew I was gay as early as 5 or 6, no one abused or molested me...although years later in my early teens I might have wished a few had! Better to be honest with yourself than to live out a lie just because it's what you are "supposed" to do, only to end up married,miserable, and cheating on the wife with guys while telling yourself it's not really cheating if it's not with another woman. And believe me, a lot more guys have at some point had experiences with another guy than you think, During highschool I fucked around with a good 25 friends during drunken sleepovers, and even 2 coaches and a english teacher!(all married) Every guy I ever tried something with did it except 1! And out of 25 or 30, maybe 2 ended up out as gay, all the rest ended up "normal"... married, several kids, a divorce or two, and a big beer gut. They might not ever admit to it, but think about it... a guy is a fucking guy... when it involves sex, their all DOGS! Had a great Tshirt once that said "If I chose being "gay", when did you choose to be "straight"?

Teh genes...it ownz...

quote:Originally posted by I See Hell In My Eyes:

When we were alittle younger than that, we would piss in the toilet at the same time because we thought it was fun, we called it "playing swords." He seemed to want to do this alot. As a kid, not thinking anything of it, I thought it was fun, and nothing gay.

I used to do that shit all the time. And I always won.

You were probably just the first to realize he was destined to be gay. Congratulations, you have the gift.