Ok this is my first post and i need some advice from the wise or better at this then me.

I have been getting close with this girl since the first time i saw her in class, and ya she like me and i like her blah blah blah... Anyways ok well, I asked her to the movies and we saw a almost 3 hour movie and nothing happend in the theater we were close but nothing happend she wanted it and i did i could tell. We got on the bus to go home and then we were close on the bus aswell, she was almost home and we just start to randomly make out and for like 5 mins not very long.

I kissed her goodnight and we went our different ways for the night, and now her friends know and are bugging me to ask her out, my downfall was not asking her on the bus. No they are still asking me, so I was planning on it this week but I might just do it tommorow I have had many chances to do it and i never have done it because of school it destroys my spirt and that doesnt help. So I really need help with this and advice on asking her out plz this would help me alot.

You should not go to the movies on a first date, if you like her then just ask her out if you know she wants you to and you do to then just ask what have you got to loose?

Doesnt asking her out to the movies and making out for 5 minutes on that outing automatically make you guys boyfriend and girlfriend if the feeling is mutual?

quote:Originally posted by Dangerousmind:

Doesnt asking her out to the movies and making out for 5 minutes on that outing automatically make you guys boyfriend and girlfriend if the feeling is mutual?

What I was going to say the same thing.

I would never say to a girl " Will you go out with me"?(or anything simuler).

Ya man thats right the whole "will you go out with me" thing is so lame but she wont really go to the movies with me if i dont ask so its very gay, so i really need advice just how to ask her eventho i think that would make us going out but ya they dont seem to think that.

quote:Originally posted by Dangerousmind:

Doesnt asking her out to the movies and making out for 5 minutes on that outing automatically make you guys boyfriend and girlfriend if the feeling is mutual?

Either you're about 13, or all the men I've met in my life are real fucking assholes.

Making out for 5 minutes makes you boyfriend/girlfriend. Sigh. Must be nice.