Do most guys cheat, use or play girls??

Ive none this guy for about 2 years and we have gone out a couple of times, but the last 2 or 3 tinmes he has used me.

I have keep going back to him but my friends tell me not too.

I just wanted to no if there are any decent guys out there that dont use, cheat or play girls??

Yes, there are plenty of guys like that.

Only you probably aren't attracted to them.

You want a guy that'll treat you great, and never use you, or cheat on you?

Go date a fat nerd.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Yes, there are plenty of guys like that.

Only you probably aren't attracted to them.

You want a guy that'll treat you great, and never use you, or cheat on you?

Go date a fat nerd.

hahahahaha

my boyfriend doesnt cheat or use me

and he's perfect

the guy your seeing just isnt right for ya

but yea, they exist.... just gotta look harder =]

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Yes, there are plenty of guys like that.

Only you probably aren't attracted to them.

You want a guy that'll treat you great, and never use you, or cheat on you?

Go date a fat nerd.

You dont need a guy that's a fat nerd to treat you great, never use you or cheat on you.

Ive got a guy that treat's me good, he has never cheated on me, he is honnest and he trust's me.

^ Hah, I doubt it, considering the dialogue you two have played out on totse.

In general, the nice guys happen to be the one's that all the bitchy chicks have mocked and isolated, and now they come crying that they got hurt and complain that "theres no nice guys".

i feel for nice guys. they desrve better, but theyll never get it.

ah well.

where do u live at?

in the usa f.e. all chicks go for the gangster dudes (sometimes wannabes) OR for the crazy punks.

its not hard to find an honest guy, just dont go for the ultra cool dude whos the idol of all the other wannabe cool guys.

Nihilism, can you post a pic on Spurious' "Totse Collage" thread? Eh? EH???

I'm a nice, honest, polite and un-nerdy eclectic goth/metal head. But I'm the only one.

Now why would you want a nerd, punk, gangsta or fat guy? Hasn't tv tought you anything.

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

^ Hah, I doubt it, considering the dialogue you two have played out on totse.

HAHAHA..... we only fuck around on totse, it dont mean shit.

Ok, but I seem to recall a thread months and months ago about him being somewhat unfaithful.

Shut the fuck up you tool, we just fuck around on here, all our lil so called "fights" on here are staged, when we do them were are both at my house. We do it to see what kinda lozers try and tell us how our relationship is, its quite funny some times, as if we'd hide things from each other then blurt them out on this forum.

That's quite the pathetic thing to do, surely your time would be better spent having unprotected sex or something of that ilk.

EDIT: Lord knows that's what I'd be doing if I was in physical proximity with my girlfriend, and we're nearing the end of our 'horny teenager' age. You guys are right in the thick of it, I'm disappointed.

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quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Ok, but I seem to recall a thread months and months ago about him being somewhat unfaithful.

Yeah i made a thread a few weeks ago about how to dump some one who you have been with for a long time, i was just curious, she saw the thread, she new what was going on. If we have any probs with each other we talk it outface to face, not over the net.

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

Yeah i made a thread a few weeks ago about how to dump some one who you have been with for a long time, i was just curious, she saw the thread, she new what was going on. If we have any probs with each other we talk it outface to face, not over the net.



No, no, I'm speaking of a different thread, a LONG time ago.

the only other one that comes to mind was one where i said some thing about skankthat i weas with..meh she knows my past, ant thats all it is.

as for sex, shes 14 and im 16, we are going to wait untill shes at least 16..

Wow. You're out of your mind to wait two years for sex.

I find that commendable.

I dont really see whats so hard about waiting, i mean i love her for her personality, not for how good it would feel to bone her. If that was what i wanted id go find me another skank/skanks :P

Hmm...

...methinks this was not self-imposed.

what do u mean by that

Oh, nothing.

Oh come one, spit it out

Ok. Judging by that one post, I don't think it was entirely your idea to wait.

Actually, I don't think it was your idea in the slightest to wait, and that you want to come off as the sensitive, caring guy in the meantime, when you in actuality want to fuck the shit out of her along with loving who she is.

Personally, I don't blame you. I wouldn't want to show myself as a real fella and risk blowing the relationship, either. I'm a charming bastard around my woman, too.

lol, actually its a mutual decision, al the chicks i no that do it younge turn out sluts, and i DO NOT want her turning into one.

ESTY, is your name Ester and you do french with a really hot guy called Les Brown?

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

lol, actually its a mutual decision, al the chicks i no that do it younge turn out sluts, and i DO NOT want her turning into one.

I think that Rabbi has you figured out. Sucks, don't it buddy? I've been in the girl-imposed celebacy condition before too.

quote:Originally posted by 30-06:

as for sex, shes 14 and im 16, we are going to wait untill shes at least 16..

lol, good luck with that

I'm getting quite sick of all these threads popping up. "are there ANY nice guys?"

of course there are. Use the little gift you have called common sense. Obviously if you keep hitting a pattern of assholes, look for something else when you meet guys.

I know there are nice guys, You know there are nice guys. You don't need reassurance from an internet board to tell you so.

Short answer: yes.

Long answer: No. The problem is that girls are bitches to genuine nice guys, and those nice guys end up bitter jerks.

We all know that girls don't want jerks, but they don't want sissy nice guys either. There are genuine self confident nice guys, but they are usually changed by some bitch fucking them over. If not, they hide it really well because they're convinced that if they are nice to a chick, she'll fuck him over again.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by ESTY:

Do most guys cheat, use or play girls??

Ive none this guy for about 2 years and we have gone out a couple of times, but the last 2 or 3 tinmes he has used me.

I have keep going back to him but my friends tell me not too.

I just wanted to no if there are any decent guys out there that dont use, cheat or play girls??[/

QUOTE]

precious, precious few, darling-they're an extinct breed, i've found

quote:Originally posted by The_Rabbi:

Yes, there are plenty of guys like that.

Only you probably aren't attracted to them.

You want a guy that'll treat you great, and never use you, or cheat on you?

Go date a fat nerd.

Any guy would cheat on you, given a chance. The guys who wouldn't, in the long run, would get you bored and in turn get no respect from you. Then, they would get down on their knees and beg for you not to dump them. Assuming of course, you like nervous types, as nice guys are generally not very confident and would start sweating the moment you would actually touch one of them.

And, for the record, The Rabbi, I sincerely admire your wisdom.

30-06 isnt the type of guy that would cheat on me. His not gunna force me into having sex when im only 14..... he said his gunna wait and i believe him.

And to be honnest i dont think you have

30-06 figured out at all.

yeah, rabbi did.

he's probably thinking "oh i'll just play nice guy and tell her i'll wait because i love her for her personality even though i don't know what love is, and mabey she'll break done and give me some sex before then" because this is probably his only chance, but if he could he would have those sluts he speaks of

quote:Originally posted by Jesse's babe:

30-06 isnt the type of guy that would cheat on me. His not gunna force me into having sex when im only 14..... he said his gunna wait and i believe him.

And to be honnest i dont think you have

30-06 figured out at all.



You can always live in denial.

Ya, I know a girl who was gonna wait 'til she was 16...couldn't last until her 14th birthday...doubt it'll happen this time, either. Good luck with that, though.

Even though they may not have 30-06 figured, they're pretty damn close. If he is genuinely a nice guy, it's a one in a billion for sixteen and love without fucking your brains out. I am 16 and love my girl, I also haven't had sex with her and am not planning to any time soon. But give me half a chance and I will have sex with her. (So long as it's consentual.) But a lot of peopel won't give 16 yr olds the credit they deserve, but we all know that that has a good reason behind it.

I would say he'd be all for it if you give him the opportunity and it's "mutual," but you should know as well as I that he is as much of a hornbag as any other 16 yr old.

One other point about it, why have you selected an age rather then go for sex when you believe you are in "love?" Judging from your ages, I'm guessing you haven't been together all that long, but if you're in love, what's so difficult about sex. An age seems to be someone else's thought's rather then your own, you should go by feeling and maturity, not a number.

Although I do respect waiting, I lost my virginity before my 10th, fuck it was a waste. Couldn't do anything right, surprised I could even cum.

If you won't give a sixteen yr old credit, then read the thread titled "proposal."

We have been together for 10 months, i count that as long for our ages, not once have we came close to braking up. Yeah I probably would do it if she agreed, but i garnitee i'd feel like such an ass aferwards, i see it as girls are inocent till they lose it, and doing it early is robbin them of there childhood

You wouldnt know because you keep going back to the same guy thats using you. No wonder you cant find any decent guys. Pathetic...

and there are plenty of nice guys, but im sure you will never find them. nice guys are hard to come by imo... considering most of my friends arent nice guys and all the girls i know give me and any other nice guys no reason to remain nice.

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Yeah, i know ESTY personally, fuck shes blonde. The guy she keeps going back to is my mate, reguardless of what anyone says she doesnt listen.

Then why is she wasting her time asking us tis and makin is waste our time responding in the hopes of helping her... but we wont be helping her...

like i said, shes really blonde, and when i say blone..I mean it seems like some one has bleached peanut of a brain.

Which is exactly why she keeps dating the same guy who cheats on her and uses her and why she cant find nice guys.

sometimes i cheat on my girlfriend...i just cant help it like i just want some atention at times when shes gone...but i never do as much with other girls as i do with her and this only happened twice, both times i was either drunk or high...i feel bad about it and i try really hard not to

So you have cheated on her multiple times, don't you think it's about time she dumped your sorry ass.

there are no nice guys, just some of us who do more effort to suppress that were in essence lyin cheatin bastards

i do that pretty well, never cheated ever (unless you think groupsex including your girl is cheating)

there are plenty of perfectly nice guys. only were all english. try having a gay best friend. they never cheat. :P

yes, nice guys are out there. but there are several things to consider.

1. we're dorks

2. gaming comes first, then sex, then beer, then food(learn to play magic and you'll do just fine)

3. temper tantrums occur often. he doesn't mean anything by it. just sit down, play some bond with him, get naked and all will be well.

4. we often look like this <A HREF="http://is0.okcupid.com/pics/325/3257004990576909853/1088280668.jpg">http://is0.okcupid.com/pics/325/3257004990576909853/1088280668.jpg" width="90" height="90 (http://is0.okcupid.com/pics/325/3257004990576909853/1088280668.jpg" width="90" height="90)</A>

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Loooong post, for the halibut...

Yes there are nice guys, but they get a lot of hassle. Not only by the bitchy girls that break their hearts, but other guys who call them lame ass-pussy whipped- ballless losers. To be a "real man" to some means to subjugate woman and generally act like an asshole. Some people may find this is exactly how they want to live and thats great for them. There will always be weak woman who enjoy that. The "nice guys," however, get continually worked over for not being a "man."

During the teen years especially this fucks with their self esteem. So, they can often seem kinda wimpy and indeed lame. No girl wants to have to carry around a bicycle pump to inflate her boyfriends ego every time she goes out with him. Eventually the "nice guys" have either turned into an asshole or have gained the confidence in themselves that it takes to attract a woman that doesn't want to "own" or abuse them.

We all want to feel excited when we get to be with the person we're dating, not as if we're granting a favor. This is where nice guys often drop the ball. A nice guy can be so surprised that hes being given a chance that he can put you on a pedestal. Its fun for a few weeks, or even a few months if you get off on that, but it gets old. The key is always to be honest. Don't ask someone to treat you like a queen when you really just want to be treated like a human being.

^ very well put ^

quote:Originally posted by sinlesssiren:

Loooong post, for the halibut...

Yes there are nice guys, but they get a lot of hassle. Not only by the bitchy girls that break their hearts, but other guys who call them lame ass-pussy whipped- ballless losers. To be a "real man" to some means to subjugate woman and generally act like an asshole. Some people may find this is exactly how they want to live and thats great for them. There will always be weak woman who enjoy that. The "nice guys," however, get continually worked over for not being a "man."

During the teen years especially this fucks with their self esteem. So, they can often seem kinda wimpy and indeed lame. No girl wants to have to carry around a bicycle pump to inflate her boyfriends ego every time she goes out with him. Eventually the "nice guys" have either turned into an asshole or have gained the confidence in themselves that it takes to attract a woman that doesn't want to "own" or abuse them.

We all want to feel excited when we get to be with the person we're dating, not as if we're granting a favor. This is where nice guys often drop the ball. A nice guy can be so surprised that hes being given a chance that he can put you on a pedestal. Its fun for a few weeks, or even a few months if you get off on that, but it gets old. The key is always to be honest. Don't ask someone to treat you like a queen when you really just want to be treated like a human being.





Right on target.