kay well i hooked up with this girl a wile ago at a party and we started getting all over eachother. so we decided to go up stairs and fuck. well we went no where. i dint get it up. i was really drunk and nothing happened, it happens i could almost understand.

well next time we met up we got going and nothing happened again. i have sexual paranoia...

i just get worried nothing will happen and nothing does.

whats something that can be done asap?

Happens to me alot, after talkin to some other guys i found out they have the problem too. For us it was because the girl is practically a stranger. After gettin to know a girl better its fine. Jus shy/nervous i guess... i thought my cock was broken.

i tried talking all night. i got nothing.

Sounds like you need a free sample of Viagra!

head to walmarts vitamin isle and get dhea, horny goat weed, and arginine. gnc, if open, has tribulus and andro. cvs has a good version of arginine call akg oxygenate or something.

while ur at wlmart, get the 2000mg/2gram b12 pills, slam 2 of them. itll start sobering you up.

relax.

im to young to use viagra. the other pills sound like and idea, but even still i should be in my sexual prime. i never had this problem before i would pop woods 50 times a day

Look into a drug called Labida (as in labido). It is sold at all Shopper's Drug marts and most wal-marts. It contains a herb called Tribulus Terrestris, which will boot your testosterone levels, regardless how much is pumping throught your system. Take it while weight training with a course of andro/creatine and you can easily get a 30-40 percent testosterone increase.

quote:Originally posted by jackisback:

kay well i hooked up with this girl a wile ago at a party and we started getting all over eachother. so we decided to go up stairs and fuck. well we went no where. i dint get it up. i was really drunk and nothing happened, it happens i could almost understand.

well next time we met up we got going and nothing happened again. i have sexual paranoia...

i just get worried nothing will happen and nothing does.

whats something that can be done asap?

Were you drunk?

Probably a stupid question.

kay well it means your gay.

Dude, it happens to me on occasion. What I would recommend is that you just chill, think nice and calm happy shit, finger her for awhile, and just work it up yourself. When its up, like really up, its a mad dash for condoms, then work away man!

quote:Originally posted by Shotokan_Brawler:

Dude, it happens to me on occasion. What I would recommend is that you just chill, think nice and calm happy shit, finger her for awhile, and just work it up yourself. When its up, like really up, its a mad dash for condoms, then work away man!

eh i think forplay is the only answer.

Not just that, you gotta be calm man, otherwise it's gonna be nervous and not go up. Sometimes about 2 shots or so right before is nice.

i had that happen to me too. i couldnt have sex with my girlfriend for like 2 months, then one day it just happened and now i havent had any problems since.

It probably means you aren't completely at ease. Try not jacking off for 2 weeks, then you'll be dying to stick your dick anywhere you can.

^That woudl be so...damn...hard....

Don't drink. It'll take you a while longer to get around and find some willing pussy, but it will be a lot easier to get it hard. Also, the orgasm will feel stronger. Alcohol sort of numbs your senses.

thx all good ideas. i think the not jerking one is probably my best solution. i still dont know though.

quote:Originally posted by jackisback:

i tried talking all night. i got nothing.

Talking to her or your dick ?