2 things in this post, a question, and a situation that I need help with.

1st thing...

Which is better, in your opinion, for a high school student? A serious long term relationship where its like, lovey dovey stuff, or a short fun sort of fling relationship?

2nd thing...

This has to do with me. I have a girlfriend of 5 months this August, but I recently have found 2 other girls that I'm attracted to and both are REALLY hot. The other 2 seem like the types of girls that like to just, have fun, party, do things (physically and socially), and what-not. My girlfriend is the girl that wants to... settle down so-to-say. She wants to be lovey dovey with each other. I don't care about sex and stuff like that, I'll have time for it later in life. This has to do with the first question... is it worth it to throw your high school relationship time away with 2-3 people or date whoever you can and just have fun? I have fun sometimes with my current girlfriend, but doesn't really ever care about what we do, and gives no ideas on what to do. The other 2 like to keep it interesting and spontanious. Other problem, my current girlfriend goes to my school, while one girl is 10 minutes one way, and the other is 30 the other way, same highway. Who do you think would be worth it? Current girlfriend, 10 minute girl, 30 minute girl, or play the field more?

Sorry for the long post, but I just want to get some opinions.

I'd pick serious bonage over serious relationship any day. For a high-schooler.

Different things are right for different people. Sounds like you might be better off playing the field. When you're in your 40s, married and getting an itch, that's when you have to resist it and stick with the commitment. For now, you can do whatever you want. Isn't that liberating?

Take risks dude. Hit it.

Taking risks = Charisma

It's not like you're going to marry your current girlfriend. And it sounds like she would take you back in case your mission abroad goes wrong, given your description of her. Anyways, later on you'll say, "I had three girls that year", instead of saying "I spent that year with some boring ass average looking chick".

Yeah, high school's a time for experimentation. Go for the two hot chicas. High school relationships are anything but commitments because break-ups are inevitable.

definatly short term, long terms lead to painful breakups and u getting drunk and breaking a bunch of things in a mcdonalds bathroom. o fuck mebe thats just me. anyways i usually dont even "go out" with ppl any more, i have my friends, and ppl i fuck. i juzt find girls who like sex, or are just ugly enough to take it whenever they can. works pretty good, though u get some pretty nastyass stories along the way hookin up with ugly chicks and sluts.

the dude said he doesnt even wanna have sex though.. i mean what are you gonna do?? you sound kinda like a relationship type of guy, there is no wrong answer. but jus dont go break up with your gf out of pure bordem and then realize when you had it good and -- regret it. cheers bro.

Well 1st of all, from experience guys never want short flings... they say they want a short meaningless fling, but next thing you know they're in love with you and don't want you seeing other people. I haven't been around much, but it's happened 5 times already that I've just wanted someone to play with and it got all messy because they changed their damn minds and decided they wanted something serious.

As for your second question, unless you find someone really special, and I'm talking 1 in a billion kind of special, then just play the field my friend. Highschool relationships are about having fun and developing sexual prowess. I'm not saying be a hoe and sleep around, but you're not married to your highschool girlfriends. If someone bores you then by all means move on. Maybe 1 out of every 100 highschool relationships survive into or beyond university years.

Me, as a highschooler myself, i chose love.

BUT

At one point i had 4 girlfreinds, and thats pretty cool too