every time me and my girl lay together to watch a movie or she sits on my lap (cloths on)I always get a big ass boner, I cant keep it from happening it just does, and it like ruins the whole time because it is like hard.Yes my girl will fuck if only planned, what should I do to keep it from getting hard when we are just chilling?.

Dude, it's a dick, it gets hard. It just happens. Nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm sure she understands that you can have a hardon without wanting to fuck her senseless.

Let it be.

^ Correct.

We may be cold-hearted and selfish, but us women understand these things at least a little.

She might actually find it somewhat flattering, the very thought of her sitting on your lap makes you aroused-I don't know her/you/your situation so I can't say.

Don't sweat it.



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yes don't worry about it. you never know. i was grinding witha chick and got the biggest boner and when she felty it she started grinding harder dry fucking me. =

quote:Originally posted by Weed is a deed:

every time me and my girl lay together to watch a movie or she sits on my lap (cloths on)I always get a big ass boner, I cant keep it from happening it just does, and it like ruins the whole time because it is like hard.Yes my girl will fuck if only planned, what should I do to keep it from getting hard when we are just chilling?.I always make sure the girl feels it. Then I say "Do you feel what you do to me, babe?" They usually end up touching it with their hands, and the rest, well... is left up to your imagination.

Use it to your advantage when you can.

If you are that embarrassed, then go to the bathroom and tuck it up into your waistband. It will make it go away pretty fucking quick. Other than that, let it go. I happen to have the same problem that you do but my girl enforces the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy.

quote:Originally posted by Saline Colors:

^ Correct.

We may be cold-hearted and selfish, but us women understand these things at least a little.

She might actually find it somewhat flattering, the very thought of her sitting on your lap makes you aroused-I don't know her/you/your situation so I can't say.

Don't sweat it.

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right on

quote:Originally posted by bilzo:

If you are that embarrassed, then go to the bathroom and tuck it up into your waistband. It will make it go away pretty fucking quick. Other than that, let it go. I happen to have the same problem that you do but my girl enforces the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy.

It's instinct, every guy knows the good 'ol "up-tuck" maneuver.

BTW, I popped a full seven-incher in my football warm-ups last year in Geometry. I was telling my female friend how to give good head. And she was kind of "phantom blowing" for me to check her technique. I was like, "can you go grab my textbook for me ?" "It's right there Billy, just grab it." "I can't." "why not ?" *I stand up in her face really quick* "Oh wow, here you go Billy"



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Eh, I get hard a lot at work.. Nothing to do but look at the sexy women, and think naughty thoughts...

quote:Originally posted by siodojo:

yes don't worry about it. you never know. i was grinding witha chick and got the biggest boner and when she felty it she started grinding harder dry fucking me. =

That's the point of grinding, isn't it?

If you don't like what your dick is doing, then your dick doesn't like what you're doing.

I can tell you, there's a good chance that she enjoys knowing that she's turning you on. Just live with the knowledge that she finds it a reasuring mark of your continuing attraction to her.

I use the "up-tuck" quite a bit during the school year when I manage to get an unwanted hard-on. Makes me glad that I wear jeans and a belt, and not some soft-fabric shorts or pants.

As someone else said, she might secretly enjoy knowing that she turns you on. Might be better to not hide it.

I use the "up-tuck" as previously mentioned, and have found that some girls are OK with knowing you have an erection, whereas some kind of get uneasy. I would recommend thinking of something nonsexual. Really nonsexual.

I'm actually quite flattered when I can feel what I do to my boyfriend. She probably doesn't mind, but may be too shy or inexperienced to hold or lick your penis.

quote:Originally posted by touchmeimsick:

I use the "up-tuck" as previously mentioned, and have found that some girls are OK with knowing you have an erection, whereas some kind of get uneasy. I would recommend thinking of something nonsexual. Really nonsexual.

hmm...try thinking of your grandmohter naked in a tub of oat meal, thats sure tog e it down pretty fast.

quote:Originally posted by bilzo:

*snip* but my girl enforces the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy.

That's a damn shame.

I love when guys get hard around me. It doesn't matter if they're thinking about me or just popping a boner.. turned-on guys are HOTT!

If you weren't 12 it would probably help.

When something like that happens in school or an unwanted place. I usually sing the star spangled banner to myself. Don't know why, but it helps.

quote:Originally posted by Gustave:

Eh, I get hard a lot at work.. Nothing to do but look at the sexy women, and think naughty thoughts...

wtf, how can you work and post at the same time...?

In the words of Homer J. "Think unsexy thoughts, think unsexy thoughts." *Barney in bikini*