What do you find attractive about men/women?

Also women, do you find guys with six packs attractive? Just wondering, cause I'm working on mine and its showing pretty well.

Please keep this topic flame free please.

First of all, I'm going to assume you mean physical attractiveness. I don't know if everyone's like this, but for me, it's not always just individual traits, but just some intangible "thing" about someone. For example, I usually think of freckles as an "unattractive" trait but on some people, they look really good and the person wouldn't look as cute without them.

The only things I can think of that will always make someone more attractive is clear skin and somewhere near the right weight for their height. Other than that it completly depends on the person.

u need to define attractiveness. Cause there could be a million different things, that one is attracted to another.

quote:Originally posted by Huggy Bear:

What do you find attractive about men/women?

Also women, do you find guys with six packs attractive? Just wondering, cause I'm working on mine and its showing pretty well.

Please keep this topic flame free please.

I've been with enough women/girls to tell you this from my own experience: Physical attraction is the only type of attraction a man should have for a woman/girl. There is nothing attractive about a girl beyond that point. This is why you don't see good looking men with fat women, but however you do tend to see the opposite. I'm assuming you're still a teenager, since you're worried about having a six-pack. Let me tell you something, in the FUTURE, six-packs won't make girls stick around if you don't have money and confidence to support it. I suggest you try to do well in school right now and make an effort to get into a decent college, and hope that you'll be more than well off after graduate with a degree. When you're in your 20's, women are easier to deal with, and you'll have all the money, which consequently puts you in power.

quote:Originally posted by adamantiaf:

I've been with enough women/girls to tell you this from my own experience: Physical attraction is the only type of attraction a man should have for a woman/girl. There is nothing attractive about a girl beyond that point. This is why you don't see good looking men with fat women, but however you do tend to see the opposite. I'm assuming you're still a teenager, since you're worried about having a six-pack. Let me tell you something, in the FUTURE, six-packs won't make girls stick around if you don't have money and confidence to support it. I suggest you try to do well in school right now and make an effort to get into a decent college, and hope that you'll be more than well off after graduate with a degree. When you're in your 20's, women are easier to deal with, and you'll have all the money, which consequently puts you in power.

You have given hope to all the fat nerds of the world (me). Thank you.

quote:Originally posted by adamantiaf:

I've been with enough women/girls to tell you this from my own experience: Physical attraction is the only type of attraction a man should have for a woman/girl. There is nothing attractive about a girl beyond that point. This is why you don't see good looking men with fat women, but however you do tend to see the opposite. I'm assuming you're still a teenager, since you're worried about having a six-pack. Let me tell you something, in the FUTURE, six-packs won't make girls stick around if you don't have money and confidence to support it. I suggest you try to do well in school right now and make an effort to get into a decent college, and hope that you'll be more than well off after graduate with a degree. When you're in your 20's, women are easier to deal with, and you'll have all the money, which consequently puts you in power.

Getting women with money is not a good thing.

quote:Originally posted by adamantiaf:

I've been with enough women/girls to tell you this from my own experience: Physical attraction is the only type of attraction a man should have for a woman/girl. There is nothing attractive about a girl beyond that point. This is why you don't see good looking men with fat women, but however you do tend to see the opposite. I'm assuming you're still a teenager, since you're worried about having a six-pack. Let me tell you something, in the FUTURE, six-packs won't make girls stick around if you don't have money and confidence to support it. I suggest you try to do well in school right now and make an effort to get into a decent college, and hope that you'll be more than well off after graduate with a degree. When you're in your 20's, women are easier to deal with, and you'll have all the money, which consequently puts you in power.

Do you really want a woman who likes you for your money though?

And in a girl, I like a laid-back personality, a good sense of humor, and intelligence. As for the physical aspects, I'm a sucker for short black hair and a nice ass. Freckles are really cute on some girls, so are glasses. I like the "cute" girls more than the "hot" ones, they tend to have better personalities.

The New Model prefers the tall, skinny girls to any other. Long hair, either straight or curly; whichever looks best for her face shape. Sooth, the cute girls, not the hot ones, are the best to hook up with, because they are way more interesting, and have better personalities - always a good thing. THat is about it for physical aspects, which the New Model assumed what was meant in the title.

ModelFifteen

Red or reddish hair, a nice even face, cheerful, patient, accepting; yet independant, eye color doesn't really matter..its more the spark in them..., a toned body, perky breasts....*sigh*...

Nice, physically fit body, proportionate perky breasts (large B-C size), attractive face, blond or a light brunette hair color, and looks good in tight fitting clothes.

Can't forget the most important things though, intelligence, humor, and she can't be a psycho-bitch.

I dig the cute girls more than the hot ones, more personality.

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Everyone differs when it comes to what is physically appealing to them. I don't have a "type". A guy from any type can be attractive, as long as I can carry a conversation with him without having to answer "What does that word mean?".

How I loathe that question.

I'm a sucker for nice eyes ... the kind that show emotions, or that "window to the soul".

I like my guy to be a little taller than me. Weight doesn't really matter to me; while I can appreciate a guy with a rock-hard body, I don't like being in his embrace, only because the hard muscles dig into me.

I find affection, intelligence and wit to be very attractive personality traits.

I hate guys who hold deep stereotypes, who are close-minded, or who think they can use their strength to get something out of me. Also, I hate when guys think of me as an object, so I find respect attractive as well.

quote:Originally posted by Saline Colors:

A guy from any type can be attractive, as long as I can carry a conversation with him without having to answer "What does that word mean?".

How I loathe that question.

Tell me about it. As soon as I hear that question, I lose all interest in the person.

In no order....

1) Redheads. Damn I love redheads...

2) When my neck gets kissed. I have this weird like twitch reflex with it too... hm.

3) Smell. The smell of girl is the best smell in the world.

4) Foreign girls. Like German, Russian, French, Italian, whatever. Better complexions than Americans or something... I dunno.

5) When she drapes her hair across you, and the smell of it radiates of her...

6) Short hair that's flared out.

7) Dark eyeliner. Not caked on so bad it looks like a black eye, but still there.

Lol

I find dark complexions hott. I like black girls, girls with brown eyes, or green eyes. Girls with a petite figure.

I like shaved girls so i can eat them out and i like completely shaved vaginas.

My scale only includes girls in my age range.

My scale(I got bored) 1-5(5 being best)

1.) Blondes, ugly preppy girls, fat, unwashed hair, 'OH MY GAWWWWD' types of girls. Tall skinny freaky lookin chicks.

2.)Redheads, Girls with red faces, Buckteeth. Annoying talkative types.

3.)Fat unpopular girls, girls that dont wash themselves. girls that only act stupid when they talk. Non-serious girls. pimples.

4.)hott preppy black/italian girls with a small figure. take care of themselves. Quiet, nice. non-ghettolicious. lovey dovey

5.) (this describes my favorite EX besides my girlfreind from 2 years ago)

Black hair, tan, italian, green eyes i can get myself lost in, petite figure, innocent(bad ass in the bedroom, my own horny little slut) shoulder length hair, completely straight.A girl i can protect. Bi-sexual(hey, it was AWESOME) Tan, and quiet, but cute, damn i miss her.

If you meet any of the catagorries, your automatically in them for me, i cant get off to blondes or redheads, i only date girls from catagory 4 and up :P

Natural and healthy looking.

Goth Chicks can be hot sometimes (as I found out)

German, Slavic, or Middle-Eastern.

She's gotta have at least one thing going for her to heep my interest. Like good legs, eyes, or accent. Something that'll keep me interested. She doen't have to be perfect. In fact, I despise the "perfect" look anyway.

yeah, im a sucker for nice eyes, color doesn't matter......or just, that he is expressive in any way. but that he can express something POSITIVE, and comprehensively.

height/weight, don't matter so much....the main thing in terms of appearance is how he holds himself. i don't know, maybe its from being a dancer, but if a guy knows how to MOVE right (i.e. stand up straight, have confidence without arrogance..) then that's far more attractive than any statistical assests he might have, like basic good looks or a ripped body.

but, i gotta say....the biggest turn-on for anything and everything is TALENT. god, if a guy has something to offer in the world...

that's gonna make MY head turn

I dont understand why I like who I like, but yeah...



Physically, I like either:

junkie-style skinny white boys with shaggy hair who look like they need a shower

black boys who are either buff or just chubby (no ruben studdard style chubby, but like 30 lbs over weight chubby) with hair, be it nice braids or a fro, and are clean.

I like mexican boys who look like they need a shower.

And any boy who has eyes which tell a story. Sad eyes just get to me so hardcore.

Otherwise, I like dumb boys, and boys with no jobs and no prospects.

I have a thing for asian chicks.

And I find collarbones sexy. Dunno why. Just do.

And some sort of exotic flavor is always awesome.

They have to have nice hands.

A braod, muscular back - ohh I love it.

Normal-looking legs. I cannot stand chicken legs. Eww.

I hate nappy hair or short hair. I prefer straight long hair. Color doesn't really matter but extremely blonde or jet black are my favorites.

He HAS to be taller and bigger than me. 5'9 the shortest. 160 the smallest. I don't like bony, skinny boys AT ALL. Small guys make me feel like a man.

I like smooth backs and chests.. meaning: no hair.

How hot (or not) Freckles, dimples, bad skin, facial hair, and cleft chin are all depend on the rest of the package.

But looks don't matter if his most important attribute, his wallet, is deep enough.

quote:Originally posted by MrMojoRisin:

They have to have nice hands.

A braod, muscular back - ohh I love it.

Normal-looking legs. I cannot stand chicken legs. Eww.

I hate nappy hair or short hair. I prefer straight long hair. Color doesn't really matter but extremely blonde or jet black are my favorites.

He HAS to be taller and bigger than me. 5'9 the shortest. 160 the smallest. I don't like bony, skinny boys AT ALL. Small guys make me feel like a man.

I like smooth backs and chests.. meaning: no hair.

How hot (or not) Freckles, dimples, bad skin, facial hair, and cleft chin are all depend on the rest of the package.

But looks don't matter if his most important attribute, his wallet, is deep enough.

Are you serious about the last bit? Ack...

Well, from the purely physical sense, "deep" eyes are the biggest turn on I've ever experienced.

In the total sense, having a girl talk to me about temporal inconsistencies always makes me get fuzzy in the stomach for no reason what so ever...

^Differences in time, Gustave ?

That's a good one, but not as good a mine. I like talking to my girl about time dilation after a good shag. I mean, we curl up together, and pretend that we're traveling near warp in our loveship. And then she'll give me a velocity, and I'll mentally factor it by t/sqrt 1-(v^2/c^2), and she'll tell me how much time on Earth will have passed after an hour of us fucking.

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quote:Originally posted by Saline Colors:

Everyone differs when it comes to what is physically appealing to them. I don't have a "type". A guy from any type can be attractive, as long as I can carry a conversation with him without having to answer "What does that word mean?".

How I loathe that question.



What does "loathe" mean?

quote:Originally posted by Billy Idol:

^Differences in time, Gustave ?

That's a good one, but not as good a mine. I like talking to my girl about time dilation after a good shag. I mean, we curl up together, and pretend that we're traveling near warp in our loveship. And then she'll give me a velocity, and I'll mentally factor it by t/sqrt 1-(v^2/c^2), and she'll tell me how much time on Earth will have passed after an hour of us fucking.

EDIT: spellign

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Mmmm, nice.