i've been floating around this dust particle in this body for around 18 years now, solo all this time.

i've been doing some thinking, which is over-rated, and well, for various reasons, i've decided it is time to enter into a relationship.

so what's the next step? where should i land my next leap?

[This message has been edited by shedding mountain (edited 08-09-2004).]

Got a car, a job and some money? Go to a club/bar. Go to a music show that you like, be social. Just get out and do something. You will meet tons of people. Spit some game and get ya groove on! woot...

Having a car and a job are good, not becuase all women are mind-guzzling whores, but because it shows you have some responsibility. The reason girls go for older guys is because older guys are more stable ... hence the car and job.

Having female friends always helps. You may or may not hook up with the friends, but at the very least you'll learn tons about the female mind. Knowledge is power.

Also, don't be so uptight "grrr, I gotta find me one now!". I met my current b/f in a college laundry room of all places, in pajamas, without a shower. In other words ... have an idea of what you're looking for, but don't force it to happen.