...yeh with girls i suck. dunno how some guys pick up / date zillions of chicks, i just cant do it. i guess im too shy. i can stay quiet for hours and never look at girl straight in the face when im with one. and when i talk to one , il be like "baahh,wah ummm...er... blah" , dunno wot to say and shit :/

and thats not even for the hot ones.

i have been out with a small number of a girls, not many, id say 2-3.

looks? , well i dont look too bad, or too good, kinda average i reckon.

once a girl told me that i was good lookin and i should do modelling, hah!. i cudnt believe it and i still dont. infact one or two girls have said i am kinda good looking, and once i said i look like a geek and one girl said, "no, no u dont", but i think they were fuckin with me ya know.

self confidence? im in the minuses, i dont have any self confidence :/

chicks? coupla chicks did ask me out once, i was too shy to say "yeh" or let em know i liked em back. specially one chick, man she was hot.

when i mean hot i mean DAMN!. i think she kinda liked me cos i never bothered with her cos i though , wot wud a girl like that want with someone like me. i think she had 3-4 guys giving her theyre numbers and stuff so i didnt join the chase,i never do. but i cudnt believe it when she started to flirt with me and then she asked for ma number. i gave her it and then she wud SMS message me and shit.

but i suck with chicks...i needed to know concrete if she liked me. she gave me small clues like.. i told her that i was in a hotel once and she said "Really???? with who!!!" ,kinda outraged and shit.

and then for valentines day she said "what u gonna get me?" and i said like a moron "huh? is it ur birthday or something?" and she said , no its valentines day u idiot.

damn i suck with chicks.

she was gonna go out clubbin and i said "where will ya go?" and she said , "nah i wont go, cos i wont see you there"

and what did i say/do to that reply?

yep,

"bah, wah, ummm... er....blah" messed it all up :/

then she rang me to see me in college on a friday , but ma phone was off all day, and she seen me the next day and said, "i was passin ya college , i rang u but ya fone is off, ill drop by another day", i said cool.

me being a moron shudve releasied she wud end up comming round on monday.

and what happens when monday comes?...

yep i get a fonecall at around 2pm, its her.

she is asking where i am, she is sounding friggin hot!.

and where was i?

home asleep in bed :/

i told her im at home asleep.

and she didnt expect to hear that, she sounded a little dissapointed i think :/

what shud i have done? yes.. got up got dressed and got the fuck to college to meet this hot chick.

half hour later she rings again...."are u around college now?"

shit man, i was still in bed sleepin ZZZzzzz.

i fucked up..bigtime

i suck with girls...

now shes dating sum other pussy faggot....i missed out on her, i liked her too :/

story dont end there....

another girl LIKED me ( she dont like me no more ). another hot girl.

one of those stuck up ones that dont talk to no one. i didnt talk to her at all, but she started talkin to me, strikin up conversations and stuff. again ya know , what wud a girl like that want with me ? dunno.. so i didnt really try to get with her, but she came my away again. at the end of the day she prodded in my stomach and said , "its lovely meeting you!" , smiling and shit. shes the type of girl that is hard to break. i guess i shudve taken it from there, but instead i was like..

"bah,wahah, ummmm... err... blush. blah"



screwed

so my point to all this long bullshit rant is that i guess im natrully made to fuck up with chicks, im not put together to handle chicks. hell i dont chase chicks anymore cos i will not succeed with them. so i just watch em pass by and stuff and chill out with my crew :/

am not made for chicks, so i dont pursue em

did i say i suck with chicks?

you my friend are a fucken looser!

You just have low self-esteem. The more you practice talking to the opposite sex, the more comfortable you will become in doing so.

Try getting your nerve up, and talking to different girls each day. Make a goal to talk to 10 different girls in one week, and you will find that you will be less nervous each time you do. Just go up and say "Hi my name is _____." Some will talk, some will not. It just takes a little practice.

Good luck.

Get a whore. Stop being a pussy, be a man. Women can spot a man a mile away.

quote:Originally posted by greyhat7:

you my friend are a fucken looser!

That was truely mean.



But still funny...

Quit shitting on the guy, I used to be the same way, and I can proudly say that I no longer am.

Look man, the only way to coax your ass out of your little protective barrier is to realize that all it does is end up fucking you over. YOU have turned women down because of your fear of interaction. If you fear interaction, of course it is going to be a bad experience...take small steps. I was able to take one giant leap out of it...got suckerpunched in the face by the first girl I talked to about how I felt, but it GOT ME OUT OF THE SHELL, and now I have no problem talking to women, and getting a date (and after some practice, getting a date to move into the relationship phase).

ya man i hear ya. but its real hard for me ya know. dunno what ill do :/

rather ZZZzzzz and forget about it all

Hahaha, she called back in an hour and still snoozing. That part made me laugh.

Any time you see a girl, anywhere, talk to her, make friends, the more time you spend with them, the more comfortable you'll feal with them.

Damn dude... and I thought I was bad.

I would have jumped all over that...

[This message has been edited by Whiteflame (edited 08-07-2004).]

Dude you just need to rape some hot chick... get urself goin again man

Go to one extreme... balance shit out

rape.

oh no, i cant rape man :P

i need to grow sum bolls :/

become a male prositute. You get laid n paid for it. =)

you can change everything man you just have to want to. just dont think about bad shit that could happen when you see a girl that you like just go strait up and talk to her.. trust me girls like a guy with self confidence over a guy that stays in a corner shitting his pants rather than talking to her

quote:Originally posted by greyhat7:

you my friend are a fucken looser!

Dude you need a life seriously. Go out and get a fucking lay. A whore would be a good lay. Just dont tell anyone its a whore you fucked :P

good idea

The secret is using the Shift key. Thats why all those guys get all the chicks; because they use the Shift key.

quote:Originally posted by y4m4:

The secret is using the Shift key. Thats why all those guys get all the chicks; because they use the Shift key.

I WANT TO MEET YOU!!!1

haha.

I am a looser too. But I am already recovering (I hope...). Just go to a club and flirt every guirl you can find (even the that ugly one that is hoping to rape you...). That was what I done 3 times and I got a lot less shy.

if you want get laid just use this pick up line,wirks most of the time,,,just tell her this...

if we were both squirrels cound i crack a nut in your hole.

quote:Originally posted by greyhat7:

you my friend are a fucken looser!

and so are you, good job, loser.

If youre gonna insult someone, do it with style. By the way, hows the hacking going? Or playing with the registry. Whatever you want to call it.

quote:Originally posted by whitemonkey:



if we were both squirrels cound i crack a nut in your hole.

HELL NO

Oh yeah, and you don't have much of a problem. When your self-esteem goes up, you'll be perfectly fine. The cherubic innocent boy works in garnering dates, but it'll work out better when you can accept them. It's easier to change attitude than change your looks(unless you get plastic surgery, in which case you're fucked up). So you're in good shape.

hehe thx for all the replies.

yah today i was out trying to talk to any chicks, even at mcdonalds!. saying friendly stuff to em and not pussying out.

its not that i cannot get a chick to like me , i do get proposed by chicks, but im usually too shy to say or do anything back. i pussy out.

when i think back of all the past/present times of all the chicks who have blatently shown an interest in me i think damn im a fuck up !. its been so obvious , eg .. from a girl saying she wanted to dance with me in the college discos, to a girl writing her number on my hand and saying fone me fucker!

and still i wimp out at this

but im a try to be less shy, im out trying to talk to girls :P

thx anywayz

Pussy. You just think the girls like you, as many guys do. But in reality they think you're a fucking disgusting pig.

I was thinking on what I read, and I'll tell you that when you have nothing to say then try asking the girl something. Of course don't ask her anything too intimate. Girls like it when a man is interested in them! When you know the girl better you may become less shy coz you would have much more in common.

Well, that's what I think (coz i'm a girl and I really know what makes me like some guy).