is there something wrong wiht me,.. i dont enjoy sex! i dont even enjoy anyone touching me, or beeing too close to anyone.. I feel so wierd.. am I the only one?!

Your funny. Keep it up.

Don't worry, you'll hit puberty soon.

you male or female?

and no there's nothing unnormal about the way you feel. if its not the result of some childhood trauma(abuse) then it will almost certainly change with time and the right partner.

idk to a certain degree i hate people being near me, it makes me feel uneast, and no it is not a childhood trauma thing cuz i was never traumatized as a kid lol i had a very happy childhood, but anyways i mean i like sex, just i dont like people being within like a foot and a half of me if there is no need, i guess i may just be really paranoid cuz i feel they are gonna do something so i go on the defensive...i usually hit em and tell em to back the fuck up lol oh well

female.. yeah I hope so.. well I dont have childhood traumas related to sex but i have had a pretty rough life and i do have a hard time trusting anyone but im not sure thats why.. but yeah im guessing youre right

well i hope i'm right to! the right man (assuming you're straight) will come along who first wins your trust and then your love and finally your desire.

such blokes are rare but they do exist.

the important thing is not to start seeing yourself as some kind of freak.

If you find someone you feel like you can really trust, be just yourself aroun, and relaz completely with, you should be able to enjoy everything alot more. :)

quote:Originally posted by Serenade:

is there something wrong wiht me,.. i dont enjoy sex! i dont even enjoy anyone touching me, or beeing too close to anyone.. I feel so wierd.. am I the only one?!I know people that are just like you.

1. Kids annoy you.

2. You feel the need to argue with people alot and/or disagree.

3.You tend to criticize others and make fun of them. You enjoy it.

4. You tend to become angry easily, especially when someone says something bad about you.

From what little bit of information that you have given me, there is a 50/50 chance I will be wrong...or right. It is in your nature to disagree with me though, if I am right.



[This message has been edited by fick_dich (edited 08-07-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by fick_dich:



1. Kids annoy you.

2. You feel the need to argue with people alot and/or disagree.

3.You tend to criticize others and make fun of them. You enjoy it.

4. You tend to become angry easily, especially when someone says something bad about you.

From what little bit of information that you have given me, there is a 50/50 chance I will be wrong...or right. It is in your nature to disagree with me though, if I am right.



actually yeah youre pretty much right.. lol exept i dont really laugh at ppl

Do not worry there is nothing wrong with you. That is just the way you are. You will feel much more comfortable when you find a guy that feels the exact same way about things as you do.

apparintly girls arnt supposed to like sex theyre just forced into it by smooooth talking guys your normal.

but dont trust me I only heard that some where

Maybe you're a frigid bitch?

quote:Originally posted by WolfinSheepsClothing:

Maybe you're a frigid bitch?

Cold-hearted bitches are awesome though, so what would the problem be with that?

I would love to have a "relationship" with a cold-hearted bitch.

What's wrong with you?

<Nicholas Cage>My first guess would be...A lot.</Nicholas Cage>

quote:Originally posted by Optimus Prime:

Cold-hearted bitches are awesome though, so what would the problem be with that?

I would love to have a "relationship" with a cold-hearted bitch.



Cold, hard BITCH! just a kiss on the lips, that was all I nee-ded..Cold-hard BITCH!, she was shakin' her hips..

Sorry, but you got it stuck in my head.

quote:Originally posted by Serenade:

female.. yeah I hope so.. well I dont have childhood traumas related to sex but i have had a pretty rough life and i do have a hard time trusting anyone but im not sure thats why.. but yeah im guessing youre right



For most females, it's difficult to feel an sexual enthusiasm without strong feelings for their partner. For men, it's the physical/sensual (senses, not sexy) pleasures; for women, the emotional.

You just have to find a guy you trust. Your age and morals (ethics, attitudes, etc.) also has an impact on it. If you're young, or raised in a family that speaks ill of sex, you won't be as prone to enjoy it.