ok...so the other night, i got real drunk with a couple of friends and i ended up fucking this chick. Now, everyone knows this chick fucks when shes drunk and everyone knows she gets around. She claims she has only fucked 3 other guys but me and all my friends have serious doubts. I ended up fucking her without a condom. Since i wus soo drunk, i didnt bust. We basically did everything, eat out finger hj and head. Now, my friends keep giving me shit about having AIDS and i think it is kind of scaring me. It is just lodged in the back of my head. I asked her friend if she has AIDS and of course her friend said no. She said "no she doesn't, because she would know by now." I know all of her friends are uneducated about it so i dont trust them. I am probably going to get tested but i really dont want to go out of my way (i'll end up doing it anyways) My question is, do you think i have any type of STD? I didnt bust, so i dont know about the fluid transfer or watever, but i did eat her out for a good time. I need some answers. Oh...and my balls and dick itch way more these last couple of days then usual. Is that a sign of something? (i heard if your itchy you may have syphilis, just an eminem song). Maybe i am just too paranoid, but this is something to be paranoid about, your life....not just getting caught smoking weed by your parents...

"no she doesn't, because she would know by now."

That's bullshit. AIDS symptoms sometimes take YEARS to surface. Most other STIs won't show any signs of activity for at least a couple of weeks. Truth it, if she doesn't have a piece of paper in her hand with blood test results, she doesn't know if she's clean.

quote:Originally posted by jacktharippa 34:

I am probably going to get tested but i really dont want to go out of my way (i'll end up doing it anyways)

You don't want to go out of your way to get tested?! *shakes head* I'm going to stop before I start. GET TESTED!

I have no idea if you caught something from her. But look at it like this: You both were drunk, she let you fuck without a condom. Chances are, if she let you fuck without a condom, she's let other guys too.

It doesn't matter that you didn't ejaculate except if you DID catch something and didn't even get to finish. That would suck.

The itching is probably all in your head unless you have crabs.

shit, now you got me thinking. Can i just walk into a hospital and get tested? Do i need to make an appointment? I can't let my parents know. How much money does it cost and do i just jizz in a cup? shit, this guilt bullshit sux. More opinions and answers please

for once and just for once i agree with mojo!

GO TO THE DOCTOR YOU DICKHEAD!

There are walk-in clinics. You don't need parental consent or an appointment. They'll ask you a bunch of questions and take blood. As far as cost, it depends where you go and what you get tested for.

And jackketch, you often disagree with me? I don't remember ever disagreeing with anything you've said..

quote:Originally posted by jacktharippa 34:

My question is, do you think i have any type of STD?

I just shook my Magic 8 Ball for you and it said "Ask again later". So that was no help.

I can't fnd the links now and I'm pressed for time, but I believe it takes up to 12 weeks for HIV to appear in testing, though as Mojo said, it can take years for symptoms of the disease AIDS to appear.

While your activity is considered "high risk" the female-to-male HIV transmission rates during unprotected intercourse are significantly lower than male-to-female or male-to-male. This doesn't mean you should be relieved or think you're out of the woods, but provided only FYI.

Males contracting HIV by performing oral sex on a woman is rare.

Again, I'm not pulling this info out of my ass; I used to have the links bookmarked but I can't find them right now. I think they're CDC links.



Edit: Many Planned Parenthood clinics offer testing on a sliding fee scale. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/sti/aidsquestions.html



[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 08-06-2004).]

alright, thx cindy and mojo. So if it takes 12 weeks just to show up, im not gonna get tested soon. Jesus christ the thought of having AIDS. I really dont think i do, but theres that little place in the back of my head. I need to find a clinic close by. So u can transfer aids even though i didnt bust right? If her fluid either entered my mouth or dick correct?

sorry mojo that was a bit of brit speak. meant ironically.

quote:Originally posted by jacktharippa 34:

So if it takes 12 weeks just to show up, im not gonna get tested soon.

probably the peak time for picking things up (early), is 10-14 days.

quote:So u can transfer aids even though i didnt bust right? If her fluid either entered my mouth or dick correct?

apart from other secretions, pre-ejaculate, vaginal etc, which come out even without ejaculating and which carry virus, other viruses (like herpes, AIDS so far i believe does not) pass through mucosal surfaces (which is basically any surface on or in the body which is tender, pink and wet).

From the American Journal of Clinical Pathology:

The time frame between exposure to HIV and the ability to detect HIV antibody is known as the window period. The window period consists of 2 phases.

In the first phase, HIV replication can be demonstrated in lymph nodes and the liver, but not in blood.[2] This phase of the window period is known as the eclipse phase, since circulating virus cannot be demonstrated.

In the second or viremic phase of the window period, HIV is present in the circulation, but HIV antibody is not detectable.

Studies in health care workers who acquired HIV via a nosocomial (hospital acquired) exposure estimate that the median length of the entire window period is 40 days.[2] However, the viremic phase of the HIV window period is approximately 22 days.[3]

From what i could find, the actual window period is something like 40-50 days, but the commonly accepted time frame for HIV testing is as cindy said, 3 months.

I hope that whoever reads this will think of it if they ever decide to donate blood- it's one thing to infect yourself, it's another thing to infect other (sick!) people.

[This message has been edited by Tabiba (edited 08-06-2004).]

Your friends are idiots. The chances of a heterosexual male getting aids from a young female are astronomicaly slim. There are many other stds though chief, so wrap it.

now listenup kids cus im not joking,one mistake now and your dick'll be smoking.you'll get a vd,it'll hurt to pee.now sex isnt wrong,but you gotta be right,if your hitting the sheets wrap it up tight.