well they are ok, but im wondering whats wrong, no girl has ever made me blow my load from a blowjob, ive been with some very experienced women too.

the only way i blow my load is fucking or from really long wank with lube.

i know it annoys girls because they feel like a failure but its all me.

Is there anything i can do to get my sensitivty back?

It has its good points like stamina but its annoying.

I think its because ive had a pull every day since i was 11 or something and the nerves are dead or something.

ive tryed a break and it doesnt help eithor, i havent had a (complete) pull or sexual encounter in a few weeks and i still have trouble.

Any tips?

I hope this isnt the end of them for me.

pour hydrochloric acid on your helmet.problem solved.sorry man,did have a good reply,but too tired.i have the same problem,only mine was never there to lose.

How much have you experimented with alternative methods of masturbation?

Have you spoken with a doctor?

Do the girls take their time getting you good and hot before going down?

Can a girl jack you off?

What do you think about while they're doing you?

I'll try to think of more questions, if you want to answer them.

How much have you experimented with alternative methods of masturbation?

i ve used pillow and penis pumps, pillows or socks work ok.

Have you spoken with a doctor? no

Do the girls take their time getting you good and hot before going down?

ussually, havent tryed slowly stripping off or anything yet.

Can a girl jack you off? not completely

What do you think about while they're doing you?

i try to think of anything from how hot she is, how much i wanted her to do this, to imagining anything kinky like fucking my sexy cousin (am i evil?)

Did someone cut off your foreskin when you were an infant? Because that could do it

Wow... that sex. I don't know what it is, but I can't get off from head either. Fucking sucks. Always wanted to see a girl swallow my shit.

quote:Originally posted by luckyphill:



How much have you experimented with alternative methods of masturbation?

i ve used pillow and penis pumps, pillows or socks work ok.

Have you spoken with a doctor? no

Do the girls take their time getting you good and hot before going down?

ussually, havent tryed slowly stripping off or anything yet.

Can a girl jack you off? not completely

What do you think about while they're doing you?

i try to think of anything from how hot she is, how much i wanted her to do this, to imagining anything kinky like fucking my sexy cousin (am i evil?)





Hmmm, are you evil? LOL

Since a girl can't jack you off completely and can't get you off orally, have you tried jacking off while a girl goes down on you? I knew a couple guys who had this same problem and that took care of that. The other problem was that they just did not feel right about getting off in a girls mouth. One guy had a place that was right down at the base that if pressure and massage were done there in combination with getting head he could then get off.

Do you get emotionally involved with your sex partner or is sex more of a casual friendly thing for you right now?

How long does it usually take to get off during intercourse and what specifically does it for you then?

Oh, and do you drink alcohol or do drugs prior to sexual activity? I can't do either, it numbs me too much and I can't have an orgasm then.

[Getting good and hot: If a guy's balls aren't aching for want of some action (same goes for a girl's vulva) then you aren't good and hot! IMO]

I can't think of anything else at the moment. Hope you don't mind discussing this with a female. I can't give you 'insider' advice, but I can at least talk with you about it. [it just occurred to me that you might not know my gender, sorry]

No i actually prefer talking about it to a female.

I have tryed many things with masturbation like the things you mention and still no luck.

I have no problem with coming in a girls mouth.

Emotional attachmen or wahtever depends on the girl. I have no problem with casual sex

as long as the girls attractive. Likeing the girl emotionaly does make things a lot better sexually though for me.

I suppose i dont really get good and hot beforehand, perhaps ill give it a try next time.

Thanks for the tips outkast.

quote:Originally posted by luckyphill:

No i actually prefer talking about it to a female.

I have tryed many things with masturbation like the things you mention and still no luck.

I have no problem with coming in a girls mouth.

Emotional attachmen or wahtever depends on the girl. I have no problem with casual sex

as long as the girls attractive. Likeing the girl emotionaly does make things a lot better sexually though for me.

I suppose i dont really get good and hot beforehand, perhaps ill give it a try next time.

Thanks for the tips outkast.



[that's outcast with a 'c', btw - I just noticed that there is an outkast with a 'k'. Had I known that I'd picked a different name, it could get confusing.]

Yeah, really being into someone makes the experience much better, but friendly sex is nice too.

I'm not sure what help I've been, but have fun trying things out. I'm just drawing a blank on anything else right now.

If they leave this topic open you can come back to it later and give us an update when you finally find something that will work. It looks like you're not alone in this and sharing experiences is really helpful for people. I've picked up a couple of things already, myself.