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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2004-08-03, 15:35
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Love just isn't enough sometimes
My girlfriend got kicked out of her house here in Delaware when she went on vacation to Nevada. Her mom is a stupid whore, we already know this. Now we both love each other, but we live 3000 miles away. I told her a long distance relationship is damn enar impossible and isn't going to work. There is a slim chance of her coming back, but the problem is she believes her mom isn't going to let her do a damn thing (which she has threatened btw) Now I don't think her mom can do this, how can she control someone she doesn't care about? That's my point. I've actually yet to tell her that, because I was talking to a friend who brought up the point and my girlfriends phone has been busy, (what are the fucking odds?) Basically, I don't think she's coming back and I don't know what to do. Someone give me some help. Please?
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#2
 2004-08-03, 16:05
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RA1NB0WCARNAG3 
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
I think long distances CAN work but it depends on alot of different things. What it comes down to is is she worth it. I'd give it some time and see what happens. You never know.
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#3
 2004-08-03, 16:58
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Exodus5000 
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
I cant speak authoritively on this because i've majorily been there done that. If it works out that shes gonna be 3000 miles away, then its not worth it. TRUST ME. You're a young man - im assuming - and your life will change at a pace that a long distance relationship could not possibly have a chance of keeping up at. Plus not having ANY physical relationship takes away 50% of what goes into a relationship. It sucks, and it'll hurt, but be a man and do the right thing when you figure out all the angles.
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#4
 2004-08-03, 21:28
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deadlycindy 
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
As I've said, such a situation would challenge even committed adult couples, even married couples. Intimacy (not necessarily just sex) is as important as love.
This doesn't prevent people from trying though. But what inevitably happens is one person meets someone else, and they can't break it to the other person, so they carry on a charade, until the other person senses a "distancing" and "things aren't the same". Then things are tense, sad and depressing. And it's all the more disappointing since you were silly enough to venture into a lost cause in the first place.
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#5
 2004-08-03, 21:43
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Scareface 
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
Forget about it its not worth it. Think about it your a young guy you want to get pussy you dont want to get married.
Why is this even a question! Think about girls can deal with a long distance relationship cause they have that comfort of "being" with a guy and having someone carring about them. You on the other hand have a penis and your penis doesnt like long distance relationships he likes up close and personal.
Forget about it my advice is tell her yes to long distance and go for every girl you can.
Thats my advice to any guy under I am thinking 26. Cheat on your girl, think about it why not, your not going to get married if you are before that then you prolly made a mistake. Cheat but be smart about it. Why break up with girls, If you really like them then dont cheat but if she lives far away or you dont really like her that much any more why bother with a break up just do what you want if she finds out she will prolly want you even more then and if she doesnt who gives a fuck you dont like her that much anyways.
Same goes for girls. If a guy is dumb enough to stay with you when you cheat on him then he should get cheated on.
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#6
 2004-08-03, 23:38
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
Yea I see what everyone is saying it's just hard, man I don't know.
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#7
 2004-08-04, 05:13
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Exodus5000 
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Re: Love just isn't enough sometimes
Trust me on this, i was in your shoes. The quicker you end it the better off you are. I know it seems like you can't do it to her, but be a man and do the right thing. You will thank yourself later.
and maybe me for the advice.
...
cindy too.
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