Horror story:

I know this girl. Been my best friend for years, and lately, we started fooling around. We've both been hurt badly, and whenever we just feel like getting it out, we hang out and do just that. This started and has lasted for the past few months...

until last week.

She called me, telling me to come over. We smoked some pot, started making out and such. I started going for her shirt, and she said it was "staying on." No problem, a little let down, but it's her body, not my business. We make out a little while longer, and instead of going for my dick after a little while, she just stops and says she has to have dinner with her folks.

This happens again two days later. She said she just wasn't in the mood for anything more than kissing.

So I started thinking, maybe she wants more, and I started thinking if I did. I don't, but I thought about it.

Last night, it all changed.

We were at a mutual friend's party at his fancy schmancy house, not together mind you. But once we were there, saw each other and such, we spoke for a long while. I drank a little bit more than usual, so I was quite drunk, as was she. I scored some coke, and we did a few lines in the guest bedroom in private. For some reason, the coke made me hard. She saw what happened, smiled, took off her blouse, pulled out my dick, and gave me a drunken blowjob. Next thing I know, ten minutes or so later, I cum in her mouth, and we lay down for a second, smoke a cig. We say nothing at all, don't kiss, don't communicate. I lean over and start kissing her, next thing I can remember, I'm down on her and she's moaning. She claws her nails into my head to signal she came, and then we head back to the party after saying a few nice words to each other. All is quiet for an hour or so. I feel alright, the coke gave me a nosebleed, but it subsided quickly.

Next thing I know, as I am sitting on a chair drinking a beer because I finished off the scotch, a guy grabs my arms and pins them behind me as another guy punches me in the face and screams "did you fuck my girlfriend!?!" I say "what?" which earns me a kick in the gut. He asks again and I reply no, to which he yells "BULLSHIT!" and throws me on the floor. He and three other guys start kicking me, as I'm trying to fight my way back up. I'm 6'4, 200 some odd pounds, and I have fought a bit. Not tonight. I was getting my ass fuckin beaten down by 4 6' musclebound jocks. They picked me up, bleeding and bruised, and threw me THROUGH A FUCKING GLASS DOOR. I remember laying in glass, coughing and vomiting, then passing out.

I come to the next morning, laying on a bathroom floor, while others are passed out in the other parts of the house. I have dried caked blood, scabs and shit all other. Ripped and dingy clothes, one shoe. Wallet gone, cell phone destroyed. Car tires slashed, windshield broken. Really did a number on me. Luckily, I found a first aid kit in the bathroom. I dressed my wounds. My face looks like a fucking swollen mess. My noise is broken and my wrist is sprained. I don't know for sure, I haven't gone to the hospital or anything.

I wait for a friend to get up, borrow his car, head to my house, shower and get cleaned up. I'm beaten to a pulp. Went to a Firestone, got a tire, got my car, changed the shit, brought it to a glass repair place, and now I'm waiting to get it back.

I didn't know what the fuck was going on. I got my ass kicked for nothing. Well, what I thought was nothing...

My "best friend", the girl, sent me an email, explaining how she starting dating that scumbag, and had been fucking him for weeks. She never told me because she still wanted to fool around with me, but knew I wasn't going to go for fucking someone else over, being that victim before. I'm not very social and I don't gossip, so I never heard shit from anyone. She ranted in the email for many lines saying things like "she loved the way I ate her pussy" and how she could "live off my cum."

Sick shit, I can't believe it. I was shaking, and I just fucking cried. I was lied to, used even. I fucked someone else over, that I always want to never be me. Turns out his buddy saw me go with her, and then heard her moaning and shit, so he called his friend. Which leaves me looking and feeling like a fucking asshole.

I never want to see her again. This is horrible.

I'm just going to sit tight, heal, and try to block it out like so many other things I've had to already...

I don't know if you're posting this to vent or for advice but that is a shitty situation. Especially since you were good friends with her and everything. I think the one at fault here is least of all you, you shouldn't be feeling bad about what you did, you should be pissed off at what was done to you. I know someone on the internet saying this probably wont help but you should either drop it and just take it as a bad experience, or get some sweet revenge for what they did to you and your car.

Revenge would probably be the most fullfilling idea but it would also take a lot of effort and there is a pretty big potential for getting hurt/in trouble.

dude, best revenge is legal revenge. File a law suit for battery and damaged property and stuff on them and take all their money. It is much more funny than peeing in their gas tank and whatnot.

quote:...you shouldn't be feeling bad about what you did, you should be pissed off at what was done to you.

Hell no. That's the beginning of the victim mentality right there, which zaps a person's power to move forward and rise above it. And it makes a person think s/he has a right to fuck other people over.

Doesn't mean you should feel bad about your actions. Assuming you're a teenager, you learned a valuable lesson early in life: you need to know the people you get involved with. If you didn't know she had a bf, you didn't know her well enough. Hard to believe, if she's been your "best friend for years" but there it is.

quote:Originally posted by deadlycindy:

Hell no. That's the beginning of the victim mentality right there, which zaps a person's power to move forward and rise above it. And it makes a person think s/he has a right to fuck other people over.

Doesn't mean you should feel bad about your actions. Assuming you're a teenager, you learned a valuable lesson early in life: you need to know the people you get involved with. If you didn't know she had a bf, you didn't know her well enough. Hard to believe, if she's been your "best friend for years" but there it is.

Yeah. I dunno what I'm going to do. I want to try to explain myself to her (now ex I just found out) boyfriend, but he's one of those redneck, jock pigfuckin' types. I can't believe I didn't know, and I really can't believe she's callous and cold enough to cheat on someone like she did. She fucked me over badly too. I've known her for 4 years, she was one of my only friends really. Goddamn this hurts. I dunno, she knew me well enough that she probably realized she knew exactly how to hide the fact she had a bf. I wanted to date her when I first met her, but we became better friends than lovers. Then we were drawn together because of all the fucked up shit others had done to us. I dunno, it's fucked.

I don't think I'll go pissing in anyone's gas tank, or filing a lawsuit. I think I'll just get my car fixed and put some ice on my wrist, typing this shit fucking hurts.

I guess I did just need to vent.

Since she hid a vital fact that she knew would hurt you, she doesn't respect you. also, it sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, but it does sound that she's using you as a security blanket.

Distance yourself for a while, and the best way to handle the b/f and his buddies is a nice report to the local PD

Ouch man. Well distance yourself from everyone involved, especially her. My advice would be to move on and take a lesson well learned. I know you care about her but shes probly not the type you want to hang out with. Might not be much but ive been through it and I know what ur feeling.

I would play her with 'forgiveness' in order to get the douches names, then take care of business on all 7 of them.

quote:Originally posted by syphon detonator:

I would play her with 'forgiveness' in order to get the douches names, then take care of business on all 7 of them.

Ya I would go and beat the shit out of them four times as hard as they did you.Let them know that what they did was unacceptable.

Hon...you were raped! Trust rape is the worst! Very difficult to recover from.

You write a good story. That was pretty entertaining. Anyways, in these situations the buhdists have the right idea. Have compassion for those people. Understand why they did it, and even though you may not understand it, accept it. Then move on.

Damn dude, well you have my sincere sympathies. Not only were you lied to and used, but were goaded into screwing over someone else. Not too sure how I'd feel in this kind of situation, don't really want to find out either. Tell you what though, what those guys did was uncalled for, even if you knew that you were screwing around with one of their girlfriends. Beating someone that bad, putting them through a glass door, then trashing their car is a bit overboard. I'd say just cut your losses and get over it, but I don't know if I'd be able to.

Hell, at least you got a bj

quote:Hell, at least you got a bj

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Well, LutherX, you do have a point there.

sometimes the best revange comes in a way of not beating their ass, fucking their car up, burning down their house... what are all things you could do but you'd probably be singled out all his friends would claim to have seen you do it... and you'd still be fucked...

sometimes walking up to the person and explaining what happend aint a good way either... for all you know he'll start beating you down again altho... you sound like a well built guy so one on one wouldent be to hard...

if you are going to talk to him be prepared for a fight... thats my warning to you...

another thing is... about the girl... she don't know what she wants... maybe she lied and wanted to get some side love... maybe she actually sorta wants to be with you... you got 2 options what you already know and that will decide on your guys friendship for the future...

you can either cut her of or still be her friend... but shes probably not worth dating... not saying shes a whore and sleeps with everyone.. i dont know her but she did it once it could happen again

anyways sorry to hear that... and good luck with what ever choices you make

All this revenge stuff, all this "you were screwed over" stuff...bah! Exodus5000 has the right idea, whether s/he was serious or not. this is just a turning point in your life, and it sucks that it involves the termination of a friendship.

I have a hard time believing that her motivations were primarily to stab you in the back, or hurt you, or betray your trust. You were, quite unfortunately, "collateral damage". She acted in a self-serving way, and for whatever reason was unable to control herself long enough to understand the repurcussions of her actions.

If she ever grows and evolves, this incident will weigh heavily on her conscience for much of her life. If she doesn't grow and evolve, she'll eventually piss off the wrong person.

I wouldn't bother with the "explaining yourself" to her bf. Anyone who acts impulsively violent should be avoided. I would have suggested filing assault and battery charges, but the drug use, and possibly "underage sex" (I don't know her age, or the age of consent in your state) complicates things.

[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 08-03-2004).]

that shit is fucked up...you got beat the fuck up over some shit that was beyond your control. If anyone should have been the target for this agression, it should have been the girl, you and the other guys should have ganged up on her for being a little slut...she had a boyfriend and didn't tell you, that's not your fault, she fucked you and didn't tell her boyfriend, that's not his fault...sounds like this girl is a little slut bitch.

~meaty

Dude first of all that girl is a bitch and you need to tell her that. You got your ass wopped for her and your shit trashed not to mention your ego crushed.

I dont know how shit works around there but here you go to the Mexicans. Just fucking hire some local Mexis to beat the shit out of this guys Iam telling you you will feel better. If your not going to sue this guy then fucking get him back to what he did to you. Dont be scared once he gets his ass kicked we will be to much of a pussy to touch you.

Plus some faggot tried to fight me and when he saw that he couldnt do shit to me he fucking trashed my hood when running away. I stayed there till the cops arived. All I did was show them my hood and tell them that the dude assulted me although the funny thing is that he got his ass kicked worst, all cause I talked to his girlfriend. He ended up spending a day in jail and paying me 900 bucks for a new hood for my Jeep.

Just trust me on this they wont do drug check on you or anything like that. Just go to the cops show them your face and the car and the bill for the tires and windshield. And then tell them who this guy is. You wont have to do anything else trust me. After a year this guy is going to get called to court where he will be forced to do time or pay you for your car, and even medical bills.

So just do yourself a favor and go to the cops soon. Before your brusis go away. KEEP US POSTED.

beat up the girl then beat the jock up.

what you need:

shovel

shotgun

the jocks number

a field.

call him and tell him to meet you in the feild. Dig a pit beforehand. We he turns up, shoot him and bury him. Torch his car and flee, flee for your life boy.

mutilate your "best friend" so know one will ever want to sleep with her, sleep with alot of slags and give her gonarea(sp)

Thanks for all the words people, appreciate them all.

It crossed my mind to get up with the cops, but I have a little bit of a record, so I always try to avoid cops at all costs. But whatever. Strangely enough, she left me a letter today in my mailbox, but I haven't opened it. It has been sprayed with perfume though...or maybe that's smallpox. Whatever, I'm not ready to look inside just yet. My friend Eric (one of her exes) said that she was truly sorry when he saw her earlier, but I don't buy it. Not that he's lying or anything, but fuck her. That's all I keep thinking.

Good news though, the insurance I have on my car will cover the repairs, and I won't get any upped rates. Extra insurance pays off, I explained that it was a freak accident and my car was vandalized and such. I won't have to pay shit. Thanks GEICO.

And FYI for those who mentioned, the bj was pretty good, but it may've been the coke that helped. Shot off a sizable load. And trust me, I thought about trying to give her the clap, but that means I'd have it, and that's just shitty.

God damn.. there ARE lots of people gettin smashed over women! Fuck i wish i was in ur possition.. ive had the most insane urge to get in a fuckin huge assed brawl lately and bloody up my knuckles on some fuckin retards face.. even if in the process i get smashed.. i think im gonna go out tonight.. walk up to a girl who's with her bf and squeeze her ass.. lol ill keep ya'll posted!

but dude.. that shit seriously sucks.. if u decide not to do anything i respect that just as much as smashing this pig jockey.. take it on the cheek takes humility.. a good traight. Dont stress.. one way or another.. he'll get wats coming to him. Maybe his pigs have the clap! lol

Shit man. That's extra fucked up. No offence to chicks, but they do tend to do some really fucked up things like this(Especially in their teen years).

Now I'm sure that she didn't intentionally backstab you and try to get you fucked up. But she should of fuckin known better than to fool around with another guy while her b/f and his boys were at the same party. No offense to your "friend", but she sounds like a real stupid bitch.

Anyways, I'm with the guy that said to play nice with her to get the names of the guys that jumped you. On second thought, that might be a bad idea, because she might alert them to your asking about them. But you do need to find out who those fucks are.

What they did was seriously wrong. Leaving aside that their beating of you was a complete mistake, they totally disrespected you in front of alot of people. I think you said somewhere that you don't really go out much, or to parties, or something along those lines (correct me if I'm wrong), but still, you really can't just let them get away with something like this.

When you find out who these guys are, find out as much as you can about them. Don't just go off on some unplanned revenge attack on them. Find out where tehy live, where they hang out, etc. Somehow get them alone somewhere, then get your crew together with some bats (optional of course) and fuck them up, bad. Not too bad of course, but just enough to make sure not to fuck with you again. Be sure to jack them too, fuckers stole your wallet too obviously. Consider that compensation for your car. To quote Pulp Fiction, "You just don't fuck with a man's car."

I say be careful and plan this shit out because you don't want a report filed back on you. You did mention you had a record, so this isn't a goood thing. And at that point, it wouldn't matter that they had "started it", they would just give you some bullshit about "you should of followed the proper procedure in filing your own report".

As for the girl, it's up to you what you want to do with her. You could forget all about her, or open up that perfumey letter and perhaps get with her. You did say she gave a good blowjob

Best of luck man

[This message has been edited by Garibaldi (edited 08-04-2004).]

I'd open that letter, if shes as drunk as you say then she did what she wanted, possiably she just wants to be with you. In my experience alcohol is like a truth drug.

Open it and tell us what it says. At best it could be an apology, at worst a complete laugh.

BTW don't do what peope on TOTSE say use their advice. I find try flipping a coin and if you fee that is come down wrong do it.

Any updates?

None of this shit ever happens to my knowledge in my area... *sigh*

I wish I had your problems man.Not only are the girls here extremely prude (im tlaking abut chasity belt prude) But they DONT like giving head. *sigh*

As for the fighting and what not,I wish it was here. Im by no means tall and "muscular"

im 5'8 198 a little pudgy but i carry it well.But no one will fight me,it sucks,dude Jocks here are fucking panzies and preps.So. . .be happy you got head,coke,drunk,and got to fight.

(p.s. Geico has the koolest mascot)

~pink panther~

Not to bring back a dead topic, but this story has a happy ending.

Note: I do not condone violence under most any circumstance, but this time, I did.

So I was at a friend's house, chilling, having a few beers, then going to head downtown to see my buddy's band. So we go down there, I'm a little drunk, and guess who I see? The jock and his crew. He spots me and he starts verbally abusing me. He gets in my face, with his crew behind him. Here's how the conversation went:

Me: Sorry about what happened, I didn't know.

Asshole: Well, you should watch your fucking ass.

Me: You attacked me blindly like a fucking two-bit scumbag.

Asshole: You deserved it.

Me: Well, here's something you deserve.

This ignites a rumble between my friends and this fuck and his jock friends. I was so on fire I just started swinging, just pounding this fucker. It was sickeningly beautiful. I really don't like fighting, but when not being attacked from behind, this guy and his friends were pushovers hardcore. Just a few good hits and they were down. Anyways, cops came, so we all ran. I had swollen knuckles and a busted lip for a day or two, but it's all good now. I haven't been around because I've been nursing my wounds, and writing and such. He called me today, asking if we were "done." I told him our beef was up, we both were dumb and its over. He wanted to know if I wanted to go out drinking tonight, but I declined because he's a scumbag dumbshit who I want nothing to do with.

So if anyone cares, it all ended well. And I met a nice Asian girl who I'm taking to lunch tomorrow. So yeah, maybe it's not too bad.

Sounds like you definitely got your revenge, nice one, even if I don't condone fighting or violence myself.

Better make sure that asian girl doesn't have a boyfriend who will pull some funky jujitsu on your ass.

KILL KILL KILLL!!!!!!!!!!!

It all the better they fought. The guy got what he deserved. And the thing is, nobody died in the process. I mean, the guy sucker-punched him, and they gang-beat him. The guy deserved to be hit in the back of the head with nunchucks ! However, the honorable thing to do is to fight him "fairly". Only a coward attacks without looking his enemy in the eye. Whether he won or lost the fight didn't really matter, that jock asshole has no honor anyway. Fighting really helps alot with assholes who don't understand anything else. In my opinion, weapons are pointless for individual combat. Just swing it out !