this is kind of a message for Mojo, who really nailed on how to turn guys on. i just want to know what us guys can do for girls to better the experience. yea i know eating out, fingering and all that. be specific.

finger in butthole!!!

quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:

finger in butthole!!!

you misspelled fist*

quote:Originally posted by SARDONICPILLOW:

finger in butthole!!!

Also urethra*

quote:Originally posted by deptstoremook:

you misspelled fist*

LMAO

Being a female, it’s kind of hard to think of things that turn me one seeing as I never actively put them into practice. But I’ll try.

Women are like toasters and men are like microwaves. A man gets hard as fast as it takes for you to nuke a hotdog. Women have to warm up gradually.

We’re also a bit more complex. Sometimes we’ll be in the mood to be babied, other times we want to be ravaged. No matter what, we want to feel like you WANT us. We want to feel sexy. Once you’ve conveyed that message, we’ll let loose. Sex with a woman who knows she’s beautiful is so much better than with a woman who is self-conscious or ashamed. Keep that in mind.

Turning a woman on is more mental than physical. Let the clit-touching be the end not the means.

Pay attention to the boobies

Don’t lie there and just grab and suck on them. Caress them… slowly. Squeeze her nipple a little bit. (Pressure depends on the girl. Personally, I can’t stand when my nips are bitten or pinched hard. It fucking hurts.)

Explore her body.

When she’s naked, don’t start rubbing her pussy furiously. Touch every inch of her body, kiss slowly, and spend time on the least sexual parts of her body that you can think of. Like a knee. This shows appreciation of how great her body is. This takes up a lot of time. You have to combine licking, sucking, kissing, looking, rubbing, and caressing all together.

For instance kiss her nipple and lick it. Move your head back and look at it. It’s wet from your mouth. Make slow circles on it with a fingertip. After a little bit look in her eyes and keep touching her.

Glide your fingertips gently around her hips and thighs, between her legs but not touching her “there” yet.

Kiss her wrists, the inside of her elbows, the back of her neck.

Flip her over and give her a massage. Grab and feel her butt cheeks. Massage her calves.

Those are just some examples. I’m sure you can think of the rest. Just a quick tip: After using your fingertips in a certain spot, rub or grab it. The gentleness is kind of like getting the nerves ready.

Speak!

Tell her how hot she is. Tell her how much she turns you on and what you want to do to her. Don’t be corny or crass. “Damn, you’re sexy.” “I love your nipples” “You taste good” Things that will boost her confidence.

Buy her sexy lingerie.

No, really. During foreplay take her clothes off but leave the lingerie on for a while. I don’t know exactly how or why this one works but for some reason sometimes I feel I have more sex appeal with a bra and panties on. Perhaps it has to do with leaving something to the imagination?

Be rough

Sometimes we want to thrown up against the wall. Rip her clothes off, squeeze her ass. Pick her up and let her wrap her legs around you.

Smell good

Don’t overload on the cologne though. A man’s natural smell can be very arousing. There’s a happy medium you need to find: a perfect balance between artificial and natural scent.

Exposure

Skin to skin contact feels good. Laying on top of someone while you’re both naked is divine.

Atmosphere

Candles, music, and clean sheets are SO under-rated. Set the mood.

The most important factor is TIME. The longer you make us wait, the more satisfied we’ll be. If you only give her 2 minutes to get hot and horny and stick your dick in, there’s no time for anticipation. If you have really good self-restraint, lay her on her back with you on your knees between her legs. Rub her clit with your penis. She’ll probably end up sticking it in for you. (This drives me nuts )

Props

Use food. Most fruit is pretty safe to use with foreplay. If you’re going to be using it something edible for oral sex, don’t use anything that will be hard to wash out (sticky) or things with bacteria (yogurt). I prefer fruit because you can squeeze and orange slice over her slit and lick it off easier than if you were to pour honey all over. Whip cream is over-rated. I don’t like it. Also, when going down on her, suck on ice for a while and lick her or drink some hot coffee and go down on her.

Here’s (http://zoklet.net/bbsfaqs.html#SA) the S&A FAQ on Zok’s website. A good part of the things that turn on guys can turn on girls. Take note, I said a [i]a part not strip teasing, that’s just weird.

Hope that helps a little.

^^^ am i going to be wasting my time doing that if the girl:

1.doesnt appreciate it

2.thinks im wierd for lookin at her nipple for no reason

3.just wants my cock in her

i do do a lot of that stuff,but sometimes i feel it is pointless.i dunno.maybe i need a different kind of girl to rooty tooty.