Okay here we go......About 6 months ago i got with this beautiful girl. After about a month with her i find out she has a boyfriend.I was pretty pissed at first but obviously she didnt spend much time with him because she was always with me. Well her boyfriend beats her and shes terified of him.This kid is really fucked up in the head.So we stayed together for awhile until her boyfriends doctor put him on a bunch of pills and he started being nice again. So she started feeling bad. Then she told me she didnt like me even though she always stared at me and got nervous when i was near and when id go to hug her shed come near me and then all the sudden look around real quick then back away.So i stayed away from her for a month or so and then we got together a couple nights ago and she couldnt keep her hands off me and she was kissing and hugging me and all that good stuff. so i went over to her house yesterday and we watched a movie and at the beginning she was all over me then after a couple hours she wouldnt touch me and when ever i would like put my arm around her she would move it. What the hell? What should i do? I really love this girl and god...i cant think about anyone else. She also hints that were gonna be together but she never says when. I dont want to wait for something that might not come, but i also dont want to miss out on her.I mean yeah theres other girls that want me and ive been with lots of girls but never one like her. Should i just forget about her? If so how the hell do i get her off my mind? I dont mind being friends with. So What should i do? Thanks.

judging from her actions this girl hasn't the slightest idea of what she wants. this is quite common with girls and guys alike. i would forget about her. she kisses you and gropes you but by the end of the day she wants nothing to do with you? i think she just needs reassurance that she is cute, nice, desirable, etc. after the way her boyfriend treats her. definatly stay away from this one, she sounds kind of strange, and i doubt anything good with come from this. if she does come back to you after she breaks up with the boyfriend, turn her down. the best thing to do right now is find another girl. hopefully one that doesn't play these mind games as much (keep in mind that they all do), then she'll know that she fucked up and she won't mess with your feelings again. good luck.

[This message has been edited by smang (edited 08-02-2004).]

Move one! As smang says, this girl will most lightly give you nothing but bad news. It may be hard but remember, your're probably also experiencing infatuation which is very common at a young age.

This girl is fucked up. She is one of those girls that doesnt know what she wants. She wants to be with her boyfriend and she wants to fuck around with you.

What makes you think that if you get with her she wont go and cheat on you like shes doing with this guy.

Trust me this girl is playing you and shes already fucked up if shes staying with an abusive boyfreind. You dont want that girl she will only give you problems.

But if any of my "female" friend where being abused I would fuck that guy up I dont care if I go to jail for it.

You might want to take care of that first.

HEADFUCKER! SHES A HEADFUCKER!yeah man ive had a few of these,they just fuck with ya until you go insane.RUN!RUN NOW,LEST YOU LOSE ALL SANITY!

If things don't work now, then maybe they will later. I was in a situation like this and considering the fact they had their differences they broke up. I can definitely relate to the part where you say you can move on but you don't want to miss out. Just think positive and something wiill work out eventually.

What a sneaky little whore. Her boyfriend should give her twice the beatings for cheating with you.

thanks guys ill keep you updated and just FYI ive already beat the fuck out of him twice. At first i didnt believe her but i saw him one day and lost it. Then he tried to kill me.Big fucking mistake.

quote:Originally posted by Links56:

thanks guys ill keep you updated and just FYI ive already beat the fuck out of him twice. At first i didnt believe her but i saw him one day and lost it. Then he tried to kill me.Big fucking mistake.



I was just going to say before I read that to not believe her and not go beating people up just because of what she said.

Kill her, and bury her in a landfill in utah.

as d12 would put it:

"im gonna get my gun!"

quote:Originally posted by Links56:

thanks guys ill keep you updated and just FYI ive already beat the fuck out of him twice. At first i didnt believe her but i saw him one day and lost it. Then he tried to kill me.Big fucking mistake.

Good for you man and the girl is a moron if she is still with him. Honestly forget about her.

But yeah good for you.