**WARNING** Childish question ahead!!!



I love two girls at once. I'm really confused as to what to do.

The first girl I'm going out with and have been for quite some time, but things are kinda weird. There are a few things that bother us about the other. She kinda lives by a few double standards and a glass roof that she doesn't realize exists. She is a little TOO open with her past experiances in my opinion. It pisses her off when I talk to my ex or her friend on the internet. I have to admit a few things she does pisses me off. I've been more uptight with her, and kinda feel like a tool. I still love her though.

The second girl happens to be my ex. Well I really like this girl. I've had so many interesting conversations with her even after we broke up. We went out for about 3 weeks less than a year. I've always felt a little more free with her. I have rarely if ever pissed her off(very contrary to #1). She would never minded if I went and had a good time with friends. She is the nicest, kindest, most caring person I've ever known. I feel more comfortable her overall. I know that if the relationship ended with #1, 2 would gladly go out with me.

I love both of em man. i just don't know what to do. This sounds like some little junior high quesion, kinda pathetic. I kinda long for #2 but kinda find a way to break it to #1. I know she would cry and that would break my heart. I have had so many great times with both I'm just so torn in this. I thought a good night of rest and a hard day of work would help me forget about this, but apparently it hasn't.

Haha notice how now one is posting cause we are all pissed you bitching about 2 women while we have non. Bitch

Jk but for reals I think you should date them both see which one you like best. Girls change once you start dating them. See which one fits you best.

Your ex girlfriend is you ex for a reason. If those reasons have been resolved then you might want to pursue rekindling that relationship. If the cause(s) of your breakup are something that can't be changed (personality clashes for instance) then you might want to cool it with her.

You're giving your current girlfriend reason to be jealous, you are seriously contemplating leaving her for your ex. She's justified in being a little bitchy about you talking to your ex. You say she's "too open" with her past but it's her past, you however, are still dwelling in your past (by having feelings for an ex).

If you choose to be with your ex, break up with girlfriend before you "cheat" on her, although to me, falling in love anyone other than your girlfriend is cheating. (I'm going to get so much shit for that.) Anyway, break up with girl but don't immediately jump into this relationship with your ex. Spend a couple of weeks single, talk to your her and if a being with her is still something you want to do, then be with her.

If you find out that being with your ex wasn't all you expected don't you dare try to get back with the other girl. That would be selfish, inconsiderate, and manipulative.

However, if you do end up staying with your current significant other, stay with her! Relationships take work, it's not all flowers and hearts you know. Do what you can to settle your differences and resolve your problems, COMPROMISE. Also, cut off your ex for a while until those emotions die down, otherwise you'll keep questioning yourself if you did the right thing.

OR you could break with your girlfriend consider them both your exes and don't look back, but you won't do that.

UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES SHOULD YOU PLAY BOTH OF THEM. YOU WILL BE CAUGHT AND KARMA IS A BITCH.

Pick one. I fucked up one of my best realationships and kama has bitten me in the ass for it. Not only did I lose one really good friend but my current girlfriend made me promise I wouldent break up with her (I was drunk and she wasent as drunk) but the worst part is there is about 6 or 7 other girls who would really like to bed me and dont get me wrong im happy with my gf but we dissagree on so much and I don't want to break her heart by cheating on her because she tells me she loves me and shit. See the partial dilema im in?

OK its not that bad but when we fall out it's one huge ass problem.

#2,she sounds sweet,and more understanding.you will have a happier relationship with her.

The reason me and #2 broke was because

1.)her step dad died

2.)her dad had a triple bypass surgery

3.)We wern't moving at all(my fault)

4.) We both had a stuggle with depression

Now I do think i could be happier with 2....but I don't know if i have enough gull to break it with 1. I think i know a way, but that would involve pissing her off again. And just show her something.

Things have changed since you and #2 broke up right? You talk about things, you enjoy each other's company, etc.

I say you go for #2 and try to rekindle that flame dude!

#1 sounds like a pain in the arse...I should know coz I've been out with a few of them in my time!

Make sure you and your ex can make it work before breaking it off with this other chick...Logical!

Good luck man.

dude i dont know what gull means,but once again,dump#1 and go for #2

Wow thanks guys. First time I posted a topic on totse and didn't get flamed up the ass. Thank you for all the honest opinions. I talked to #1's best friend untill about 3 in the morning about her, her friend admits shes pretty conceited also.