Is it true that girls usually have their first orgasm later than guys. If so, then why? Is it physically harder for them to reach orgasm, or is it for some social/emotional reason? I'm just trying to clear up the truth, here.

[This message has been edited by HARDMAN (edited 07-27-2004).]

never heard that.

Uh... what?

You mean during sex, or overall? If you mean overall, then it's certainly not true. Otherwise, I have no idea, because I myself have never had one.

Do you mean that guys usually have their first orgasm before girls? Because I have heard that. I figure it's probably because girls tend not to learn about or figure out masturbation until they get older. And guys don't know how to do it right, nor do they often care, so the chicks just don't have one until they either figure it out for themselves or a guy does it for them.

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

If you mean overall, then it's certainly not true.... I myself have never had one.[/B]

And you are how old?

quote:I figure it's probably because girls tend not to learn about or figure out masturbation until they get older. And guys don't know how to do it right, nor do they often care, so the chicks just don't have one until they either figure it out for themselves or a guy does it for them.

Nuh-uh. Not in my case, anyway. I started masturbating pretty early on, and have never even gotten close to an orgasm. My pussy is dumb.

He was saying most chicks had a first orgasm before guys, which makes absolutely no sense to me. It's much easier for a guy to get to orgasm than a girl.

Stephanina, why the hell do you not masturbate?

quote:Stephanina, why the hell do you not masturbate?

Because I never get anywhere

In response to the "how old are you" question, I am pretty young. Young enough for you to retort, "well, of course you haven't had one!" This of course disproves your point, because most guys have their first orgasms at an extremely young age.

Most of my girl friends claim to have had orgasms (I say "claim" because I don't think they have- they just think they have).

quote:Originally posted by Optimus Prime:

Stephanina, why the hell do you not masturbate?

she didn't say that. She said that she does masturbate (or at least has), but has never reached orgasm.

stephanina: I noticed that most girls either start masturbating when they're pretty young, or they just plain don't do it at all (or until they're older and more experienced). This makes the average age higher than it is for guys. ...I guess...

I imagine the dude who made this thread either misheard some information, or mistyped it.

Oh shit, sorry everyone I got my words mixed up. I meant guys have their first orgasm before girls. I'll just edit that now.

I don't know if I've had an orgasm. It's not as clear for girls as it is for guys. There's (usually) no liquid that shoots out, and there's no ending of horniness when the female orgasm occurs. This rather confuses me. What the hell is a female orgasm? Muscle contractions, a "sneeze-like" feeling... when I sneeze, I don't feel like sneezing anymore. As far as I have read/heard, girls stay horny after they cum/come. ...I don't understand!

quote:Oh shit, sorry everyone I got my words mixed up. I meant guys have their first orgasm before girls. I'll just edit that now.

In that case, you're right.

Most guys have their first orgasms very young, while some girls don't climax until... forever.

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

...I don't understand!

...But it's fun trying to figure out the answer, right? Right?!

Stephanina, can you tried applying direct stimulation to the clit? A lot of women can get off by just rubbing the lips and the hood, some need more intense pressure and require VERY direct stimulation.

I've tried everything. This is so depressing.

I've failed at being a girl.

Stephanina, how old are you really? You can't be that young because in a previous post about plastic surgery, you claimed you needed a breast reduction for your comfort.

I'm 15.

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

I've tried everything. This is so depressing.

I've failed at being a girl.

Damn it, you've made me feel sad. That can't be good, so try this (http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/) page...

I'll have to try that later, thank you...

As for my boobies, they're not enormous but they are big enough to cause me discomfort. Some of you may not think they're that big, but they're pretty big from my perspective and still growing. This is why I brought up the subject of plastic surgery. Mind you, I don't think I'd ever actually go through with the procedure.

I hate it when girls tell me they hate their boobs and want implants. It pisses me off. Who cares? I know this one girl who has perfect 34 C and she wants implants. I believe it's another, "im fat" thing. The girl just wants you to assure her and she wants you to say shes not fat or doesn't need implants.

I would never date a girl who didn't feel comfortable enough in herself. Don't mess with your body. It's perfect the way it is.

I don't want them to look better. I want reductions! Are you blind? Comfort! They LOOK good to me.

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

I don't want them to look better. I want reductions! Are you blind? Comfort! They LOOK good to me.

Maybe I didn't make it clear that I knew what you were saying. I'm giving another example of plastic surgery and saying it's fucking stupid and using this girl I know as a subject to base it on. My example was implants. In your case, it would be making your boobs smaller, which is just as fucking stupid as getting implants.

I've pretty much always been able to get myself off manually. And I discovered that little trick when I was 9. Of course, I didn't know what it was I was doing until I was 13 or so, but still, it amounts to the same thing.

However, as far as vaginal orgasms go, I didn't have one of those until I was with my husband. The guy I lost my virginity to wasn't concerned about my pleasure, to say the least. That was at 16, and I didn't have sex again until I was 19, and by then it was pretty much like being a virgin again, minus the hymen. And he was ... incredibly, painfully large, at least for me, so while it was ... interesting, it wasn't particularly pleasurable. At least, not orgasmically pleasurable. Ya know what I mean? Anyway....

I'm still slightly confused as to what dude is asking, so I'll just relay that information, and leave it at that.

Steph, do you have pelvic exams yet? If you do go to the gyno, you might consider asking him/her about your lack of orgasms. It's possible that you're not doing something right, but there's also a slim possibility that something's wrong with your wiring. I'm not saying that to freak you out. I just have a friend who has that problem. She's still able to enjoy sex, but she doesn't ever orgasm. Anyway, you might want to look into it, but really, I wouldn't worry. Probably you're still just young, and inexperienced. Give yourself a few years.

Sorry for the double post.

Paintball: Do you have tits? Do you have large tits? So do you know what the hell you're talking about?

Right. No. Didn't think so.

It's her choice to reduce the size of her breasts for her comfort and future fucking HEALTH if she wishes. The only ignorant and stupid thing here is you. Until you know what the fuck you're talking about, shut the fuck up and sit the fuck down.

Idiot male.

Haha, I see why everyone hates Lilly now.

She should be happy she has ginormis tits anyway. And all I am saying is people are perfect the way they are. Maybe it doesn't refer to comfort, but I think it's fucking stupid to get implants. The reason being, don't be someone you arn't because you are perfect the way you are.

We're Americans, damnit, and we'll hack away at any and every body part until it suits our needs and desires.

On topic: It takes some time for many women to become accustomed to their body responses. When seeking that elusive first orgasm, it's hard to know what to look for. It's been compared to a sneeze, the kind you can feel building up until it finally bursts forth, and feels damn good when it does.

Here's some light reading. (http://femaleorgasmsecrets.com/)

[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 07-27-2004).]

You stole my linkz0r!

EDiT: Mine was so well hidden I've got to laugh at the alien space ships that stone hedge does, if anything at wrong hands at all?

... Umm... Where did that come from?

[This message has been edited by Gustave (edited 07-27-2004).]

Oopsie! Heh, that's what I get for "skimming" the posts. Hurrrr....

quote:Originally posted by paintballprep:



Haha, I see why everyone hates Lilly now.

She should be happy she has ginormis tits anyway. And all I am saying is people are perfect the way they are. Maybe it doesn't refer to comfort, but I think it's fucking stupid to get implants. The reason being, don't be someone you arn't because you are perfect the way you are.

Everyone hates me cause... hell, I don't know.

Anyway, I may have come off a little... bitchy. Fuck it, I'm a bitch. I'm a HUGE bitch. However, I'm also a bitch that's right. You don't have huge titz0rz, so you don't know what you're saying about it being stupid for a woman with huge titz0rz to have them reduced. I happen to be a woman with huge titz0rz, and as soon as I have the money (and I convince my hubby that'll I still have some when I'm done), I'm going to have a reduction myself.

Overly large breats can lead to serious back problems later in life. And some women (myself included), could lose all the weight they wanted, and never lose any boob. Sometimes, operations are the only way.

Don't call someone stupid for making a medically sound decision.

And who the fuck mentioned anything about implants, anyway, paintball?

Hey, here's some medically-sound advice for you: Grow a brain!

<Butthead>Uhh-huhuh, some people are dumb. </Butthead>

[This message has been edited by Bleedthrough (edited 07-27-2004).]

i didnt have my first orgasm for two years of fucking,and im a dude.sucked arse.

quote:Originally posted by Lilly:

Everyone hates me cause... hell, I don't know.

I dont hate you Lilly

*gives Lilly a BIG hug*

EDIT: Spelling

[This message has been edited by YOUBITME (edited 07-27-2004).]

Just lick the clit bumbass

quote:In your case, it would be making your boobs smaller, which is just as fucking stupid as getting implants.

First of all, this is not the plastic surgery thread, so I don't know why you brought up the implants thing. Secondly, getting reductions is not as "stupid" as getting implants because implants (I agree) show you're insecure with yourself. I don't mind the way my tits look. I think they're good-looking. That doesn't change the fact that they hurt and they inhibit my activities and make everything really uncomfortable. So it's easy for you to say it's "stupid" to make your boobs smaller, but you don't have to live with the huge knockers.

EDIT:

quote:And all I am saying is people are perfect the way they are.

If I'm so perfect, why does my chest hurt all the time? Why can't I find (attractive) bras that fit me? Why can't I run without being stared at? Why do I have to hold my boobies while walking down stairs? And, as Lilly pointed out, why will I have back problems later in life?

This is not an "I'm fat" fishing for compliments thing. It's an "ow sorry you can't feel me up today, I had to go jogging in gym class" thing. As well as that, I'm fully expecting people on this forum to assume I have these humungoid ugly basketball-sized things. Which isn't really true, but I'm certainly not trying to impress anyone.

And as for your friend will the perfect C cups, if I were to get a reduction (which will probably never happen), I would go down to a 34C. So it's really not for superficial reasons. It's for health and everyday lack-of-pain reasons. So shut up, because if you had these huge things on the front of you, you'd want them to be smaller no matter how good they looked to other people.

[This message has been edited by stephanina (edited 07-27-2004).]

The reason its harder for girls to orgasm is because their clit is just an extra organ that remains after the fetus changes into a boy or a girl like nipples on a guy.

quote:Originally posted by MrVitrol:

The reason its harder for girls to orgasm is because their clit is just an extra organ that remains after the fetus changes into a boy or a girl like nipples on a guy.

yeah... that's it...

fucking retard

zip it femnazi or ill start making silly threads asking how i could orgasm from just tweaking my nipples.

ps. is it that time of the month again :x



[This message has been edited by MrVitrol (edited 07-28-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by MrVitrol:

zip it femnazi or ill start making thread asking how i can orgasm from just tweaking my nipples

Can you orgasm from tweaking your nipples? If not, it would be a stupid thread.

^^I do like the way Glitter gets to the point.

Even though the ontogenesis might be something like that, it has nothing to do with orgasms. The clitoris has as many nerve endings as the head of the penis. Considering the difference in size, that's a major difference in the concentration.

[This message has been edited by deadlycindy (edited 09-04-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by MrVitrol:

The reason its harder for girls to orgasm is because their clit is just an extra organ that remains after the fetus changes into a boy or a girl like nipples on a guy.

Actually, no. As cindy said, the clitoris has as many nerve endings as the head of a penis. Now then, would you like to know why?

*class chirps: "Why Mrs. Lilly?"*

As a fetus, before your sexual organs start to take shape, you have what basically amounts to a lump of flesh between your legs. Once your body begins to differiante itself, and form sexual organs, the lump to the front either elongates into a penis, or shrinks back down to form the clit. And the larger lump of flesh beneathe either becomes testitcles, or shifts around to form the vulva, or lips. As far as I know, the body doesn't just leave "extra parts" lying around. Granted, evolution has made some organs more or less unnecessary, but mother nature is working on that.

I think they only extra body part in this thread would be, perhaps, in your head?

For future reference, if you're going to make an attempt to sound smart, at least do some research and know what you're talking about.

I think part of it might be that alot of women reach orgasm for the first time through clitoral stimulation. That is how most young girls start out maturbating.

And some actually take years to reach orgasm just through Cock into Vagina sex, due to the fact that they are used to the clitorial stimulated orgasm. Some never even reach it at all.

I think the information that girls typically have orgasms later then guys might be a miscommunication. Some may not consider it an orgasm unless it is brought on by regular sex.



[This message has been edited by KnowingYouNow (edited 07-28-2004).]

quote:Originally posted by GlitterPunk112358:

Can you orgasm from tweaking your nipples? If not, it would be a stupid thread.

it was asking how would i be able to do it,u were obviously caught out by my poor and now edited grammar :P

quote:Originally posted by stephanina:

I've tried everything. This is so depressing.

I've failed at being a girl.

Have you tried your g-spot?

Girls can't have an orgasm. Who the fuck told you this horrible lie?

Did y'all know that the clitoris seems to have no function other than sexual pleasure? Guys don't have such a frivolous organ.

I suspect that since guys genitals are more out there than a womans that they experience a variety of stimulation more frequently thus becoming more aware of their pleasure zones.

Since a women clitoris is somewhat enclosed and protected, stimulation is probably less likely unless it is intentional, therefore women might sometimes be less aware of our pleasure zones.

This is my guess at least.

Why is the female orgasm "elusive"? And yet a guy can cum in 2 seconds.

Maybe it's a population inhibitor.

Just imagine if girls were as sexually driven as males.

There would be at least 50 billion people on earth.

women HAVE orgasms??????????????????????????