I started going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me [I'm 16]. I'm still a virgin and he's had, a lot of sex, to be blunt. I'm pretty inexperienced, so I'm wondering what to do. He said it's fine, but I'm pretty sure a guy can't live on kissing and stuff. Any comments, suggestions, or flames?

You said you're inexperienced, not a prude. It's not a question of what you've done, but what you're willing to do.

That said, I don't think it's a huge problem. Do whatever feels alright to you. If he's still unsatisfied, he can whack off.

You'll be wanting to cave in to his needs/wants. He'll be wanting to get into your pants. If my calculations are correct you won't be a virgin much longer. Seriously, if it doesn't feel right, don't let yourself feel pressured into doing anything you aren't comfortable with. You'll know when the time is right.

i suggest you do what you feel like and you'l be fine, just follow your needs and desires and if you do everything save, you'll be fine

There is nothing wrong with that.

Even if he wants to fuck your brains out, don't let him until you're ready. I know that I regret losing my virginity to early and I'm a guy for fuck's sake. if you don't want to have sex yet, don't. I also don't recommend throwing your inhabitions aside after drinking or smoking, you'll regret it in the morning.

I've gone through probably a dozen quickies, and now that I've met a girl and fallen inlove with her, eventually it'll be her first time but I won't be able to share that as mine also. We have been together for quite a while, but not had sex and it isn't a problem for me to the slightest, if he really wants you then he'll wait. (But not forever. (Assuming he's smart.))

quote:Originally posted by Syko:

There is nothing wrong with that.

Even if he wants to fuck your brains out, don't let him until you're ready. I know that I regret losing my virginity to early and I'm a guy for fuck's sake. if you don't want to have sex yet, don't. I also don't recommend throwing your inhabitions aside after drinking or smoking, you'll regret it in the morning.

I've gone through probably a dozen quickies, and now that I've met a girl and fallen inlove with her, eventually it'll be her first time but I won't be able to share that as mine also. We have been together for quite a while, but not had sex and it isn't a problem for me to the slightest, if he really wants you then he'll wait. (But not forever. (Assuming he's smart.))

Couldn't have said it better myself!

quote:Originally posted by PSYCH0TIK:

...but I'm pretty sure a guy can't live on kissing and stuff

You right, guys live on food and water. Fuck him if he can't wait, there's no reason you should be feeling you need to have sex with him to keep him around. If that is the case, then he's not worth your time.